YorkieTalk.com Forums - Yorkshire Terrier Community

YorkieTalk.com Forums - Yorkshire Terrier Community (https://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/index.php)
-   Yorkies For Sale or Wanted (https://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yorkies-sale-wanted/)
-   -   Wanted: Morkie Female Pup (https://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yorkies-sale-wanted/211027-wanted-morkie-female-pup.html)

JDS 08-23-2010 04:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Furbaby Friend (Post 3248488)
The reasons I wouldn't want a purebred Yorkie include, but are not limited to, the fact that they are notoriously difficult to potty train. I live with my parents still (instead of dorming while I'm in college to save money) and my mother doesn't take well to messes. Now I've discussed with her the rules of potty training and that there will be accidents and it will take awhile, but I've read it is not uncommon for Yorkies to be quite a bit more difficult to train in that area. I'm sure this applies to training in general as well? They are also known for being more energetic and I'd like a little bit of a more mellow personality. And for the shallow reason, my mum didn't like the look of them as much as the Morkie and she does have some say in the purchase.

The reasons I wouldn't want a purebred Maltese include, but are not limited to, the fact that the few I've met were so lethargic to the point where I didn't really consider them dogs anymore... They acted more like cats, which is fine if that is what you're looking for! Another is that my mum had a purebred Maltese when she was younger and loved it to bits, but then it tragically passed away and that was what made her swear off dogs up until this point when she felt ready for another! She made me promise no purebred Maltese though. :/ And the last (and I admit completely shallow reason) is that, in general, I don't like all white fur dogs.

Morkies are easier to potty train because of the Maltese in them (or so I read/hear), are colored (although it can vary from black/tan, to gray/silver, to caramel, etc. basically half a dozen things because they are mixed), and have a bit of spunk in personality from the Yorkie side, but are a bit more mellow thanks to the Maltese. I've seen this first hand as well, but I realize every pup is different and I would need to meet my forever friend before committing to her (chances are I would just accept any deviance from anything listed here...because I'm a sucker and just love the furballs :P). Plus, that little guy in the store just melted my heart... and it is hard to let go of something once you fall in love with it.

Now this is not an extensive list of reasons either, but I feel this should be sufficient enough. Even if my reasoning was, "I just want one" it is a personal choice that should be respected. :) I'm a bit more thorough than that though!

I'm sorry & I'm not trying to be rude but your reasons for wanting a yorkie/maltese mix does not make any sense to me. When you mix breeds, you have no idea what the pup will look like & certainly no idea what temperment it will have. So, you could still end up with potty training issues, a light coated morkie, & the temperment that you did not desire.

I know you've looked at rescues...your best bet to get exactly what you want is to buy or adopt an adult. That may take some time & patience on your part. But it should yield better results for you & your mom. With a puppy (even a morkie) the coat changes as it grows, so you really have no idea what it will look like as an adult. And you have no guarantee how easy or hard it will be to potty train or if the pup will be spunky or more laid back.

I honesly have no advice for you on where to look for a morkie other than rescues or shelters b/c as we've already stated you're not going to find a reputable breeder breeding morkies. I wouldn't trust a breeder that breeds mixes, so I can't in good faith recommend anyone to you. I really do wish you the best of luck finding a new puppy for your family. It's gonna take time so be patient & I would advise against rushing into any decision...that's how a lot of pups end up in rescues. :(

Deuce 08-23-2010 05:09 AM

Sorry, but what you said about why a "morkie" is the dog for you is what threw me off and I suppose upset me a bit so I gave you a response that fit my attitude. Plus it annoys me that people breed mutts when the animal shelters are so overpopulated with mutts and even purebreeds because people didn't like how long it takes to potty train them, or because their apartment "suddenly" decided dogs are not allowed or because they realized that they "don't have the time required to raise a puppy" Again I apologize for that, you situation sounds great for a new puppy, however again I say, because you are getting a mutt you can't predict which traits the puppy will pull from which breed. During your extensive research you should have read that somewhere.
You may find your "breeder" that has "morkies" and the pup will be happy and healthy and will be a perfect fit...until about a week later when they are used to the atmosphere and the "Yorkshire Terror" comes out of them :D.
When you meet up with this "breeder" just be sure to meet and play with both parents as well, from there you should get a good feel for their temperment and that could be an indicator of how your puppy will be when it gets older.
Unfortunatly I do not know of any reputable breeders that breed for mutts, but you can always check with your local shelter and see what they have that may not have been posted up yet because they have been recently dropped off, or a yorkie or maltese rescue may have the perfect little "morkie" for you. I still recommend adopting an adult so you can aviod getting a puppy that winds up resembling a yorkie in all but coat.
Rescue Me Yorkie Rescue
Find a Maltese Dog Rescue
http://www.greatdogsite.com/hybrids/details/Morkie/

yorkie_mama22 08-23-2010 08:31 AM

It could take time to find what your looking for. I'd say your best bet is to wait and get an adult. In all honesty I have a yorkie poodle mix which looks nothing like a poodle! You wouldn't guess she was mixed except she has very large perky ears for a yorkie. Maybe her body is more of the poodle but she has the potty training issues you are looking to avoid! She will be 2 in October and STILL has accidents! This isn't something you will avoid just because you get a mix.

I really dout you will find a GOOD breeder who mixes dogs. You will find people who are doing it for the wrong reasons. Why would you like to give someone money who is just overpolulating the world with mixed dogs? I bought my mix on Kijiji from a lady who bought her 1 week before me and was selling her because she was too "hyper" and wanted too much attention. This just goes to show that your mix is not going to be the best of both breeds. My dog was rehomed 3 times because she wasn't what people were expecting. I think your expectations are quite high for a mixed dog.

I really feel that you may run into some problems as your mom doesn't want messes in the house, this is what will happen with a puppy. LOTS of messes and possibly accidents for the entire life of your dog. Maybe a yorkie mix is just not the best option for you?

Furbaby Friend 08-23-2010 03:24 PM

Alright...
 
First off, let me clarify a few things. I’m aware the appearance issue is a shallow factor, as such I rate it appropriately on the “want” scale. Appearance isn’t all that important to me, however, it is a factor on the decision scale no matter how far down it is on that scale, so I thought it prudent to include it. If my furbaby love ended up hairless, once I fell in love I really wouldn’t care. Personality is top on my list, which you can get an idea of if you 1. Meet the parents 2. Meet and spend time with the pup before adoption and 3. Know the traits of the breeds you are mixing and accept the fact that you can get any mix of the two.
I was simply describing my ideal pup situation. I know very well that might not happen. It is just like how you dream of your ideal kid or ideal family or ideal love, but reality is almost never like your ideal. The Maltese and Yorkies I’ve met have not been *exactly* what I am looking for, although they have *aspects* of what I’m *ideally* looking for. Would I be content with either of them? Yes, and I’d take them with open and loving arms if they were my only option (well we’d end up taking a Yorkie actually, because of my mum), but I have the option to try a mix of the two.
As many people on these boards have said many times, good breeders breed true characteristic traits in, reducing variation or deviance from those traits. Thus, you get a pretty standard pup, which means no chance of getting the possible mix my family is looking for. I know that there is no guarantee that I will be getting the “ideal mix” with a Morkie, but there is a slim chance the perfect little darling will pop out. If I ended up with a dog that looked exactly like a Yorkie and acted exactly like a Yorkie, it isn’t like I would throw it out on the street. That is just inhumane and horrible and a stupid,irresponsible thing to do on my part. Would you just throw a baby you brought into the world out on the street for any of the reasons I listed for not necessarily wanting a purebred? No? Well it isn’t like I think it would be okay to do something like that either!
That being said. I did notice the Morkies I met barked far less than the Yorkies I met and were slightly more energetic than the Maltese I met. I know this does not mean my future baby will be so, but there is a chance. This is just my personal experience. ::shrug::
Hell, I wish my kitty Suki had turned out different in some ways, but she is what she is and I love her to bits anyway. We found her as a 2 year old stray and, even though she was supposed to stay the same (as she was already fully grown), she herself has changed drastically over the last 6 years and I don’t love her any less for it.
To address my mom not liking the mess. Let me rephrase myself a bit. Who actually *likes* potty in the house? Anyone? Didn’t think so, and my mother doesn’t either. As previously stated, my mom did have a Maltese, so she's not new to the small breed complications in potty training. She knows what she's in for with messes. It is just that she'd like to reduce the probability of them if at all possible, but she wouldn’t throw a fit if there were accidents. I've gotten from more than just the "danger breeders" that Yorkies are harder to train and that a mix might cut that a bit (as Maltese, are supposedly a bit easier) and it might not, but there is always a chance. Again it depends on the individual pup and NO ONE can predict with 100% accuracy what an individual pup will be like, it is just purebreds are more reliably predicted.
My mother and I would never get rid of an animal just because it didn't fit our perfect little picture. One of our previous cats ended up with severe kidney issues. She peed all over the darn place because she just couldn't help it. Did we get rid of her? Nope, we found a solution and worked with her because we loved her. She lived a long and happy life and we loved her till the day she passed.
So I guess what I’m saying is, don’t think I’m some pampered princess who would get rid of a pup at the drop of a hat just because it wasn’t the ideal. All because I want a mix breed instead of a purebred. That isn’t a fair assessment and it kind of hurts that you would jump all over someone that is just looking for some help. I thought it was implied, since I did seek a rescue dog first, that I understand that you don't just get rid of an animal because it wasn’t as easy as you thought. I understand that a pup is a member of the family and you don't just abandon your family during the hard times.

I have been patient in my search and will continue to be so. If I wanted to rush into a purchase I would have just bought that pup I saw months ago that day in the pet store and never had another thought about it. However, since I am the person I am, I left it and went home and did the research and now I’m looking for options *other than the ones I’ve already looked into and tried.* I get the rescue thing and I’ve done it, so we can stop pushing that particular topic. If I get a call I will gladly take them.
I know I have been responding to people on an individual basis up until now, but that will be coming to an end unless I deem it pertinent. If anyone has any new applicable advice to share or an alternate solution to my predicament I will gladly take it. However, if you have anything to say about my personal choice and how you dislike it or accuse me of not being ready for such a responsibility. I will just say this.
It is my choice if I want a mix. You also don’t know me or what kind of effort I’ve put into this or how prepared I am for a new family member to love, so stop making blind judgments and telling me that I need to stop and rethink things because it “sounds like I’m not ready for a small breed dog.” I’ve done the research and I know what I want. I *specifically* asked for help on locating a good place to find a Morkie and I *specifically* said in my original post that I didn’t want people’s opinions on how mixed breeds aren’t good or that I should get a purebred, and I *certainly* didn’t ask for judgments on if I was ready to be a good mother to my pup. I know I am capable of being a loving, caring parent and what kind of person I am. I am in fact, more informed to make that judgment of character than you. As I know myself better than anyone here knows me.
That being said. I will not respond to any further accusations against my preparedness, my character, or my choice in pet. I will however respond to any help with my original question.
I’d like to again say thank you all for your responses, the good and even the alternative opinions are all appreciated because I know you took the time to try and have an impact (even if I didn’t agree). <3

P.S. I’m sorry if this came off as defensive or “mean” to anyone, but it is hard having everyone basically put down your choice in a mix you fell in love with and then start judging your personal character. I feel it is unfair that I feel the need to defend myself as a human being now. I will be sticking with my vow to not respond to anything I deem unrelated from this point on. If you have anything to say against me or my choice in pet, take it to your own thread to discuss. Thank you all for your input so far.

JeanieK 08-23-2010 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Furbaby Friend (Post 3248488)
First of all, I'd again like to thank everyone for taking the time to respond here. I really do appreciate it.

Dodobelle: Thank you for the input, but it seems your breeder is based in Kansas and requires pick up (which is a good thing in reality, but a bit tough for me to get to!). So it wouldn't be an option for me anyway. If I was going to make a trip to Kansas, I saw an adorable rescue litter of Morkies on petfinder last week that I would have scooped up right away!

Reese1: That is true, even I didn't realize the pet store I was at was supplied by something as traumatizing as a puppy mill. :/ Luckily for me, I always do *a lot* of research before a huge purchase and I uncovered it in my pursuit of knowledge. I felt so bad that I even thought about purchasing from a person like that, even if I was uninformed at the time. I would love for a shelter to come through and bring my furbaby to me, but it is proving difficult.

JeanieK: Well I've done a lot of research and reading, and I've also met purebreds of both types in person which led me to a few conclusions. Some of them are shallower reasons I'll admit it (I'm an honest person like that) and some are not.

The reasons I wouldn't want a purebred Yorkie include, but are not limited to, the fact that they are notoriously difficult to potty train.

What makes you think that the morkie will be easier to train, it is half yorkie.

I live with my parents still (instead of dorming while I'm in college to save money) and my mother doesn't take well to messes. Now I've discussed with her the rules of potty training and that there will be accidents and it will take awhile, but I've read it is not uncommon for Yorkies to be quite a bit more difficult to train in that area. I'm sure this applies to training in general as well? They are also known for being more energetic and I'd like a little bit of a more mellow personality. And for the shallow reason, my mum didn't like the look of them as much as the Morkie and she does have some say in the purchase.

The reasons I wouldn't want a purebred Maltese include, but are not limited to, the fact that the few I've met were so lethargic to the point where I didn't really consider them dogs anymore...

What makes you think that a morkie will be more energetic than a maltese, but less than a yorkie? The genes don't mix and average out, you either get one or you get the other.

They acted more like cats, which is fine if that is what you're looking for! Another is that my mum had a purebred Maltese when she was younger and loved it to bits, but then it tragically passed away and that was what made her swear off dogs up until this point when she felt ready for another! She made me promise no purebred Maltese though. :/ And the last (and I admit completely shallow reason) is that, in general, I don't like all white fur dogs.

Morkies are easier to potty train because of the Maltese in them (or so I read/hear), are colored (although it can vary from black/tan, to gray/silver, to caramel, etc. basically half a dozen things because they are mixed), and have a bit of spunk in personality from the Yorkie side, but are a bit more mellow thanks to the Maltese. I've seen this first hand as well, but I realize every pup is different and I would need to meet my forever friend before committing to her (chances are I would just accept any deviance from anything listed here...because I'm a sucker and just love the furballs :P). Plus, that little guy in the store just melted my heart... and it is hard to let go of something once you fall in love with it.

Now this is not an extensive list of reasons either, but I feel this should be sufficient enough. Even if my reasoning was, "I just want one" it is a personal choice that should be respected. :) I'm a bit more thorough than that though!

DvlshAngel985: Thank you for the kudos, I really am trying! I swear I'm not some evil puppy mill feeding menace. <3

I know that they vary in everything due to the mix. Like I said I've done a TON of reading. I will admit I was surprised to find how much they change as they age. You can start with a tan/black pup and end up with a silver adult. Luckily, appearance isn't everything :) Although, I will admit I would prefer the tan/black combo. Size is relatively important too as my mother did not want a large dog (we would have bought a purebred lab from my aunt if that was the case). I would be happy with anything below 15-16lbs and it seems Morkies fall well within that.

I have put my name in at some breed specific rescues. There weren't many I could locate in my area (although there were many many more "toy" rescues, so I put in at those). I did find quite a few breed specific rescues in Ohio though so I put in for those (as they are within my 5 hour drive limitation I set for myself). I haven't heard of your two suggestions though, so I will definitely look into them this week!

Funny you should post petfinder links. I was recommended to that site right away by a friend and I've been checking it, but no luck with the Maltese/Yorkie mix in the 5 hour radius so far for me. I did get a hit on a beautiful 1 yr. old girl, but the rescue said that she was pending when I contacted them (they offered to call me if it didn't pan out, but it's been a bit since then so I assume she was snapped up).

LOL I already put in a request on Bonnie earlier this week (we'll see how it works out, these little guys are pretty popular. This being my first dog often pushes me to the lower end of the preferred list, maybe I should tell them it isn't my mum's first dog?).

As for Sandi, my mom already vetoed earlier this week for various reasons. She in reality gets the final say. Also, we have a cat (Suki) who may or may not take advantage of the potential blind spot >_<

The "no name" requires a home visit. "As such we request potential adopters be within 1 hour traveling distance." I'm not eligible due to the distance, and I can't put in for Pebbles because she is a special needs dog and she deserves the extra care she needs (which I don't think I could adequately give her).

Surprisingly, the required home visit for rescues and the distance they are willing to travel is often the kicker because while I will travel 5 hours to get my potential furbaby, they cannot travel 5 hours to do a home visit :/

Thanks again for all your input guys! I'm still searching for my forever friend, but I have faith I'll find her soon. ^_^

I'm concerned that you are expecting way to much out of this puppy and you will be terribly disappointed when it does not live up to your expectations of the "perfect' puppy.

DvlshAngel985 08-23-2010 06:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JeanieK (Post 3249345)
I'm concerned that you are expecting way to much out of this puppy and you will be terribly disappointed when it does not live up to your expectations of the "perfect' puppy.

Hey OP, it seems like you have a specific image of what kind of puppy you want. That's ok, I did too. But in order to have a dog that has all those qualities you're better off adopting an adult. You will get the look and temperament you are looking for. Also, for training, as long as you spend a min of 15 mins everyday, and you find what motivates them you'll do fine. Yorkies are smart little dogs and they can be trained amazingly well, or they can train you amanzingly well, which means they get away with everything.

Sorry I keep referring to a yorkie. Kaji is my very first dog and he and his disposition is all I know. His and his little friends personalities of course! :D Which are all different by the way. I have yet to meet two yorkies that are exactly alike in personalities.

Furbaby Friend 08-23-2010 06:39 PM

DvlshAngel985: I do have an ideal image in mind, but who doesn't when they are thinking up an idea in their head? Reality is always much much different :) Would I actually like all these things to manifest themselves in one cute fluffy little body? Yes, but I also realize that is not going to happen.

"Sorry I keep referring to a yorkie. Kaji is my very first dog and he and his disposition is all I know. His and his little friends personalities of course! :D Which are all different by the way. I have yet to meet two yorkies that are exactly alike in personalities."

It's quite alright, you are just proud of your baby for one and for another you're talking in terms you know. Experience is valuable after all and should be respected. I know every individual dog is different, they are like little people after all! :) Which is why you should really be prepared for anything.

Getting a dog is like adopting a child. You should love them and care for them and do what's best for them. When it comes down to it, you love your kids no matter what and I'm absolutely positive I will love my furbaby, no matter her color/size/personality/whatever else, in the end. I will do what's best for her and I will make sure she is taken care of until the end of her days.

I don't demand, or even expect, that she will grow up into the ideal image in my head and that isn't a problem for me. I still want a furbaby to love and I will love her possible deviations/illness/issues and all.

Deuce 08-23-2010 10:54 PM

"*other than the ones I’ve already looked into and tried.* I get the rescue thing and I’ve done it, so we can stop pushing that particular topic."

The reason everyone is pushing a rescue is because we don't want to see another greeder benefiting because someone fell in love with a "designer" mutt. You wanted to know where to find a reputable "morkie" breeder and we have informed you that you will not find a reputable breeder that will breed for mutts. I will always push rescues and shelters on someone that wants a mutt, with any luck this "hybrid" or "designer" mutt phenomenon will pass but I doubt it will as long as people are still purchasing mutts from byb's and petstores.
Good luck with your search, since you've decided to be patient you will find the perfect mutt in a rescue, maybe not a local one but eventually someone will abandon your perfect pet.

Kyralayloni 08-24-2010 12:08 AM

1 Attachment(s)
I hope this may help some about a morkie. Back when I was about 5, my mom found a dog that someone left on the side of the highway. We found out she had car sickness, so we think they just let her out of the car. She was half starved and almost dead. She was around 2 yrs. old. I loved her. I named her Dorothy from the wizard of oz. nickname Dorf, (I couldn't say my th's) and it stuck. Anyhow she was a mix yorkie something. She lived tell I was 17yrs old. Oh I loved her. So about 7 yrs ago I was searching what she might be mixed with. and I started to see maltese/yorkie mixes some would look like and some not. She was white with tan were the black was. Well needless to say they were already calling them morkies, but they also were only like 100 to 200 dollars then. when prices of pure were still way high. It wasn't until last year that I finally got mine. It was so hard to find one I searched for 3 months trying to find what I thought would turn out like her. I hit it right on, but what a price I had to pay well to much and more. She was very small and got hypoglycemia almost lost her. She came to me darker caramel colored and knowing yorkies turned colors I was hoping hers were going to be more blondish. I missed her caramels though when she changed.One down downfall was she is a cotton coat which mats up and I was hoping to grow her longer nope has to be short. She is potty trained well but I had a baby play pen for her set up when I couldn't give her 100% attention when she was out. She has both traits of each side. She barks at everything, she looks like a maltese but is terrier when she sees a squirrel or mouse go by ha ha its funny the chase is on. She has racked up a lot of bills with the vet. in the beginning get health ins. it helps. So I decided to get her a friend because my husband and her feel in love. I wanted one too, so I got a pure breed yorkie male this time mostly because I love yorkies and this forum kinda made me think twice about mixed breeds, (after the fact). I wanted long hair I could play with. Well he is the sweetest little thing and its funny he is calmer than her in most cases. Does not bark, did potty train fast got lucky I also had him fixed at 5 months. He does have the chase drive in him but omg my Ayla is much more yorkie then he is. One thing is socialize them and take obedience training class it will connect you both and family usually all can go its amazing how fast they learn. I had ayla at 8weeks, I know to young found that out the hard way, but she was sitting for me on the first day. another thing treat all good behavior the reward are awsome in the end. The morkie figured out how to fake pee on her pad for a treat they are not stupid. lol So would I do it again probably but different I would go to the house like one said, see the parents and hopefully they are not asking for to much for them. There are breeders out there that breed both and have oops sometimes. Back in the day you may have found them in a pound or for free in the paper but now even an oops I doubt they would be given them away without some money, there is still up keep an all but anyway goodluck with your choice, hope this help some. sorry so long :rolleyes:

Reese1 08-24-2010 02:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Furbaby Friend (Post 3249169)
First off, let me clarify a few things. I’m aware the appearance issue is a shallow factor, as such I rate it appropriately on the “want” scale. Appearance isn’t all that important to me, however, it is a factor on the decision scale no matter how far down it is on that scale, so I thought it prudent to include it. If my furbaby love ended up hairless, once I fell in love I really wouldn’t care. Personality is top on my list, which you can get an idea of if you 1. Meet the parents 2. Meet and spend time with the pup before adoption and 3. Know the traits of the breeds you are mixing and accept the fact that you can get any mix of the two.
I was simply describing my ideal pup situation. I know very well that might not happen. It is just like how you dream of your ideal kid or ideal family or ideal love, but reality is almost never like your ideal. The Maltese and Yorkies I’ve met have not been *exactly* what I am looking for, although they have *aspects* of what I’m *ideally* looking for. Would I be content with either of them? Yes, and I’d take them with open and loving arms if they were my only option (well we’d end up taking a Yorkie actually, because of my mum), but I have the option to try a mix of the two.
As many people on these boards have said many times, good breeders breed true characteristic traits in, reducing variation or deviance from those traits. Thus, you get a pretty standard pup, which means no chance of getting the possible mix my family is looking for. I know that there is no guarantee that I will be getting the “ideal mix” with a Morkie, but there is a slim chance the perfect little darling will pop out. If I ended up with a dog that looked exactly like a Yorkie and acted exactly like a Yorkie, it isn’t like I would throw it out on the street. That is just inhumane and horrible and a stupid,irresponsible thing to do on my part. Would you just throw a baby you brought into the world out on the street for any of the reasons I listed for not necessarily wanting a purebred? No? Well it isn’t like I think it would be okay to do something like that either!
That being said. I did notice the Morkies I met barked far less than the Yorkies I met and were slightly more energetic than the Maltese I met. I know this does not mean my future baby will be so, but there is a chance. This is just my personal experience. ::shrug::
Hell, I wish my kitty Suki had turned out different in some ways, but she is what she is and I love her to bits anyway. We found her as a 2 year old stray and, even though she was supposed to stay the same (as she was already fully grown), she herself has changed drastically over the last 6 years and I don’t love her any less for it.
To address my mom not liking the mess. Let me rephrase myself a bit. Who actually *likes* potty in the house? Anyone? Didn’t think so, and my mother doesn’t either. As previously stated, my mom did have a Maltese, so she's not new to the small breed complications in potty training. She knows what she's in for with messes. It is just that she'd like to reduce the probability of them if at all possible, but she wouldn’t throw a fit if there were accidents. I've gotten from more than just the "danger breeders" that Yorkies are harder to train and that a mix might cut that a bit (as Maltese, are supposedly a bit easier) and it might not, but there is always a chance. Again it depends on the individual pup and NO ONE can predict with 100% accuracy what an individual pup will be like, it is just purebreds are more reliably predicted.
My mother and I would never get rid of an animal just because it didn't fit our perfect little picture. One of our previous cats ended up with severe kidney issues. She peed all over the darn place because she just couldn't help it. Did we get rid of her? Nope, we found a solution and worked with her because we loved her. She lived a long and happy life and we loved her till the day she passed.
So I guess what I’m saying is, don’t think I’m some pampered princess who would get rid of a pup at the drop of a hat just because it wasn’t the ideal. All because I want a mix breed instead of a purebred. That isn’t a fair assessment and it kind of hurts that you would jump all over someone that is just looking for some help. I thought it was implied, since I did seek a rescue dog first, that I understand that you don't just get rid of an animal because it wasn’t as easy as you thought. I understand that a pup is a member of the family and you don't just abandon your family during the hard times.

I have been patient in my search and will continue to be so. If I wanted to rush into a purchase I would have just bought that pup I saw months ago that day in the pet store and never had another thought about it. However, since I am the person I am, I left it and went home and did the research and now I’m looking for options *other than the ones I’ve already looked into and tried.* I get the rescue thing and I’ve done it, so we can stop pushing that particular topic. If I get a call I will gladly take them.
I know I have been responding to people on an individual basis up until now, but that will be coming to an end unless I deem it pertinent. If anyone has any new applicable advice to share or an alternate solution to my predicament I will gladly take it. However, if you have anything to say about my personal choice and how you dislike it or accuse me of not being ready for such a responsibility. I will just say this.
It is my choice if I want a mix. You also don’t know me or what kind of effort I’ve put into this or how prepared I am for a new family member to love, so stop making blind judgments and telling me that I need to stop and rethink things because it “sounds like I’m not ready for a small breed dog.” I’ve done the research and I know what I want. I *specifically* asked for help on locating a good place to find a Morkie and I *specifically* said in my original post that I didn’t want people’s opinions on how mixed breeds aren’t good or that I should get a purebred, and I *certainly* didn’t ask for judgments on if I was ready to be a good mother to my pup. I know I am capable of being a loving, caring parent and what kind of person I am. I am in fact, more informed to make that judgment of character than you. As I know myself better than anyone here knows me.
That being said. I will not respond to any further accusations against my preparedness, my character, or my choice in pet. I will however respond to any help with my original question.
I’d like to again say thank you all for your responses, the good and even the alternative opinions are all appreciated because I know you took the time to try and have an impact (even if I didn’t agree). <3

P.S. I’m sorry if this came off as defensive or “mean” to anyone, but it is hard having everyone basically put down your choice in a mix you fell in love with and then start judging your personal character. I feel it is unfair that I feel the need to defend myself as a human being now. I will be sticking with my vow to not respond to anything I deem unrelated from this point on. If you have anything to say against me or my choice in pet, take it to your own thread to discuss. Thank you all for your input so far.

When we see posts such as yours on this forum, we are responding to you, but we are also responding to anyone that may be thinking about getting a puppy and trying to learn as well!
You seemed to have made your decision, but some people who once they realize there is no such thing as a reputable breeder of mutts, will think twice about buying from a BYB, puppy mill or pet store.
It isn't that anyone is trying to be mean to you personally, again we are passionate about the breed and hate to see greeders make a living off the backs of their dogs strictly for profit!

Tae1107 08-24-2010 04:05 AM

I have fostered a few Maltese and the ones I have fostered have actually been more active and "hyper" then my own Yorkies, and while they have been easier to house train then some Yorkies I have fostered, they have also been harder to house train then some Yorkies too. I have found the majority of the Maltese I have fostered to be a lot "barkier" then my Yorkies.. but then that could just be the ones I have had.....I find the have a louder and different bark....

I have also fostered a Morkie and she was very active and hyper and not the easiest to house train. She was also very alpha and ended up having to be an only....so you never know....

JDS 08-24-2010 04:59 AM

I'm sorry you feel that we are judging you. I don't think that's the case at all. Sometimes over the internet, tone is hard to read. I hope you continue to spend time here as we all have a lot to offer & love sharing our experiences.

We are here because we love the yorkshire terrier breed; however, I don't think anyone here is against loving a mix breed. We even have some morkie owners here! Speaking for myself, I've owned a mix(maltese/poodle) & I loved her just like I love my Lulu now. I was ignorant to many things dog related back then & I am so thankful that I found YT before ever deciding to get Lulu. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't love another mix breed. It does mean that I will not seek out a breeder who purposely breeds mixes. Oopses happen, but to knowingly cross breed dogs to capilize on the latest fad is wrong just like purposely breeding for tiny yorkies. (To claify, I am not saying you are buying into the "designer dog" fad...I understand you are not.)

I realize you are set on a morkie. That's fine. And honestly, I think most of us had an idea of what we wanted our babies to look like & act like before getting them so I don't think anything is wrong with that. Once we get our babies & fall in love, all that goes by the wayside anyway. ;) You are committed to patience so I have no doubt that you will be able to find your morkie baby at a rescue.

Ringo1 08-24-2010 06:44 AM

I've been owned by both a Maltese and a Yorkie. There are traits that I love about both. My Casper (maltese, of course) was a little more laid back than Lucy overall. However, he was not as loving and snuggly as Lucy either. He did not like other dogs and would act like he was going to kill them on a walk! He was my first dog of my own and I loved him like crazy. He was a champion walker and could walk for miles. He prob was a little easier to housetrain; but I didn't kid myself that he was going to hold it for several hours ~ he wasn't. And neither does Lucy!

I've seen some really cute Morkies but I saw one at the park that was pure orange. The girl walking him kept commenting on how pretty Ringo's (my Westie) coat was; she liked the pure white. I was left wondering why, if she liked the pure white, she just didn't get a maltese?

Anyway, good luck in your search; I commend you for trying not to support a puppymill or BYB. It is going to be more difficult to week those out, though, when you are searching for a mixed breed.

You sound like you have really tried to think this through. Good Luck!

And RIP my little Casper.

WV~Yorkies 08-24-2010 10:27 AM

I wish it was as easy just to pick out the traits you want and combine them into a dog..just don't work that way.

DvlshAngel985 08-24-2010 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Furbaby Friend (Post 3249397)
DvlshAngel985: I do have an ideal image in mind, but who doesn't when they are thinking up an idea in their head? Reality is always much much different :) Would I actually like all these things to manifest themselves in one cute fluffy little body? Yes, but I also realize that is not going to happen.

"Sorry I keep referring to a yorkie. Kaji is my very first dog and he and his disposition is all I know. His and his little friends personalities of course! :D Which are all different by the way. I have yet to meet two yorkies that are exactly alike in personalities."

It's quite alright, you are just proud of your baby for one and for another you're talking in terms you know. Experience is valuable after all and should be respected. I know every individual dog is different, they are like little people after all! :) Which is why you should really be prepared for anything.

Getting a dog is like adopting a child. You should love them and care for them and do what's best for them. When it comes down to it, you love your kids no matter what and I'm absolutely positive I will love my furbaby, no matter her color/size/personality/whatever else, in the end. I will do what's best for her and I will make sure she is taken care of until the end of her days.

I don't demand, or even expect, that she will grow up into the ideal image in my head and that isn't a problem for me. I still want a furbaby to love and I will love her possible deviations/illness/issues and all.

I was just trying to let you know you can get that little dog you are dreaming about, I did. I wanted a mellow, yet active dog (yes, I know opposites :rolleyes: ) with a darker coloring, floppy ears and a sweet disposition. I got exactly that by looking into older pups! I hope you get that little buddy you are dreaming of. They make the best study break buddies and the best HW buddies. I just wish I had gotten mine sooner.


All times are GMT -8. The time now is 07:30 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Copyright ©2003 - 2018 YorkieTalk.com
Privacy Policy - Terms of Use


1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 233 234 235 236 237 238 239 240 241 242 243 244 245 246 247 248 249 250 251 252 253 254 255 256 257 258 259 260 261 262 263 264 265 266 267 268 269 270 271 272 273 274 275 276 277 278 279 280 281 282 283 284 285 286 287 288 289 290 291 292 293 294 295 296 297 298 299 300 301 302 303 304 305 306 307 308 309 310 311 312 313 314 315 316 317 318 319 320 321 322 323 324 325 326 327 328 329 330 331 332 333 334 335 336 337 338 339 340 341 342 343 344 345 346 347 348 349 350 351 352 353 354 355 356 357 358 359 360 361 362 363 364 365 366 367 368 369 370 371 372 373 374 375 376 377 378 379 380 381 382 383 384 385 386 387 388 389 390 391 392 393 394 395 396 397 398 399 400 401 402 403 404 405 406 407 408 409 410 411 412 413 414 415 416 417 418 419 420 421 422 423 424 425 426 427 428 429 430 431 432 433 434 435 436 437 438 439 440 441 442 443 444 445 446 447 448 449 450 451 452 453 454 455 456 457 458 459 460 461 462 463 464 465 466 467 468 469 470 471 472 473 474 475 476 477 478 479 480 481 482 483 484 485 486 487 488 489 490 491 492 493 494 495 496 497 498 499 500 501 502 503 504 505 506 507 508 509 510 511 512 513 514 515 516 517 518 519 520 521 522 523 524 525 526 527 528 529 530 531 532 533 534 535 536 537 538 539 540 541 542 543 544 545 546 547 548 549 550 551 552 553 554 555 556 557 558 559 560 561 562 563 564 565 566 567 568 569 570 571 572 573 574 575 576 577 578 579 580 581 582 583 584 585 586 587 588 589 590 591 592 593 594 595 596 597 598 599 600 601 602 603 604 605 606 607 608 609 610 611 612 613 614 615 616 617 618 619 620 621 622 623 624 625 626 627 628 629 630 631 632 633 634 635 636 637 638 639 640 641 642 643 644 645 646 647 648 649 650 651 652 653 654 655 656 657 658 659 660 661 662 663 664 665 666 667 668 669 670 671 672 673 674 675 676 677 678 679 680 681 682 683 684 685 686 687 688 689 690 691 692 693 694 695 696 697 698 699 700 701 702 703 704 705 706 707 708 709 710 711 712 713 714 715 716 717 718 719 720 721 722 723 724 725 726 727 728 729 730 731 732 733 734 735 736 737 738 739 740 741 742 743 744 745 746 747 748 749 750 751 752 753 754 755 756 757 758 759 760 761 762 763 764 765 766 767 768 769 770 771 772 773 774 775 776 777 778 779 780 781 782 783 784 785 786 787 788 789 790 791 792 793 794 795 796 797 798 799 800 801 802 803 804 805 806 807 808 809 810 811 812 813 814 815 816 817 818 819 820 821 822 823 824 825 826 827 828 829 830 831 832 833 834 835 836 837 838 839 840 841 842 843 844 845 846 847 848 849 850 851 852 853 854 855 856 857 858 859 860 861 862 863 864 865 866 867 868 869 870 871 872 873 874 875 876 877 878 879 880 881 882 883 884 885 886 887 888 889 890 891 892 893 894 895 896 897 898 899 900 901 902 903 904 905 906 907 908 909 910 911 912 913 914 915 916 917 918 919 920 921 922 923 924 925 926 927 928 929 930 931 932 933 934 935 936 937 938 939 940 941 942 943 944 945 946 947 948 949 950 951 952 953 954 955 956 957 958 959 960 961 962 963 964 965 966 967 968 969 970 971 972 973 974 975 976 977 978 979 980 981 982 983 984 985 986 987 988 989 990 991 992 993 994 995 996 997 998 999 1000 1001 1002 1003 1004 1005 1006 1007 1008 1009 1010 1011 1012 1013 1014 1015 1016 1017 1018 1019 1020 1021 1022 1023 1024 1025 1026 1027 1028 1029 1030 1031 1032 1033 1034 1035 1036 1037 1038 1039 1040 1041 1042 1043 1044 1045 1046 1047 1048 1049 1050 1051 1052 1053 1054 1055 1056 1057 1058 1059 1060 1061 1062 1063 1064 1065 1066 1067 1068 1069 1070 1071 1072 1073 1074 1075 1076 1077 1078 1079 1080 1081 1082 1083 1084 1085 1086 1087 1088 1089 1090 1091 1092 1093 1094 1095 1096 1097 1098 1099 1100 1101 1102 1103 1104 1105 1106 1107 1108 1109 1110 1111 1112 1113 1114 1115 1116 1117 1118 1119 1120 1121 1122 1123 1124 1125 1126 1127 1128 1129 1130 1131 1132 1133 1134 1135 1136 1137 1138 1139 1140 1141 1142 1143 1144 1145 1146 1147 1148 1149 1150 1151 1152 1153 1154 1155 1156 1157 1158 1159 1160 1161 1162 1163 1164 1165 1166 1167 1168