still furious!
 

I don't know if I'm over reacting or not, but I'm still so mad at my husband I could bite through a nail!

I come home from work yesterday and the 1st thing out of his mouth is " Some one is coming over to pick up the trainer"

We had bought a elliptical trainer last year and paid $300 for it used. We had a small exercise room set up in are basement but when I started sewing, I took over that area so all the exercise equipment was moved to the garage.

So he wanted to clean out the garage and he wanted the trainer gone. I was thinking with winter coming up, more people would be interested in buying it cause more people are in the house and not so active outside. So I figured I would wait a bit and then place a ad in the paper.

He was very persistent in getting it moved out that he GAVE it away when I told him he better not!

So when I get home from work, he says he has someone coming over to pick it up and I said "YOU BETTER NOT GIVE THAT TRAINER AWAY!"

HE DID!

Am I over reacting? I'm furious at him, I was so mad that I was seriously thinking about looking for a apartment.

If this would have been me and I would have given something of his away, the s**t would have hit the fan!

I just really needed to vent, sorry this is kinda long.

I think what he did was disrespectful and I would be madder than hell too!

I would be very mad also. My Husband and I have a rule that I cant get rid of anything of his without his permission and same with him with my stuff. I hope you dont really go out looking for an apartment though

I just get so upset with him cause he is the type that if he does it, it's ok, but if I do, it's wrong. I just think that BS and I'm sick of it!

I love him and I can't see myself without him, but he has went to far this time.

I told him that I'm glad were so *F* rich that he can just give are s**t away!

Here we are trying to find a used car under $1500 so we have 2 vehicle's but he gives something away that we could put towards buying a car. How stupid!

Husbands... gotta love em'! Even when they make you want to scratch their eyes out!!! No, your not over reacting... Its something that was yours, so of course you wanted to handle it a certain way - and you should have been allowed to do so :)

I can so see why you are so mad!! He KNEW how you felt, yet he did it anyway. You have every right to be angry.
HOWEVER, I think you should let it go. You said your piece, he knows your mad and he knows WHY your mad. You can let this come between you and take up space in your head or you can choose to let it go. If this is just a small part of a bigger problem with you two, then it needs work. But, if it is just this one thing he did, but in general he is a great guy and ya'll have a great relationship, then let it go!!
This is just my two cents and again I totally understand you being angry, but sometimes it helps to step outside the immediate problem and see the "big picture" of how it really is. Best of luck, I hope he finds a way to make it up to you!! ....don't I remember him driving a LOOOONG way with you to get your newest furkid :D

I would have been furious as well as I think it was disrespectful, but look at the bright side at least your hubby cleaned the garage! :cool:

oooooh i would of been so pissed off at him tooo.. he should of never did that to you.. that wasnt right of him.... especially after you told him not to..
thats just not right...very hurtful... and i guess what you say doesnt matter.
when the person comes over to get it ,well just say you cant have it thats all and your husband will be embarassed as he should be... he wasnt his in the first place to get rid of... sorry

Gosh, I would be really upset too! That was really inconsiderate of him! :( Has the person come over yet? Maybe you can call them back and tell them your husband was mistaken and you aren't giving it away. Maybe you could come up with an amount that they would be willing to pay.

I am so sorry you are so angry....it is the worst feeling to be angry!!! But you know what? What is done is done!!!! There is nothing you can do now. You can beeeeeetch & beeeeeetch about it (as I would want to do too) but he cannot change what he has done. My husband and I have a rule that keeps us out of lots of fights.....once one of us does something that makes the other mad or upset we then promise that we will not do whatever we did to upset the other again. My husband said to me one day when we were fighting, "I have no idea where this fight it going, its not like we are gonna split up over this, we know we are always going to be together so why stand here and fight & say ugly stuff that we will have to apologize for later?" For some reason that really hit home to me. From that day foward .....we just don't fight!!! We do not always agree but we just don't fight. This really works for us and I can honestly say that we NEVER fight.
Perhaps you just need to go talk to your DH and explain why you are so upset and make him promise to never do something like this again.
Kiss and make up....you will feel so much better!!!!:hug:

I would be upset too. He didn't make it a "team" decision and that is an awful feeling.

I'm sorry. I don't blame you for being mad, especially since he knew how you felt about it, but he did it anyway. Unfortunately, what's done is done. When I get mad like that, I always ask myself "is this gonna matter tomorrow....or next week?" The answer is usually no, so I just say screw it lol

I have my own room in the house where I have my sewing machine, tv, fouton, etc. My husband says that the only room he has in the house is the garage? Is it the same way in your house? If the equipment was moved to his area to make room for an area for you, I can see why he would want the equipment out of the garage. When he was cleaning out the garage, and you knew he wanted it out of there, you should have found another place for it until you were ready to sell.

hope you made up, I understand you are angry it's hard to be married and live w someone all the time but when it's good, it's good and when it's bad you sometimes dont remember the good, not saying you in particular, i guess i'm speaking from personal experience just let it all out, then you will feel better:D

Men suck sometimes lol...my next man is going to be a yorkie!!

Dawn