I hate that my younger sister (43) has colon cancer. I hate that now I have to have a colonoscopy with no health insurance. I hate that I called a Dr. to have this test done and now have to get a referral from my family Dr. I hate her snotty receptionist who said she could not give me a referral because my record did not show anywhere where she had treated me for any colon problems...stupid woman. I told her I need the referral to get checked because my SISTER has cancer...I am not sick! How stupid is that. I HAVE to go to my family Dr., spend $55 to get a referral! I hate the health care industry! There, I got that off my chest...now I just need to make that stupid appointment!!! Grrrr!!! :mad:

Oh Crystal...I hope you are feeling better soon! Take care of yourself and take those meds like you are supposed to. If you think your marriage can be saved, seek counseling. If you really feel it is a lost cause, it may be time for you to move on. Don't waste your whole life with a man you don't or can't love! Just be happy!!! And really, take care of yourself! You are all YOU have!

I wish I could, but I'm @ work.

Thank for the nice words.

This also made me think about something else I hate. My best friend just came up to see me at work and she know's nothing about what I typed. No one does, everyone (family/friends) think we have a great marriage. I hate having no one to talk to. It's easy for me to type it on here since I don't see any of you but I can't stand to talk to someone about my problems. I never have, I guess it's easier to keep it to myself

Crystal

i hate going to the doctors.
i hate housework.
i hate having to cook.
i hate having a husband who thinks i should be 115lbs and a size 4 to look sexy.
i hate feeling useless.
i hate that the doctors keep wanting to run tests on my dad but can't tell us what's wrong.
i hate bills.
i hate mornings.
i hate doing laundry, but i also hate running outta underwear
i hate not being able to afford a house-home.
i hate tv shows with a cliff hanger season finale.

i hate the fact that im 130 fat friggin pounds.. the most i ever weighed.
cant get into that bikini this year.. well, back to smoking and i hate that too

Well, I hope that everyone has a better day, tomorrow! :)

I hate taht my hisband will be home from work in 15 minutes and be in a bad mood because I don't work. Never mind he didn't work for the first 5 years I knew him and I lost my job thru no fault of mine and I get a pension and I worked for 33 years at the same job so I feel I am entitled to be off. Not to mention I took car of hus 85 year old father for 16 months befofe he died even when I was working full time,. I am now taking care of my 86 year old parents and sepend 4 hours a day there so technically I am working and bringing in more money then he is. He wil come home and say "on the computer again"!
Well enough of that I feel better!!! And I got both of my dogs microchipped today!!!!

Oh, yeah...here's one more and I'm through. I hate that the people I live with are such slobs. Clothes dropped wherever, towels that they use to dry themselves off with...on the couch, soda cans on the coffee table, shoes...wherever they feel like taking them off.

I CAN'T STAND IT!!!!!!! I'm not their freaking slave! I can't tell you HOW many times, I've just picked up shoes and threw them outside, picked up clothes and threw them in the trash. GEEEZZZZ! I can't wait to get the kids out of the house and send hubby back to his momma...let her pick up after him!:mad:

Okay...I feel MUCH better now!:D

I also hate the fact that my younger sister (age 40) is very ill and we don't know what is wrong.

I'm also sad that another day of the visiting UPS and mail man and still no buddy package!

Just one more...
 

I absolutely hate it when my clients call me or email at the very last minute wanting to pull their ads (I work at a newspaper) out of the paper!! I'm not the one who edits the paper! I can't just put in and pull out ads as I please! These people have no sense of time and deadline!!!

Ahhh! It's driving me nuts!

I hate stupid people. I worked at a bank(well, I'm off right now, due to foot surgery), but anyways, I hate when you have your doors closed. The BIG OLD sign with the business hours, and they still come and knock at the door asking you if you are open!, then there are some others that tell you what they want, to make a deposit, withdraw or whatever, but they don't provide you with account info!!!, like if you know everybody's accts. I hate them!!!:mad:

OMG...I think your families cousins live with me at my house here
in Arizona!

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Grrr......:mad: grrr......:confused: grrrrr......:confuse2:grrrr........ :angry:

And that all I have to say about that. ;)

I'm not going to use the word hate because I think that is too strong of a word so I'm going to use dislike.

I dislike when my husband makes me feel guilty about being on the computer. He makes me feel that I should be cleaning house 24/7. He doesn't say much, but his actions speak very loudly.

I dislike my brother. He's been smoking marijuana for years and recently has gotten into meth. He's been married 4 times and his current marriage is crumbling apart. He's had children with 3 of his wives. He has NEVER made a right choice in his life. The only thing he talks about is about is his self. I don't care for his step-children. One is ADHD, and the other one is 13 and sexually active. My whole family beathes better after he leaves a family gathering. He's the only sibling that I have and I can't stand him!!! Isn't that sad?

I dislike my Dad. Don't get me wrong....I love my Dad because he is my Dad, but if he wasn't I probably wouldn't have anything to do with him. My Dad has mental problems and since he is divorced he is my responsibility. He keeps trying to go off of his meds. My Dad lies all the time. You can't believe anything that he says. And once he tells a lie it becomes like truth to him so you can never convince him otherwise. He has emphysema and was in the hospital a while back, near death. Well he started reminiscing about the past, but he lies so much that I learned absolutely nothing that I felt that I could pass on to my kids as his memories. It really was a sad time for me when I realized that.

I, ok, I'm going to use the word, hate HAVING to clean because company is coming over. I like to have a weeks notice so I can get everything just right. It would also help if my family would help out.

Sorry this is so long. This has been really helpful for me. Life is good and I do have a wonderful life and an absolutely great family. They are very supportive in the problems that I have with my side of the family.

Oscar is too!!!

Could be....I think his dad has kids in every state. :rolleyes: LOL!

Well, let's get these cousins together! I'll send them all over to your house!;) :D

Too Late Sister...I already told them the family reunion was
in Texas and they are on their way! :D

I hate that people make "women" with no kids feel like Sh*t on mother's day!
I hate that people feel it is ok to ask you why you don't have kids and a husband at 32...especially when you are only 30
I hate mom's who lie for their kids
I hate when old people tell me I am going to hell because I have tattoo's....especially the one's in naughty places.

My fav!!! You are to pretty to be that big!! or You have such a pretty face for a fat girl, if you'd only lose some weight...Have you ever considered gastric Bypass!! You can look just like....EEWWWW....I like my jiggle old evil dried up lady with your wig on backwards, um but thanks!!:mad: :thumbdown

ROFLMAO!! You're too funny!!:D :D

Yeah, here too and not supposed to end until this weekend, for two nice days then rain again.........I'll help you work on that ark! I hate the rain and cold weather but that's Ohio in May... bring on June, paleeze!

I hate that I have to work at a "real job". I'd much rather be home with my yorkies.

Nope. complaints complaints complaints ladies! Not stuff that we hate!! :)

I am totally with you on that one!!!! All it has been doing is raining, no sunshine, no warm days, cold wet rain that won't go away, and more rain:eek: Sometimes I really hate living in ohio, must be nice to be in california where it is like summer...

My fav!!! You are to pretty to be that big!! or You have such a pretty face for a fat girl, if you'd only lose some weight...Have you ever considered gastric Bypass!! You can look just like....EEWWWW....I like my jiggle old evil dried up lady with your wig on backwards, um but thanks!!:mad: :thumbdown[/QUOTE]




I think it's darn friggin rude of people to say those things to you! You are who you are, and if you are happy with the way you look, who do they think they are for making such rude comments to you :confused:
Tell them to first have a GOOD look at themselves, and if they are so perfect, they have room to judge... i can't stand it when people say hurtful things to others!
At least you don't have to be skin over bones to prove your great personality! ;)

Okay, another day - another complaint.

I bashed my foot/toe again last night on the solid oak bench in our hallway. This makes 3 times in 8 weeks - no wonder my poor foot won't heal. Wouldn't be such a big deal normally, but we have this STUPID health savings account insurance where the 1st $5k is our responsibility. Like we have $5K just laying around!! So, now I'm limping again and trying to look normal while teaching 3-5 yoga/pilates classes a day!!!!!!!!!!!

I just hate that I clean the house and it looks as bad or worse the next day after a 2 and 4 yr old destroy it. I get tired of fixing a nice meal every night and my husband will never eat it until 2 or 3 hours later. I dislike he comes home from work and stays outside until dark.
I wish I had more energy, after doing everything that needs to be done at home. Im a zoombie after doing it and have no time or energy for fun. I never get to see my friends. Or Im to tired or lazy to go anywhere.
I dislike Im so tied down to home, I dont trust anyone to care for my dogs right now so leaving even for a night away is out of the question. I hate that one of my dogs keeps pooping in their dog water!
I hate that Im getting wrinkles and where I used to fix up daily....most days I look like a bag lady with big shirts with some kind of stain (dog or kid) on me. It may be noon before a comb sees my stringy hair.
I hate I wasnt strong enough to continue to not smoke.
I dislike that my well meaning but irritating mother does the "you should" You could" "I would" game everytime we see each other.
Other then those things Im pretty thankful for my life.....lol! Excuse me while I pop a xanax:D

I just hate that I clean the house and it looks as bad or worse the next day after a 2 and 4 yr old destroy it. I get tired of fixing a nice meal every night and my husband will never eat it until 2 or 3 hours later. I dislike he comes home from work and stays outside until dark.
I wish I had more energy, after doing everything that needs to be done at home. Im a zoombie after doing it and have no time or energy for fun. I never get to see my friends. Or Im to tired or lazy to go anywhere.
I dislike Im so tied down to home, I dont trust anyone to care for my dogs right now so leaving even for a night away is out of the question. I hate that one of my dogs keeps pooping in their dog water!
I hate that Im getting wrinkles and where I used to fix up daily....most days I look like a bag lady with big shirts with some kind of stain (dog or kid) on me. It may be noon before a comb sees my stringy hair.
I hate I wasnt strong enough to continue to not smoke.
I dislike that my well meaning but irritating mother does the "you should" You could" "I would" game everytime we see each other.
Other then those things Im pretty thankful for my life.....lol! Excuse me while I pop a xanax:D