worst weekend
 

My daughter came to me saturday night and told me that she has a drug problem and she needs me to take care of her 2 1/2 year old son I knew something was wrong with her because i would babysit for her and each day she would drop her son off late each day finally her job fired her ,her and her husband seperated last year after months of him mentally abusing her telling her she needs to loose weight and going out on weekends and not coming home until sunday nights finally she had enough and left him ,well she meet someone about a month ago turns out he is a drug user and now my daughter is using i just dont see how she can do this to her son .he is so adorable . I"m so upset with her i never dreamed i would have to face somthing like this , and then to make matters worse my husband was on his way home from work last night and got rear ended my car is totalled the backend is shoved clear up no more trunk on the trunk my car has the words pontiac on it and the p is enbeded in the guys minni van thank god my husband was not injured .sorry so long just had to vent .heres a pic of my grandson i just dont see how she could do this to him.what is this world coming too all these kids doing drugs . :confused: :mad:

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I am so sorry...i will be praying for you and your daughter...i hope she can turn her life around. What a handsome lil guy...if i wasn;t so old for him...i would ask him out;)

I'm so sorry to hear this for you and your grandbaby, who is precious by the way! It's good though that she felt she could come to you and tell you and she didn't keep her baby in danger and keep it to herself. I hope you don't mind me saying that you could have found out in a much worse way. At least she has sense enough to know she has a problem and hopefully will do something about it. You are in my thoughts and prayers as I know it's easy for me to sit back and say everything will be ok. It's hard to know what someone is going through unless you've walked a mile in thier shoes. I have a twenty year old who has a mind of his own and worries me sick sometimes but am fortunate that he doesn't have any children. Sorry about your car too! Wish I could give you a big hug! :hug:

I'm so sorry to hear about all the problems you have been having. :(

im so sorry to hear you are going thru this. It wont be easy going thru this but please know we are for you. I will keep yur family in my prayers.

sue

So sorry to hear that scrappysmom we are thinking of you and sending best wishes to you and your family :love:

I am so very sorry to hear about your daughter and grandson. Be glad she did come to you. So many don't, and it is tragic. A friend of mine is going through this same thing, and I have seen what it does to the family. They finally had an intervention where the only choices they gave her daughter was jail or treatment. She is in treatment now, and so far is doing good. I hope and pray that everything will turn out good for you.

I am so sorry to hear what happened.. I will keep you all in my prayers.. I am just glad your daughter realized that she had a problem and maybe this can get her on track

So sorry about your news. Your in my and Toto's prayers.

:( The same thing happened to my parents. My brother had a daughter and both him and his wife became addicted to drugs. Eventually my parents had legal guaradianship of her and raised her for 8 yrs until my sister in law got her act together - took a long time, my brother never did get his together.

Your grandson is adorable and he is very lucky to have you to take care of him. We will be keeping your daughter in our prayers that she gets the help she needs!!

Big hugs to you! I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles! You little grandbaby is so cute and I'm glad he has you! My son had a dependency problem a few years back and we got him into treatment and it worked...thank goodness. It is a very scary, emotional, and worrisome time and my heart goes out to you. I hope your daughter seeks help and things will get back to normal for you! Best wishes and I'll be praying for you and yours!

:hug: I'm so sorry about what's happening. At least she caught herself early on. My ex's sister was in a similar situation, except she'd been using for a long time. She dropped her son off at Grandpa's, and went to a rehab center- after my ex told her that if she didn't, he would call child protective services.

If you want anyone to talk to, please PM me. I've seen what you're seeing, and the best people to talk to are those who have experienced the same thing.

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thank you for all your kind words and prayers , my daughter called last night to tell me that she is checking herself in rehab ,she misses he son and asked how he was doing ,she said that she wants me and my husband get have temporarly custody until she gets her life back on track ,i hope she means what she says , :)

I am so sorry to hear your news. At least your daughter was able to recognize that she has a problem and came to you. It is a good thing she knew that her son need to be taken care of. I hope she gets the help that she needs and that she will make it through. Sorry to hear about your husband. Thank goodness he is alright. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God bless!!!

Oh wow, scrappysmom, I'm so sorry to hear about all your troubles. Your grandson is just adorable. I will keep you in my prayers. Hope Scrappy gives you extra sweet puppy kisses this weekend!

gosh i'm so sorry! i am in the exact same boat execept it's my sisternlaw. after 11 years of being married to my brother and having 4 beautiful children she decides that she wants to be single and party. my brother is going insane, he really loves her and this came as a huge shock to him and everyone in my family :( she has been cheating on my brother for 1 month and just abandoned the kids.and went tto live with her boyfriend, my niece who is the eldest one out of the 4 children says that she does not want anything to do with her mom the ages of the kids are 10,8,7,3 so thier so small and i feel so bad because they need a mommy and it's like she doesn't even care. i couldn't imagine leaving my kids like that. and to top it all off she's now pregnant with this man's baby :eek: i know, it's really bad. so my dad is going to take custody of the 2 older children and i might take custody of the baby and my mom is going to take the 7 yr old girl. i usually don't ever talk about my personal problems but i just thought that maybe i can be of some comfort for you letting you know your not alone. right now my poor brother is not stable at all he just totally fell apart and that's why were all stepping in with taking the kids. i truely hope that your daughter gets better and see's that precious baby and realizes how much he needs her, i know my nieces and nephews are really confused and sad it just breaks my heart. so i can imagine how you feel with it being your daughter. i am here for you in any way feel free to pm me anytime. may god be with your daughter and keep her safe.

jesscruz, your story is heartbreaking as well. I am so sorry to hear it. I will pray for you as well. It seems that sometimes people get caught up in there own selfish desires and they can't see how much they are hurting the people that love them. I want you and scrappysmom to know that you can always find people here who care! God Bless.

Your grandson is beautiful. I hope that you and your daughter get everything straightened out soon. You're being a great mom.