Grieving for a online friend Today i write to you all because i've lost a ten year online friend ,I feel so sad .The funny thing is he was a real love of mine not in a romantic way or anything like that in a healing way a true friend way ,always there always able to keep me hopeful and always in the realm of REAL"he was one of the most spiritual people i ever knew so im not sad or worried about his well being now that he has died I just feel sad ,and need a place to vent ,hope ya dont mind , His name was Robert ,he died on Tuesday he was 57 yrs old died of COPD ..was a recovering alcholic .Always that his liver damage would kill him not his smoking .When i got sick last year he lead weekly circles of light meetings in my behalf ,I was so sick he thought only of others , he would email me not daily or weekly even just now and again to ask me if i was still here ..we would laugh yet each knew it may be one day soon that one would no longer say yes im still here , well who knew ..it would be him . I feel so blessed by knowing this person we talked on the phone only once and it was enough to make it real for me . In my heart I know love is eternal because Ive had many losses in my life of the physical form .But my heart also knows what breaking feels like and for today mine feels those pangs .. Thank you for listening and know online friendships do matter ..in lovenlight Deb :wilted_ro |
Deb ~ I am so sorry for your loss and this difficult time you are going thorugh right now. My thoughts are with you. I do, now know what an inspiration online friends can be and I only just found that out this week here on this website. Simply amazaing, and I cannot express in words how just the littlest notion can make everything better. |
Im so sorry for your loss will you be attending the funeral for your closer? My thoughts and prayers are with you |
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oh deb, im so so sorry for your loss. i know its hard, take care of yourself, i am here for you...i will be thinking about you... |
Oh Deb...I am so so sorry ...That is far too young to go and my heart goes out to you. If you need to talk - I'm here....he was very lucky to have a good friend in you. Big hugs and my prayers to you and his family. I got chills reading your post. :( :( :( That's what my husband is dying of ....and he is the exact same age.... :( We'll be facing this in the near future and it's just an awful feeling. You can't stop thinking when faced with terminal illness..it's always on your mind.....I just hope he didn't suffer too much at the end. I know you'll be grieving for a long time for him and my heart goes out to you. |
I'm sorry for your loss. On-line or not, we are very close. You don't have to know a person, face to face to really care, we prove that on here everyday. :hug: :hug: :hug: |
Deb I am so sorry for your loss. Online friends can certainly be great. Seems like when you need them most they are there for you and supporting you in all things. See it's those that we can talk to with our hearts and not just our mouths. If you know what I mean. My thoughts are with you and again I am sorry for your loss. :( |
i'm so sorry to hear about your loss. hang in there. |
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Online friend's are also REAL friend's ... they are there for you in good & bad times. Keeping you in my thoughts. |
I'm so sorry Deb! I will send tons of hugs your way. And yes, online friends are real friends and we grieve the same regardless of how we know people. I will be sending thoughts your way! Oh heck, maybe I'll just take a little road trip and come give you a real hug :) |
hugs, i am so sorry for loosing your friend ! |
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