I need them..
 

I need yalls prayers. Last night, my boyfriend of a year and a half and I broke up..or..are taking a "break" :unlove: I know there are a lot of people out there with a lot bigger problems than me, so Im just asking for a little bit of your prayers. My heart hurts a lot right now..

Awww, sweetie, I'm so sorry you are in pain! Sending prayers and happy thoughts that it resolves itself fast!:)

I am very sorry that you are going through this. One thing that sounds cliche' but is very true is that if it's meant to be it will be. I will pray for you and I are here if you need someone to talk too.

I am praying for you. Broken hearts are very painful.

I'm so sorry that you're hurting, break-ups - regardless of the circumstance - can be painful. A break may be just what you two need to decide what direction you want to take with your relationship. Even though you're hurting, use the time to think about what you really want for the future - and ask yourself if you see him in it. I'm a firm believer that if two people are really meant to be together, they will be - and if you and your bf are meant to be, you two will find your way back to one another.

Good luck!

I am sorry to hear about your breakup. Most of us have been through this and it is one of the hardest things to go through. As hard as it is to take, I'm sure everything will work out for the best. You have a great support group right here at YT. Good luck to you and my prayers are for you.

so sorry for your breakup... hope your heart heals real soon.... keep your chin up, we are here for you...

OHHH hunny, I know that you are in a lot of pain right now, but I promise you it will get better. For now keep your puppy close, you may be surprised at how much comfort our little best friends can be at times like these ....God Bless and good luck.

Larissa.....girl, I'm so sorry! If you need to talk, PM me, and I'll give you my number.

Hang in there....things may turn around but if they don't - it wasnt meant to be :( but I know how much this can hurt - Sorry to hear you broke up.

Thanks guys..I know itll get better and I also am a VERY stong believer in "whats meant to be will be." I just dont understand the whole taking a break thing. He said he wants to make sure that its meant to be, but I dont see how not being in a relationship will show that?

Hi. The same thing happened to me this summer... june... my boyfriend and i had been dating for almost 3 years.. and he decided he wasn't sure anymore.. i know the pain.. but i can also tell you that it will get better... at first i thought i would take him back if he came.. but now i realize.. and you will too.. that you don't want to be with someone who isn't sure if they want to be with you.. you deserve better than that. He and I still talk and see eachother here and there... and i think that maybe someday.... but i'm not going to sit around and wait... and just from experience... a "break" is a nice way for him to break up... he's taking baby steps.. the easy way out... and i'm sure he is a great guy.. mine was too.. honestly... he just wasn't ready to committ and got scared.. guys do that.. girls know what they want... guys... get worried... how old are you? i am 22 (23 on october 7th). We were planning on getting married and everything.. so i understand the shock and the hurt... but you will get through it... the thing i found that helped was talking about it.. i was lucky to have friends who didn't mind hearing about it for the past 3 months :p time heals... it's hard.. but you will be alright :) if you need to talk.. i am here and COMPLETELY understand. keep smiling bella

I'm sorry you're going through this, but I think we've all been there before. My first love lasted for 3 years, he was my first everything really. It was VERY hard on me and we broke up during my graduation. What's really tough is that you have to go from being a couple to by yourself. Just try to hang out with your friends and family and stay positive. I'm sure you guys broke up for a reason. Try to concentrate on yourself now. Everyday things will get better so you just have to take it day by day.

so sorry, I sure hope things work out for you and him, how does that saying go... "If you love him, let him go, if it's true love, he'll come back to you"
something like that! anyways, good luck to you and I hope everything works out just fine for you!

I'm sorry for the pain your in right now but as everyone has said things happen for a reason. Praying for you to stay strong.

I'm so sorry your hurting so much right now. There's an old saying: If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you, it was meant to be.
I hope everything works out for you. Hugs and Prayers, Sweetie, and hang in there and think good thoughts.

Lots of hugs & puppy kisses your way from me & the furkids. I'm so sorry that you are going through this right now. But keep your chin up okay Chicklet? It can't rain all the time. *hugs*

Just make sure that your ex isn't trying to "have his cake and eat it too"! Be strong! If I were you, I would not call him, don't pay him any attention! Make him see what he is missing! Guys like the "chase." That may be one reason why he wants to "take a break." So, make him chase you!

devoted to Lucy!
 

I'm so sorry your heart is hurting! I'll keep you in my prayers.

Oh girl I just went thru this with my ex. We were together for 4 yrs, and it's not easy. It hurts so bad...please pm if you want to talk. I'll give you my number and I can even call you if you want to talk ( I got free long distance). It'll be okay, I promise, you'll get thru this.

Man that's always tough. Nothing anyone can say or do will make it any easier. Only time will take care fo the heart ache.

hang in there...My b/f and i broke up yesterday as well...except he is trying to keep my yorkies from me.

Wow! Now thats low!:mad:

You better belive I'd be taking someone to court over my furbabies!!!!!! No way in h*ll someone would take my babies from me! :mad: Best of luck to you. I'm sure he is doing it out of spite. Hang in there. :(

i'm giving him a week to come to his senses then an attorney will be called.

Good for you!!!!!!!!! :clapsmile My very best friend actually had to take her ex-boyfriend to court over "their" dog. Even though HE bought the dog, she was the one who cared for it...bought him food, took him to the vet and paid for all the vet expenses, ect. She had all the receipts to prove this, too. She told the judge that the dog was a gift. It is against the law to take gifts back, and since she had receipts to show that SHE was the one taking care of him, she ended up with the dog...hands down.

Best of luck to you! Please keep us updated on how everything turns out. ;)

Well said!!!

My fiancee made a comment once that if we ever split he is taking my babies...I looked at him, smiled and said "we'll see" :mad: and then I said First off you can't split them because they've been together and they will suffer...2..I am the one taking care of them..yeah he gives them love but no one at home bathes them, makes sure they have fresh water and food and run them to the vet. I did say you can have visitation rights and thats IT!!
Also all receipts are under my NAME....just like everything else in my house.. hahahahaha I hope I don't sound like a B*tch but better safe than sorry. And don't get me wrong...I love my fiancee to death and our relationship is wonderful.

This is so hilarious to me because this is EXACTLY what I do! :p I'm not a b*tch, but you have to take precautionary measures! I'm married, but I make sure I am very self-sufficient. There are just too many things that happen to relationships these days...not just infidelity, but death, too. All the vet bills are in my name, I bathe the doggies, come home EVERY single day for lunch to walk them, I give them fresh food and water every single morning, ect. ect. It is better to be safe than sorry! You are right!;)