Originally Posted by chewysmom

Jennn:

If someone is harassing you on PM, you can tell Admin and he will be able to take action aginst them. Usually in these circumstances the member will be suspended.

Originally Posted by SoCalyorkiLvr

I have never "harassed anyone". I simply PM'd the poster and asked if the post was directed at me and if it was, why?

I know that Vainchick was suspended because of a post she wrote attacking me but I never saw the post so it was not I who reported her. I have not reported a bad post in months because I prefer to let other members read them rather than having them deleted.

The fact that I sincerely wish this puppy well should not be a "shocker" to anyone.

Again, I will not report this post but hope it remains for all to read rather than report it. I have no idea what you have against me but I never did anything to deserve that post.

Posts like that are not in the best interests of this forum.

Originally Posted by JCarlson2004

She's doing great. Nobella said the nurses are impressed with her energy after having surgery. She wants to play. So she'll probably have a hard time keeping her still. She will take her home in an hour an a half from now. So she's thrilled and of course she's caling and bugging them every 5 minutes..haha..typical mommy behavior. :p

Originally Posted by JCarlson2004

I know for a FACT that there are quite a few people who would disagree about the harassing PM's and reporting of posts, JMO. Those "few people" you refer to are not being honest . I personally (don’t know about you) do not enjoy "baiting" people to start controversy. Those few people again do enjoy "baiting". First of all, Nobella did NOT attack you, because she has CLASS and she's better than that. I also read the comments myself and I did NOT feel that they had an attacking tone to them at all. She insinuated that I was lying about being in the hospital! That is pretty much an attack if you ask me...obviously admin felt so! Most of us agree that Nobella was unfairly suspended. Most of "us"...who is this "us"? I ask that rhetorically of course because everyone who has been on here for a while knows who "they" are. I am sorry that you have chosen to join them. I was rushed to the hospital by ambulance at 4 am yesterday morning, Nobella acuses me of lying about it and you and your friends think she shouldn't be suspended? How sad is that? In fact, according to all the PMs and personal e-mails I received about this, what Nobella said is EXACTLY what a lot of members think but are too afraid (of getting suspended) to say. It is truly sad that a fellow member of this forum goes to the hospital for an emergency and these certain members you refer to think it is a lie! I have never lied on this forum or any other. I am constantly attacked by these certain members all becuase they believe the lies that have been told about me by a few. I have a lot of friends here but admin and I have not always agreed. I am not the "teacher's pet" as I have been called, I am not the "princess" and I am not a member of the CSI and I knew nothing about that thread yesterday until a member told me about it toward the end. I have donated a total of $35 to this forum and I am not treated specially as a result. In fact, I complained to admin a lot when my posts would be deleted or my threads closed just because they were a different opinion from everyone elses's.. And I refuse to list their names because I do not want anyone else to suffer the same suspension that poor, sweet Nobella has to suffer -- especially on today of all days, when her beloved baby, Coco Chanel, had surgery. Admin would NOT suspend someone you name based on some thoughts they may or may not have had about me. These people you refer to are pretty good at posting their thoughts so naming them is not necessary. They are very well known already. She really needed her YT friends for support and encouragement but was denied that. I find that very disturbing and unsettling. I am just glad she is getting support elsewhere as I know she is.

As for what’s in the best interest of this forum, I don't think annoying PM's and running to admin about every little detail are beneficial. I do not report posts and I do not send annoying PMs to anyone, but you publicly posted as you did and I feel it best if you and I discuss your problem with me privately. Since you have refused that offer, we must do it here for everyone to read. I also think what' s not in the best interest of this forum is people that like to intentionally start controversy. This forum is all about yorkies and learning about the differing views people have on them and how to raise and care for them. We learn from hearing these different opinions, but it takes adults or at least adult-like intelligence and demeanor to participate without name calling and resorting to insults when you disagree.
I am not going to respond to any further childish posts. You are the one who posted childishly with your "what a shocker" post. Instead, I will only discuss what we all came into this thread to originally discuss -- COCO AND NOBELLA.

Originally Posted by red98vett

Poor baby - I know if Nobella is like I was - She's FAR worse off than Coco - I really did cry for a long time after I dropped off Cheri ....I couldn't even drive and sat in the parking lot.

I think WE should get medication when we have to take them in for procedures that are voluntary - It's scary stuff ...I'm thinking a little valuim sounds pretty good right about now. (no ! I don't do drugs ...just joking)