we broke up..
 

My boyfriend & I broke up:( i feel like my world is falling apart. all i feel like doing is crying, nothing is fun anymore. My mom sais he was just a "high school boyfriend" and that ill get over it, how can i forget 3 years of my life? one day everything just seemed so..wrong. we both felt it, its just after its really over that it really hits me that im not his girlfriend anymore. he was my 1st everything.. and a part of me wished i could forget it all, but another part never wants to forget any of it. I have to cheer at his game on friday..i dont know what im gonna do, evrey1 expects me to do my usual and run into the feild after a good game or comfort him after a bad game. but i cant do that, he will probably find another girl to do that now.. i have to give my promise ring back and i just cant handle all of this right now! as usual my parents dont get it & my friends dont know yet but when they do find out i really hope they can make me feel better like they usually do..

sorry for the vent.
im gonna go eat icecream, thats what single people do i guess. w/e i dont even care if ill be the fat cheerleader, i just dont care anymore! im not dating anyone so i have no reason to be a size 2 anymore. none of it matters.

I know it feels bad right now - that's normal - you spent 3 years caring about him - but you will get over it. I know it doesn't seem like it, but you will. Find something now, to occupy your time. Go out with your girlfriends, spend extra time at cheer practice, volunteer at the senior center or anything that interests you, engage in your hobby, read, or do ANYTHING to keep youself occupied so that you don't dwell on the loss. It hurts A LOT right now, it will feel better in a few days, I promise - IF you work to keep busy and do other things that make you happy too!

Now, go eat that ice cream - if you are a size 2, you need a few scoops anyway - and no! you won't be a fat cheerleader. I'm sure you are adorable and will probably have lots of boys knocking at your door now that you are available!!!

Good luck!

I'm sorry honey:unlove: In time you will feel better, I promise!

Oh it's been a while since I've been in your shoes but I remember that it really stinks. You will eventually be at the point in life where you secretly pray for the silent treatment so you can get some peace.
Hang in there...if the ice cream doesn't do the trick, try some chocolate.;)

It hurts now but in no time at all you will have an even better boyfriend. Now your free ang you can date whorver you want. Your young don't limit yourself to one person you have a whole lifetime to do that when your older.

I feel for you. A few years ago my dtr's boyfriend of 3 years broke up with her out of the blue. He practically lived here and treated her real well, but he found someone else. I was so devastated for her and we cried together. I knew the last thing she wanted to hear was that it was for the best, or there's more fish in the seas, all Mom things so I tried to be supportive but encouraged her to move on. It will get better. Hang in there.

I'm sorry you're feeling blue :( . I know EXACTLY how you are feeling. When I was 18, (I'm 37 now) there came a moment when all of a sudden, I realized I no longer wanted to be with my boyfriend. We had been together about 2 years, and those kind of relationships are long ones for that age. When I broke up with him, I cried. I was relieved that the relationship was over, but I was hurting because it is a big step to take, and it was closing the door on what was a significant part of my life.

You will get over it, but it was not "just" a high school relationship. Those are formative, and they leave a lasting imprint on you. So you have every right to cry about it. It is a very healthy thing to do. I think you know it was the right move to make because you said you both felt it.

Just like I did, you're going to feel really great after a short while. I promise. You will no longer be tied down, and when you're young, that is the way it is supposed to be. Get out with your friends and go have a good time!:D But right now, it is okay to cry about it.

I remember someone saying that after a break-up you should give yourself one day to eat everything you want, cry all day, and watch sad movies. Let it all out. After that, don't let yourself feel bad for what is in the past. Mourn it, and get it over with. You will meet someone else that will make you happy. What you cannot do is to make up all the time you spend being miserable for what happened in the past. I am not saying it is easy. But, you owe it to yourself to be happy. ;)

ohhhh do i remember those days. i would think i would never ever find another like him......believe me, you will find many more wonderful men. with each break up after 2 yrs i would be devasted but in a few months, i found the man of my dreams then that would end after 2 yrs and again, found the man of my dreams, and again, that would end until finally i did find the man of my dreams.
ohhh i know it feels horrible right now. go ahead and cry cry cry. in a few days you just need to jump back on that horse.
good luck to you
lots of hugs and kisses coming your way from yt

I too dated the same guy all through high school. When we broke up I thought my world was over. It takes a bit of time to feel better but do not worry. Time really does heal all wounds. A year later I met my husband and now we have been married 6 years. I am so happy I broke up with the other doof as I would have never met my hubby otherwise! Just remember...everything happens for a reason :)

im sorry sweetie, its going to get better i promise you.. we are all here for
you anytime you need to talk. i know right now your heart aches and you
feel like someone punched you in the stomach really hard, but you will
can get over this... time will heal you.....you now need to focus on you and
your girlfriends...keep yourself real busy now... go out with the girls, hang out and do girly things...
hope you feel better...

Sweetheart, I know you hurt, I've been there, done that. I was the Queen of "one boyfriend" relationships and believe me there weren't that many. Each time a relationship ended I thought my world would end... but you know what..... I survived and I learned so much about myself during each relationship that when Mr. Right finally did come along and after dating Mr. Right for almost 5 years I was truly ready to make a life-long commitment -- we have been married for almost 26 years and are still going strong.

Your "value" as a girlfriend is not in being a SIZE 2. It is who you are, what you think, and what is in your heart. If a man is only interested in how you look, then look somewhere else. Men ARE visual, and most do like to have a "slick chick" to show off, but if that is all there is to a relationship, then it's time to move on. Mr. Right is there -- somewhere behind the mystery door.

you said it all babe :thumbup: :thumbup:

awww jackie! You will remember him as your first always... and you will fall in love again (believe it or not) and you will probably fall in love again after that and again and again until you find 'the one'! Breakups are always hard, they flat out suck! :thumbdown :mad:
My exfiance & I broke up a year and a half ago after 10 years together! :( It was really really hard, but it got so much easier over time. He was not my first everything, but I was 19 when we started dating! Im 30 now... older & wiser. I loved him with all my heart and I know I'll never forget him and all that I learned with him, from him. Also I'll never forget all the things we did together, going to hawaii, buying my first house, buying my first car, grieving over lost pets together, and many many other things. But we grew up and we grew apart. Every emotion you feel right now is normal and ok... eating ice cream is something ALL people do, not just single people silly! :D

Thank you guys soo much. It still hurts, but im trying to find the good in things. me & my friends went out for pedicures and are going to have a sleepover :) i never got to have sleepovers when i had a boyfriend. I really am learning to appreciate how much my friends are there for me. For once in our lives, all 4 of us are single at the same time, so we have decided to celebrate it instead of being sad about it! when i want to crawl in a corner and die, i just go out and do something, i run, jump, flip, practice my back handspring, anything to get my mind of it. Its only been a couple of days, and i still cant stop crying at night, mostly because all i can do is sit around and think about evreything. I gave him back the ring.. that hurt like hell & i spent most of today locked in the girls lockerroom. But i know that i have the best of friends and that soon enough, i will get over it