I feel used and confused (yea I know that rhymes) Something has been bothering me for awhile....it might be a little silly - but it has been bothering me - just wanted to share with everyone. Have you ever done something just out of kindness and never recieved any feedback on it? Now I did this something because I wanted to and NOT for a compliment or praise or anything like that. But I really have no idea if this person even followed through or recieved what i did. And I feel strange asking them....But I still feel some type of acknowledgement should have been given. I am still glad I did it and dont regret it at all. But I just feel like this is happening more and more in the world...... |
yes, i know exactly how you feel. you shouldn't feel bad for asking if they received it. just make it sound like you are wanting to verify the package got to them...if it was a package. know what i mean? |
just ask them if they received it and how did they like it? |
Yea...im gonna call tomorrow - knowing me it'll turn out bad LOL I think its just bothering me that I LET this bother me - does that make sense? |
It would be nice to know that your gesture has been received. I understand what you are saying. |
I definitely think you should ask about it. And I say that b/c a long time ago, I was kind of dating this guy....we belonged to the same gym and I was an aerobics instructor....he worked for an athletic goods company and he got me a (what I suppose was)really cute jogging suit, took it to my apt. and put in on my back doorstep (at least I think that's where he put it)...anyway....I NEVER got it....I was gone when he left it, and I had no idea he was doing it...so I never said anything b/c I didn't know.....and I'm sure he was wondering "WTF???"....nice girl"......he FINALLY said something like MONTHS later and I felt so bad....first, b/c I know he felt like I was just taking advantage of him and second, b/c I know it was a really cute outfit and I never even got to see it:( . I imagine one of my neighbors saw him put it back there and retrieved it as soon as he left (not the only time something like that happened). So..you just never know...things get lost, get stolen, and you just wonder if she/he actually received it. And if it was something that was mailed.....geeze, I never trust that things get where they should anymore! |
You should be able to ask the question, I know the feeling...Maybe you read one of my post here about the items I donated and got nothing...Not even a thank you!!! :( |
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That about it? :D |
LOL Yes!!!!! Glad i'm not alone here... |
I always think a thank you is in order when someone goes out of their way to do something nice for you. |
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