| Gingergirlsmom | 01-25-2007 04:18 AM | Quote:
Originally Posted by DesertChildAZ
(Post 909591)
The meeting itself went really well. Winston was *wonderful*...very friendly and full of kisses. He loves to play with his toys and he is a bit more hyper than Tahoe, who is 14 years old - but not crazy hyper. He is very energetic considering he had back surgery (for a slipped disc, which is why his previous owner's surrendered him...they couldn't afford his surgery) only 2 months ago. He is unphased and fully recovered. He *loves* his toys and loves to play with his toys and his human, but does not play with his toys and other dogs. The only thing that concerned me was Tahoe's *lack* of interest in him. Tahoe has met other yorkies and usually plays with them actively, but he didn't seem interested last night. He did go up a couple times and sniff Winston's nose and wag his tail once or twice, but otherwise was off by himself. Tahoe is my #1 priority. But based on his lack of interest, I have to wonder if I'm doing this for myself or if I'm doing this for Tahoe. Tahoe is also used to getting all my attention and I'm concerned that if Winston is so playful and I play with him as much as he requires, that Tahoe will feel neglected.
Regarding Tahoe's apparent disinterest, the foster did have 7 other small dogs that were quaranteened in the back family room with her husband so Tahoe WAS spending most of his time sniffing around the house and around the other dogs' belongings. That could be the source of his disinterest.
The foster is not sure if Winston has been exposed to cats so she's going to take him to the rescue shelter and see how he responds to the cats there. I told her I would have an answer in 24 hours. If the decision were entirely mine, I'd adopt him. Someone recommended that I see if I can take him home on a trial basis to make sure that it is a sure fit. What are your thoughts on this?
~ Kelly | It is a hard decision, and every family and every yorkie is different. All I can do is share a little of OUR experience. We went to meet Bernie (he also had surgery, he's got a plate and pins holding his pelvis together), and were pleased at how friendly and playful he was. We did not take Ginger, because I know how finicky she can be, and figured, if I found a nice dog I would know it. One thing I did watch was how well he got along with the dogs in his foster home. Since they'd been around each other that was what was important to me. I knew Ginger would pout in the beginning but also felt strongly that it would be good for BOTH her and me for her to become a little more independent. I questioned my sanity and decision as well, but there was just something about Bernie, I knew he was the dog for us. DH and I also asked for a day to think it over, and we discussed everything we could think of. Feeling pretty sure we were doing the right thing, we called and said "yes".
For us it has worked out REALLY well. Bernie and Ginger have already become good friends, play together well, and are great on walks. BUT, we had a good feeling about him from the beginning.
The important thing to remember is that this rescue has approved you. They want to match the right dog with the right family too. If you have strong doubts, you could always check out the next yorkie they get (is this a yorkie rescue or general rescue?)BUT, if you think he's the right dog for you, then go for it!
Looking forward to hearing what you decide! Good luck! |