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Moving out My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Things have been kind of "off" for the last few months. He's been completely swamped with work and hasn't had much time to spend with me. I've been bringing it up since it started, but last night he said that he thinks our only chance is if I move out so he can accomplish what he needs to and see how much he would miss me/need me. So today I begin that search for a new place. And it certainly isn't easy trying to find a place that will accept my 2 furbabies. I know I'll be okay. I just had to get it off my chest. :) |
good luck. Its hard to start over on your own. I would say ahsta and be gone. jerk (((HUGS))) |
Sorry to hear. Can he not move and you stay with your furbies? |
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Ah good luck then.:thumbup: |
I'm in California also and yes it is hard to find somewhere that excepts one let alone two dogs. We were renting a nice house(very resonably priced with a great landlord) and she decided to sell it. We couldn't find anything within out means that would. So we bought a 5th wheel and it is our home on wheels. So far we have lived three different areas. Which is one of the nice things about it.Also you get to see all different kind of dogs. You can move to wherever you want to be. Here is our *castle* Yep,I'm trailer trash and love almost every minute of it. Good luck in your move and with your relationship.http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...1/000_0161.jpg |
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years (and 2 months! :D ) and we are also trying to find a new place.. but everything almost everywhere (We live in Southern California).. is so freakin expensive! im sorry to hear that things aren't going to well right now.. i hope nothing but the best for you and hope all goes well! |
Michelle - I'm sorry to hear things aren't going so well. Perhaps this might be the signal for a fresh start. I hope that you get everything your heart desires. I'm so glad you have Kona and Bernie to help you through. The perfect place to life and everything with it is waiting for you out there..... |
Im sorry My husbands job requires travel so we puchased a 5th wheel I travel with him sometimes and wont give up the pets. I know everything will be perfect in about a year trust the gypsy. |
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Thanks Gypsy. :) |
I will put a couple of prayers in for you to find a new place close to work soon....I also want to tell you hang in there, sometimes things that dont look very good at the time, may be a blessing in the future....Good luck, I am far away from you, but if I can help let me know....:) |
Hi Michelle, maybe you might think this situation over and come to realize that it all might be for the best. My prayers that you will find a nice place for you and your babies closer to your work. I looked at the pictures in your dogster, what darlings you have there. The little guy is just the cutest, you will be okay, just think positive. I always find that when the going gets tough to look to the Lord for his help and really lean on him, and things always have a way of turning around with his help and if they don't he sure helps to lighten the load. Give your babies a hug for me and best of luck to you and keep looking up. Patti and Baby Blessing I am sure the Lord has a special someone that he wants you to spend your life with. Keep your eyes open and listen to your heart, along with his help. |
devoted to Lucy! I'm sorry you're having to move, but I truly believe that when one door closes another one opens. I pray that you'll find the perfect place for you and your furbabies closer to work. Someplace that will "feel" perfect the minute you walk in the door. Good luck, Kim & Lucy:aimeeyork |
I am so very sorry for you.Good luck Sweetheart! What a stressfull way to spend a weekend! Living with a workaholic isn't always easy..... I have been married to one for over 25 years :) |
Aaawww Michelle that really sucks...but Im sure when he is alone he will realize what he had!!! Guys can be jerks sometimes and its hard to just forget about him espically since youve been together for so long!!! Finding a place around here is soo crazy expensive and your right most places dont except pets and then the ones that do either raise the ret or make you oay a huge pet deposit:thumbdown I hope everthing works out for the best!! |
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I'm actually doing a lot better today. Yesterday we went to the Giants game (my anniversary present to him), it was a little tough at first, but I was able to see that he does still love me. He just needs some time/space to clear his mind to see what he wants/needs in his life and to be able to appreciate all the things that I do for him. Time will tell what happens with our relationship, but I know I'll be okay... how can I not, I have Kona and Bernie around to cheer me up. |
Prayers for God's will to be accomplished in your life. God bless you. |
Thanks for everyones thoughts during the last few days. My bf and I have spent majority of the day discussing whatever issues we have. I think we've found a way to work through them. Time will tell of course. But it was good for us to do this. Thanks again everyone! I love the YT family! |
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awww sorry to hear things are not working out. I sure no how you feel, my husband is working 7 days a week and 4-5 12 hour shifts per week and I was so bummed this weekend, I maybe seen him for 2 hours since he works 3rds! hang in there, hopefully things will work out the way they are suppose to! Just be patient, I know I'm trying! |
how are you doing?? have you already moved out??? |
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