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Originally Posted by maryeverett1
(Post 3107844)
Same story different day is right! What is the point of openly being nasty to someone who is in obvious anguish over not only the condition of their dog but how to help their dog? I don't think she was asking to be coddled but you can be decent to a human being that is also suffering. I agree this dog needs to be helped asap and probably needed help before now but I can tell you Accusing to report this lady for animal cruelty is a flipping joke! She came on to find help and like in so many cases and threads "same story different day" here are people yelling at someone who is trying (definitely not done perfect or soon enough but trying nonetheless and in obvious pain over her decisions) and what does she find? People calling her names and threatening to report her! You sure as heck can do it "your way" but how is that working for you since she is leaving and no longer willing to post? How does that help this pup in the long run? There is a way to provide help and honest straight forward blunt "what she needs to hear" advice without abusing the people that are coming to get it. Yes she could have done things sooner and differently maybe but what good does it do this baby to bash her over the head with that now? Comments like this disgust me and are so not helpful that it's not even funny. What about just putting the abuse on hold and focusing on helping this pup get the immediate care she needs? Feel free to abuse me now too because I know the drill and what's coming next...don't bother. I won't be checking back. And yes I did read the entire thread and did notice the few compassionate, helpful, resourceful, caring yet firm responses. All threads like this teach people is not to bring their mistakes or problems to YT because most likely you won't get any help just a barrage of insults.
To the OP...I can't even imagine how rough this is to go through but I know you will do what's best for this baby even if it's devastating for you because any of us who truly love our babies would do what was needed no matter how hard it is for us personally. That's what true love means. I am also sorry you are suffering with colon caner and a job loss. So many things for one person to deal with at once. Praying that you have strength to endure it all and come out stronger! |
Mary,
Please don't think that posting to you in defense of Ladyjane, as you know she can defend herself. What I'm attempting to do is make you understand the passion behind some of YT members posts
I don't think Ladyjane is at this point thinking about winning a popularity contest. Her thought are only with this per little creature that has been suffering for so long enough. Since she has worked in rescue for years, she's seen it all. The pups she has taken in have come to her from so many avenues, some the product of bad breeding, some because they just aren't wanted anymore, the reasons go on and on. These poor little creatures have no one to speak up for them or to turn to, to protect them. These wonderful rescues do that.....they pour their hearts and souls into these little dogs.
That being said, this poor little creature has been suffering for sometime, screaming in pain while her owner makes a determination of what she is going to do. This pup has no time and if anymore hesitation is made there won't be any decisiona to make. Roiree will be gone, how sad will that be, knowing that her life could have been saved had her owner just acted sooner. A rescuer's duties and alligance is to the animal first and they do and say whatever it takes to make things right.
I know as an RN in another life, there are times to be sympathetic and then there are times one just has to do something to wake that family up. Believe there have been times I've screamed at parents (I was a pediatric nurse) attempting to make them make the best choice for the child. And yes, I got in trouble, but my first concern was for the child.
Once you understand there are a few of us that are much more passionate than others, due to the fact that maybe our envolvement with these creatures is a bit more in depth. And that's not to say average pet owners aren't just as passionate, because some of them are. But, these passionate people recognize the urgency of a situation and know there is no time to waste, no sugar coating. Yes, we understand the emotions that the owner is going through, but right at that moment we don't care, it's all about the dog. I don't know how many times I've wanted to be able to put my hands through the screen and strangle someone......
Let me add in my opinion a thread such as this one, where a pup's life is on the edge is a place for anyone to be calling out anyone else on their writing style, delivery of their statments. That should be done behind the scenes