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wollfy 05-31-2005 02:30 PM
Very Rude
 
I just came back from the store doing a few chores for my mother and I met up with her co worker from work and she said knew me from somewhere and I said yeah I am Ardy's daughter Jhordan. She said Oh yeah you're the girl with the fuc*ed up name. I ignored that comment but when I got out of the store I was so angry. :mad: My name is spelled differently so what. My name Jordan but with a "h". Do you think she was very rude?

teri88 05-31-2005 02:33 PM
Rude doesn't even begin! Ignorant people like that don't even deserve the energy it takes to get mad! I think you have a beautiful name, and I wouldn't pay her any attention. What a jerk!

txshopper73 05-31-2005 02:33 PM
Well, some people just don't have good home training. That was very rude and you're more of a woman than me. I wouldn't just have ignored her. I'd said some choice words myself!

red98vett 05-31-2005 02:41 PM
I like your name - it's unique and your mom obviously wanted you to have a different name by adding the h.....I wouldn't worry about what people say - it was a rude way of putting it - but that's on her....

I totally understand - I have one of those names too....

Missy's Mommy 05-31-2005 02:58 PM
That is very rude! I think your name is beautiful :D

WhimsicalDaisy 05-31-2005 03:02 PM
Definitely rude & out of line. I *LOVE* your name, and the spelling is not weird to me at all...silent H is used frequently in the English language, so I don't see why anyone would see this as strange. BESIDES the fact that it's none of anyone's business how your mother chose to spell your name.

Grrr...can you tell I get a little offed by people sometimes?? LOL

lyricandme 05-31-2005 03:05 PM
I love your name! You can always spot a stupid person..they are the ones that have constant diarrhea of the mouth! We run into this a lot with my daughter, Lyric. Most annoying question:"Why did you name her THAT?"
Stupid is as Stupid does!

chewysmom 05-31-2005 03:19 PM
Chewy has better training in manners! Some people need to be slapped. Your name is beautiful.

LvMyYorki 05-31-2005 03:30 PM
Thats such a weird thing to say bc I remember thinking that I loved your name when I first saw it on your siggy!

bettyeanne 05-31-2005 03:36 PM
In addition to your name being neat ... your "restraint" is also very admirable!! :) When people display their stupidity, consider the source!! ;)

wollfy 05-31-2005 04:06 PM
Thanks everyone. I really needed the encouragment

Laura 05-31-2005 09:09 PM
I think you have a lovely name, and the spelling makes you unique and rememberable. I have several friends who's names are spelled 'other than the norm' I have to try hard to remember how to spell them correctly, making it easier to remember their names. ;)

Marie 05-31-2005 09:15 PM
Jhordan you have a lovely and unique name. That lady was more than rude, she was ignorant. You show her that you have better manners than her. Im very proud of you. :)

Marlee 06-01-2005 12:35 AM
Jhordan, I understand because I am a mom that loves to be diffrent with spellings. If some people have a problem with it, that is just it, their problem, not yours. I think t is a great name and prefer that type when compared to anything common. ( sorry f I offent anyone, I just do not care for names that come by the million, and prefer something with style) It shows your mom had greast personality I think and hope for you to not only be special, but felt she could help you to stand out and up so you will know you can do great things. Just ignor people like that and know your mother knew exaclty what she wanted for you and that is why she picked such a beatuiful name.

DiOrGiRLy 06-01-2005 06:00 AM
Unbelievably Rude!
 
She was such an idiot,
what is it to her if your name is spelled uniquely. Is she jelous that she has some 'run of the mill' name. People like that talk out of their asses. It's just envy and plain old bullying that she is trying to use to make herself feel better. I understand having 'haters', some annonymous person comes onto my photo site and says stupid things to me almost daily she has even insulted my children. I just think if she's is bored enough to continue then she must be a fan of me to use up her time and think up fictional negative comments on so many occasions. No matter how nice we can be there will always be negative people out there trying to put us down. Just take the high road, and if she makes a comment again just slap her in the face with a smart remark . Don't waste your time with people like this they are not worthy of you presence. :)

Babbie 06-01-2005 06:09 AM
Next time...tell her to go take a hike! Man...that makes me mad! My name has also a "h" that i have no clue where my mom got it from, same with my older brother (my name was picked to match his...hehehe) A lot lot of teachers would say that my name was spelled wrong, ha, and some could not figure out how to pronouce...did it bother me? In the begining, but we have to ignore these coments that are not constructive, i feel sorry for ignorant people like that...

Very very mature your attitude :)

Olivier 06-01-2005 06:16 AM
Peoples who said stupidities like these are peoples who really don't know what to do with their lives . You have a very nice name .

wollfy 06-01-2005 06:38 AM
Thanks everyone. :) And for Mojo's mommy, all my teachers pronounce my name wrong to like Ja-Hore-dan.

rrosenberry 06-01-2005 06:42 AM
WOW,,, I dont know if I could have kept quiet! Some people are unbelievable!! Its like People have Tourettes Syndrome,, and just blurt stupid things out of their mouths!! :thumbdown

lily 06-01-2005 06:54 AM
That was really rude! Man she would have time with my reall name DaWinda!

I_love_lucy 06-01-2005 08:04 AM
Wow people are so rude! I love your name anyway and I especially love the spelling, I think it makes it sound softer, its a beautiful name!

Yorkie_GirL 06-01-2005 05:41 PM
that is ridiculous! and very mean! .. i actually love your name.. my name is spelled with an H too... but usually when people spell it they leave it out :rolleyes: . Khristine isn't as unique as Jhordan.. but it's spelled different lol

she should go take a hike, she's probably just jealous :thumbdown

mojo 06-01-2005 07:02 PM
She sure showed her lack of class!!!!! How embarrassing for her!

bkessler 06-01-2005 08:26 PM
Jordan just happens to be my most favorate name!! I am planning on naming my first daughter Jordan... i think that the fact that you have an H in there makes it special and unique, just like you!! I'm sorry you had to be treated so poorly

daisysmom 06-01-2005 10:31 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by wollfy
Thanks everyone. :) And for Mojo's mommy, all my teachers pronounce my name wrong to like Ja-Hore-dan.
I totally feel for you and can definitely empathize with you. I grew up with a name that was not only hard to read people but hard to pronounce. People made fun of it so much, I hated it and had everyone call me by my middle name which was so much easier (which I ended up legally changing to as my first name). I dreaded first day of school, because I knew my teachers would mess up my name. I always knew when they came across my name because I usually was last since my last name started with a "Y" and there was that dreaded pregnant pause... and them going "....um" and just saying what ever came to their head which wasn't even close. If they even stuck to the phonetical spelling they would have gotten it right or close. But even some of them would joke about it and make fun of it.

Unfortunately, some people use their ignorance as a way of making fun of other people to make themselves feel better about themselves.
Don't let anyone make you mad or upset about their ignorance, feel sorry for them that they are so closed minded and dense that they will never "get it" that what they said is so stupid and nothing to offer but idiocy.

kittendes 06-02-2005 06:41 AM
how rude !!!!
 
How rude, I too have on of those names nobody can seem to pronounce or spell. I learned a long time ago to ignore stupid people. Now I even have fun with them, it's funny to hear all the different ways its pronounced.
Desiree :

Connie 06-02-2005 09:21 PM
For her to say that to you, it seems she was intentionally trying to hurt you. Some people get a kick out of making other people's lives miserable and I bet you're not the only one she's talked rudely to. I'm proud of you...that you didn't stoop to her level! Good for you! Your name is beautiful...just as you are...inside and out!

kewtee 06-02-2005 11:08 PM
She is probarbly very scared of things that are out of the ordinary or different. That makes her react that way.
Don't take her neurosis upon you girlfriend! It's her problem!

suzysmitt 06-03-2005 03:35 AM
Don't waste your energy getting mad at someone so dumb. I guess she was never told if you don't have something nice to say, say nothing at all.

ssguzzy828 06-03-2005 09:11 PM
How rude :mad: . I think its awesome to have a different spelling of a name. I think some people really dont realize they are being rude when they make assinine remarks like that.


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