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WV~Yorkies 08-24-2007 05:04 AM
My Dad's cancer
 
Has spread all over his body. The doctor said it was in his bones, liver, lungs...just everywhere. The Dr. wanted hospice to come in and take over but my Dad refused. I hate seeing him in so much pain. Can you say a prayer for my Mom it is so rough on her. I don't know how much more she can take. My Dad has been fighting Pancreatic cancer since January. We are all waiting on a miracle.:(

chattiesmom 08-24-2007 05:08 AM
Melissa, I am so very sorry that your dad is so very sick and in such pain. I will keep him in my prayers along with your entire family. Sending prayers upward for both comfort and peace for your daddy, and strength and for strength for your family and for skill and compassion on the part of the medical staff that is taking care of your dad.

Hugs to you, my dear friend. :ghug:

Betty'sMom 08-24-2007 05:12 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that. I am sending a prayer to you and your family.

tjdmom 08-24-2007 05:13 AM
I'm so sorry to hear your family is in so much pain. Praying for you....:(

LunasMomma 08-24-2007 05:13 AM
I'm so sorry:( Men can be SO stubborn! Prayers going up for all of you:hands:

YorkieMom55 08-24-2007 05:14 AM
Melissa, prayers for your dad and for your family.
I hope that he will allow Hospice to come. We had hospice for my MIL and they were great. The ladies that came were so compasionate and caring. They helped her with her meds, bathing and just sat and listened to her. It takes a special person to work for Hospice, they are trained how to deal with people who are ill and in terrible pain. Peace and comfort to your family

Superstarkba 08-24-2007 05:49 AM
Melissa,
I am soo sorry. You and your family are in my prayers. Remember God performs miracles in Miracalous ways!!!

Heres a wonderful Bible verse:
Psalm 23

A psalm of David.

1 The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.

2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he restores my soul.
He guides me in paths of righteousness
for his name's sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the valley of the shadow of death, [a]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows. 6 Surely goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.

CO_yorkie_momma 08-24-2007 06:39 AM
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I too lost my dad to liver cancer not long ago and know your heart has to be breaking. I agree that hospice is great and they do so much to help you get through this time.

MeganS 08-24-2007 06:57 AM
I am so sorry you are going through this. :( Your family is in my prayers.

yorkieusa 08-24-2007 07:32 AM
I'm so sorry it has spread. Yes. I'll say a prayer for all of you.

momof4CA 08-24-2007 08:18 AM
Our toughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mybabyboymax 08-24-2007 08:26 AM
Im so sorry, I will keep you and your family in prayer.

paulapoo 08-24-2007 08:31 AM
So sorry to hear about your Dad. Praying for strength for your family.

WV~Yorkies 08-24-2007 08:33 AM
Thank you all for all the prayers! It means alot to me.

I am off to go try to find him a bed tray to help him eat in bed.

Wylie's Mom 08-24-2007 08:50 AM
I am so sorry, Melissa. I went through a similar situation w/ my Mom's illness and it is so painful. I wish you serenity and quiet moments.

tiggerr36792 08-24-2007 08:51 AM
:hands: :hands: :hands: :hands: :hands: My thought and prayers are with you!!

Yorkiekids 08-24-2007 09:02 AM
My prayers are with you, and your family.

jp4m2 08-24-2007 09:14 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by WV~Yorkies (Post 1326897)
Has spread all over his body. The doctor said it was in his bones, liver, lungs...just everywhere. The Dr. wanted hospice to come in and take over but my Dad refused. I hate seeing him in so much pain. Can you say a prayer for my Mom it is so rough on her. I don't know how much more she can take. My Dad has been fighting Pancreatic cancer since January. We are all waiting on a miracle.:(
Oh my!....I feel so sad for your father, what devastating news for him.....I can understand your father not wanting help, he is probably trying to hold on to some dignity in all of this, being taken care of is a sign of weakness to some men, he must be a proud, strong man....your mom is going to need a lot of strength and emotional support to handle this...prayers for all of you in this ....

Sugar's Mom 08-24-2007 10:32 AM
melissa, I am so sorry to hear this. i am praying for your family.

Graleyne 08-24-2007 10:32 AM
I am so sorry about your dad. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.

Julz 08-24-2007 10:39 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by YorkieMom55 (Post 1326919)
Melissa, prayers for your dad and for your family.
I hope that he will allow Hospice to come. We had hospice for my MIL and they were great. The ladies that came were so compasionate and caring. They helped her with her meds, bathing and just sat and listened to her. It takes a special person to work for Hospice, they are trained how to deal with people who are ill and in terrible pain. Peace and comfort to your family
Yes, it takes a VERY special person to work for hospice. I am so sorry to hear of all of the pain and suffering in your family. I do pray that your Dad gets a miracle. I also will pray that he will change his mind on the hospice. It is such a hard decision because people consider it acceptance of their fate. My heart goes out to all of you. I will pray for peace that surpasses all understanding for your entire family and especially your Dad.

Tiger's Mom 08-24-2007 10:58 AM
Oh Melissa, I am so sorry to hear in detail about his Cancer . . I know you mentioned it on your PM :(

I guess all you can do is try and ease the pain and be there for him and your mom :(

I will pray for you and your family.

Shadow 08-24-2007 11:13 AM
I'm so sorry that you Dad is ill.I will keep him and your family in my prayers.

chloeTG 08-24-2007 12:21 PM
:hands: I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, I don't know what I would do if I were in your situation. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. I hope your dad allows hospice to come out I know it was a great thing when my dear friend Elizabeth had her battle with cancer. Love and Hugs your way. :hands:

Patti 08-24-2007 12:56 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I lost my Mom in March and at first she said No to Hospice she wasn't ready. A week later she became unresponsive and we put her in Hospice after being told there was no hope and she passed awat 2 hours after being inpatient Hospice. We too felt like mentioning Hospice made it sound like we had given up but each person has to decide for themselves until unable to do so. I will pray for a miracle and pray for your family to have the strength needed to handle this.

Tillys_mom 08-24-2007 12:59 PM
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I know what you are going through. :(

Rudys Mom 08-24-2007 01:51 PM
I'm so... sorry to hear about your Dad. :( It's very hard on all family members when someone you love is that sick. I will say a prayer for your Dad and for you and your family. My mom had Hospice at the very end at my sister's house and they were wonderful. We didn't have to pay for any of her morphine or to rent the hospital bed or the equipment. But it is each individuals choice to have them or not. Take Care..... and know that others have been where you are now. I was only 34 when my Dad died of Lung Cancer.

judyeve 08-24-2007 04:03 PM
Dear Melissa,

I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. I will pray for all of you. I lost my Dad to cancer. It is very difficult. My heart is with you.

Judy

DianeW 08-24-2007 04:05 PM
Melissa
I Lost My Mum, 6 Years Ago, So I Do Understand What You Are Going Through.

Take Care Of Yourself, As Well As Your Dad And Family.

Praying For A Special Miracle Just For Your Dad - God Love Him ...

peanut 08-24-2007 04:22 PM
Melissa I am so sorry to about your dad, I know this is extremely hard on you...If there is anything I can do please let me know...I will be praying for you, your mom and your whole family, may God wrap his arms around you all..


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