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i just needed to tell someone.... so... today... after a year of being broken up.. after dating for 3... i finally just threw away everything.. letter sna cards and pictures and clothes from josh.. my ex... and i'm so sad... i know i feel relieved but i just feel so sad.... anyways... no one is home... so.... i figured i could tell all you.... |
Congratulations! Don't feel sad, girl! You obviously wanted to throw these things away, which means you want to move on! And that is a WONDERFUL thing! My BF and I have been seeing each other for three years, and I can't imagine how long it would take me to get over it if it ended! It is much better that you are purging yourself of these material reminders than cuddling with them and weeping over love lost. I am thoroughly thrilled :D with your choice to start fresh and begin something new, and your decision to let the past go and live on! So LIVE ON, SISTER! LIVE ON!!! :thumbup: |
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I'm sorry your going thru this. I know that kind of hurt is only second to a death. You never forget, but all the feelings you are feeling now will go totally away. You are so very young, and now is the time to just be you and do as you want and have a carefree time. I wouldn't even look for another serious relationship. Just have a great time being single. Warm hugs to you........I know how it feels! |
Way to go....you needed to free yourself of those memories! :justahug: Hang in there!!! |
If you're sad, that means that the memories do mean something. So in that case, I'm sorry that it hurts. Sending strength and hugs your way......... |
Hugs and Yorkie Kisses. :animal-pa |
I'm sorry your feeling sad Marci. :( But whoever gets to be your next boyfriend will be the lucky one. You are such a nice, sweet person. :smile: |
Awe. I know its hard. We are your family!!! Hugs, Kelsey, Aubrey and Dakota. |
I'm sorry :( but it is best that you get rid of everything! You did the right thing, you have to clear him from you life, i did the same with my ex, i threw everything he gave me away, and all pics of us, etc. It's the best thing to do to get over them and start new |
Don't feel sad. You have to move on with your life. My daughter's going through the same thing with her ex boyfriend, and I'm trying to get her to let go and move on, but she's just not ready yet. She still thinks he'll come back. |
Ive been there, I know it it hurts... it is never easy letting go.... its like saying the final goodbye, to me. When I did that it was a huge relief even tho I cried the entire time and went thru a bottle of wine doing it but the next day, I knew I could finally move on. Big Hugs!! Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life! |
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Men are like buses, one comes along every five minutes, when you are ready, there will be a new guy there for you and perhaps this is for the best! I do not mean to be like an old saying, but sometimes things happen for the best. You are a young girl, life is ahead of you ... HUGS!!!!... |
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