Is it wrong for me to do this? Well since it is Christmas , my family does a secret santa drawing every year.. this year I was lucky enough to get my mom ... so I bought her a present and I also bought my godson a present. BUT here's my problem... I felt bad for not getting my lil cousins a present ( Samantha Age 3 and Belinda age 7) so I bought them a lil small gift just for them to open. Anyhow my dilema is do I buy my 2 sisters Ages 39 and 15 a present now since I bought my lil cousins one and not them is it bad? Am I being a bad sister? Hubby thinks it's not bad that I bought them a present he says that they are lil kids(my cousins) and that my sisters are older and shouldnt expect a present? Last year I bought them a present and I didnt get one from them ...so what should I do? FYI the whole point of the secret santa was to limit our spending..but I feel sorta bad for not getting them anything... should I get them something or just return my lil cousins presents?:( |
I would not be sisters anything because they are grown. But the little ones I would because I am firm believer that Christmas is more for the the kids than adults when it comes to the presents. |
It's tough but it's Christmas so it's hard not to get people you love something especially since they are kids. Maybe you could do something totally simple for your sisters like frame a picture of the three of you. That way you're not spending a bunch but you got them a little something to open and if they don't get you anything because they are sticking to the secret santas, you won't feel bad. But that's the hard part when you get one person a gift you have to get all of them :rolleyes: |
I Have No Brothers And Sister But I Have 2 Sisters Il And 2 Brother In Laws And I Have Noticed That If The Gift Want Expensive They Didnt Care So I Just Bought Fo Rthe Kids After That And They Dont Seem To Care So, If You Want To Just Buy For The Young Ones That Fine, Thats What Hubbies And Boyfriends And Things Are For To Spoil The Older Ones |
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THATS A GOOD IDEA, I STARTED GIVING ONLY CLOSE PEOPLE PICS OF MY KIDS AND WHEN I DO I PUT THEM IN A FRAME, IT JUST SEEMS SO MUCH MORE TOUCHING, ALSO CUTE FRAMES ARNT TO EXPENSIVE AT WALMART |
not a bad idea with the pics... too bad we dont have one of each other ..but I have one of my older sister and her son on his 3rd bday party,..;. and for my younger one.. a pic of her on her sweet 15 party... good idea!! |
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good ideas girls! thanks!! Honestly I dont know why we do secret santa.. I always end up caving...lol |
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