Now I'm confused. When did it become a requirement to have vet records reviewed and approved or validated by a YT member before posting on this forum to seek help and to be treated fairly, with equal respect given freely to most everyone else?
I emailed the OP and I apologized to her for the treatment she received on here and I told her that as a result of some responses, I am embarrassed to be a member here. I am now in tears thinking of what this poor woman has been through.
Criticism of her posting... she's sitting in a chair, with her dying pup in her lap, trying to type one-handed, so excuse the typos and run on sentences.
Then she's immediately slammed repeatedly... already at her wit's end at not being able to get a diagnosis on her pup, and is accused of lying and not seeking treatment appropriately or self diagnosing and self medicating?
What was she supposed to do? Not medicate and let her pup die? Which I guarauntee you would have happened a while ago.
I really love YT, and I feel more good is done here than bad, but I can't comprehend, for the life of me, why some feel they have to cause so much more addition pain and anguish to people who are already in a bad way and just seeking some kind of assisstance or support from the members here.
You (in general) can no better tell if someone is untruthful in posts than I can, and I really don't care. That is not why I'm here. My concern is for the pups that need help and to try my best to get any pup the help it needs. I do give all posters the benefit of the doubt... because one never really knows, and the ones that will be hurt in the end are the innocent pups, if, by chance, the posters seeking help are being truthful.
Maybe it's because some members have never experienced less than perfect vet care, I don't know. But I'll tell you now, I have been there, and it is not a good place to be. Put every bad emotion in a bag, with financial strain/drain, along with frustration, anger, sadness, grieving (as one would grieve a death), love for your pup and mix it all up that is what one feels when their dog is not diagnosed correctly, plus the dog is still sick. And you worry how much time is left before your baby dies, how much money is left, where to get more, how much more will you need, pup is getting worse, where do I go next? This is it... and many end up here on YT. And, no, their story may be a bit off, bc after all they've been through, and the emotional drain, they can't even think straight, much less type correctly. Is it any wonder they can't? And they come here and are thought of as being dishonest and untruthful?
There is evidence of inappropriate vet care in many threads here on YT, just as there is evidence of truly exceptional vet care. Aren't we here to help owners weed through things so their pups can get the treatment they need to be healthy? |