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Unbelievable This is just a ranting post. I've tried SO hard to figure out what I should do with my life so I FINALLY think I've figured it out and my cousin says "I DEFINITLY want to do this with you" and we of course make plans for the future and I tell her "are you serious about this" and she of course says that she's very serious and really wants us to go this direction. So then how can she just back out I mean what is her problem She NEVER cares about this side of the family she forgets how much we did for her and how much I constantly do I mean when was the last time her and her siblings even got me a birthday present? FAMILY is so much more important then friends I mean my family is SO messed up but I still know they should come first I've given up sooo many friend things that were important just because they were visiting. I reschedule everything so I can make sure they have a nice time. This isn't fair to me at all. I do so much for everyone. now I have no idea what to do with my life yet again |
If you think you found what you really want to do with your life and you need another person to make it happen - then continue looking to find that other person. I agree that family is important, but sometimes they are just so dysfunctional that you may need to distance yourself some (for your own health). As you are doing so much for everyone else, make sure you are also doing for yourself (and you should always take care of yourself first - even if this seems selfish, cause if you aren't taking care of yourself, how can you possibly take care of others). Just wanted to let you know others are thinking of you, too. |
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yes.... they really is not fair... but now you have me curious, what was your plan????? lol... hee hee:p |
Surround yourself with people that you love and love you. And have your best intrest at heart whether they are family or not. Remeber you can have a family of choice. |
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I have the same problem with my SIL! I don't talk to her much anymore. We used to be BF during High School but then she turned evil. And the B-day thing gets me too. She and my brother traveled an hour away to attend her friends kid's b-day but never even called their own nephew, my son, on his. Plus they are always borrowing money from my mom that they never pay back and they never even came to see her on mothers day. Sorry, I didn't mean to take over your thread I just wanted to let you know you're NOT ALONE. My advice is to stay away from the people and things that upset you. But sometimes it can still bother you, but it can only get better when you replace the bad with good. Good luck sweetie. You can alway e-mail me if you need to rant and rave about something. I'm here. |
It's hard to find a "family of choice" pretty much ANY close friend I've ever had has turned out to be a bad person. I mean, not to sound whatever but, I'm a REALLY good friend and no one has said other wise, because it's TRUE. It's hard to distance yourself from the family in a way I want to be around because I want to watch the little ones grow up and such, that's very important to me, just like I watched my cousin grow up! (I'm the oldest by a lot ha ha) Yorkease, you aren't turning it into your thread ha ha ha. But ya thanks for saying that, and being there as well. Oh and I want to become a preschool teacher, but OWN the preschools and such, I mean I've wanted to do that for a while, but money is important to me (hey I live in California) and was trying to figure out a way to make money off it. and once I did I talked to my cousin about it. but sorry for this long reply |
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