Beautiful.

Kim, I am sorry you are facing this very difficult decision for Lucy. I am confident that you will do what is best for her.

very true words..I would say the exact same thing. Only you ..who love her so much..will look into her eyes and know what you have to do & when .. My precious girl passed in May this year. She had, had a heart murmur for yrs which eventually became CHF. She was treated for her heart condition for some yrs & was very happy & well.. She eventually became blind and lived like that for a further two yrs. I had friends who told me I as cruel in keeping her alive on pills and a dark world. I saw she was comfortable and coping well. But then her symptoms took a turn for the worse and she developed Renal failure (& that was sudden onset) as well as CFH. She was put on a renal diet which she hated, increased lasix for her congested heart as well as her heart medication. She was then hospitalized & on IV fluids. How can all this be 'love' I had to ask myself? ..I asked for her to come home where we could love her and she would be comfortable and not stressed by a hospital.. I then had to give her subcutaneous fluids under the skin in her neck.. but it was a vicious circle as her heart wasn't coping with the kidney flush..even with increased lasix. She coughed & was so tired. I had her at home one week when I saw it in her eyes lying in her bed which she didn't want to get out of. We stayed with her to the end at the vet that day when the angels came to collect one more tiny angel to join them..the saddest day of my life..R.I.P my darling Bo ..Ax :cry:

I have been there and done too many times. After I have done every thing medically possible, and I know for fact nothing more can be done. I do so cherish and love on them the best of my ability. All it takes for me is that look they have in their eye's and that is their way of telling me it is time. I have held on 1 time far longer than I shoud have, because I was selfish. After that I knew I would never do that again. I gave of my heart and let mine go peacefully now, when there is nothing more.
Now I'm crying. It's almost a year now I lost my heart girl Lizzie (15 yrs old).

Saying prayers for you and Lucy.

Oh Kim! I am so sorry that you are facing this difficult time. I had to make this decision for my 17 year old Dachshund this past year. Like others have said here, she let me know when it was time. Like your Lucy she was suffering from heart disease, dimentia, and cancer. Please know that I am praying for you and Lucy.

Thank you all for taking the time to answer. I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved babies. Even though time has passed, I feel your pain is still so raw. I so appreciate your transparency even though it brings up the sad memories of your loss. I want to learn from your experiences and great wisdom. The doctor did a full bloodwork, and gave Lucy some sub-q fluids. The vet will call tomorrow with the results and her opinions after she sees what the bloodwork shows. I can pretty much already tell her what its going to show. Thank you all again from the bottom of my heart. I'll update.

I'm so sorry I lost my baby 11 days ago hardest decision to have them end his suffering I know I made the right choice but I know it's hard to decide what's best. Again I'm so sorry

Quoting avemike..."Only you ..who love her so much..will look into her eyes and know what you have to do & when .."

It's so heartbreaking to have to see that look in your babies eyes. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Hugs and prayers to both of you.

so many wonderful posts and such good advice, unfortunately this is a decision most of us pet owners are faced with at one time or another. As the vet said to us when making the decision to put our 18 year old cat down. She had mini strokes that left her back legs paralyzed but after lots of massaging by us she was able to get around a little, but still failing. He said if she was young you might look at this differently, but she is elderly and not going to get better, she should not have to suffer. I alway think that the most unselfish act we do for our pets is to let them go peacefully, quickly and secure in our arms.

Kim, my heart goes out to you. I'm sorry Lucy is so sick:unlove:

Checking in to see what the vet said. Praying for you and Lucy.

Kim, I'm just seeing this and so sorry that you are facing this with your sweet girl. I know your pain and anguish as do we all and only hope that when the time comes, you can find some peace knowing she is out of pain. I'm so sorry.

I'm just checking in to see what the vet said. I just want you to know that there is an after life and out babies are there too. I won't go into details here but I attended a John Edwards event ( the medium) and I was fortunate to be read. At the end of the reading he told me there was a little chirppy dog with my son. He motioned and up and down jumping with his hand and said it was a little dog like a yorkie. I was amazed. That was my little Gina. That has helped me so often when I think of her to know that she is happy.
Bless you with your decision.

I too have just seen this thread. You have entered on the path we all must travel with our pets.

I used to think, before I lost my first pet, that when folks very kindly said to me, "you will know it is time"; it was a well meaning but not a factual statement. But then I had to make a decision to put my first dog down.

It was very very true. This beloved dog is in your heart, and she in yours. Trust in that connection, that will lead you to the right decision, in the right time.

My deepest sympathies to you and yours at this time. (((hugs)))

I'm sorry to not be on often, but Internet at Mom's is just awful. It's out more than on. Anyway, the vet called and as I already knew, the cancer is spreading. Surprisingly, her kidneys are doing better. Dr. Stacey feels that Lucy is in pain. She wants to try a course of pain medication before making any decissions. She feels we may see a different Lucy if we can manage her pain. I'm not willing to let her suffer, but I'm willing to give it a try. I bought a stroller and I take her for walks everyday. She loves the sun and ocean breeze. It really makes her happy. Lets see what the next week brings. I still know decision day is coming, but I guess I need to know we did everything we could. Again, I thank each and every one of you, friends, for your wisdom, prayers and concern. I am a blessed woman to have such a wonderful support system. You all are just the best.