what now? remeber yesterday i was talking about the new man i met and how scared to death i was to have a new relationship. well i spoke to him last nite and asked again if he was divorced and said yes , where is the papers, he said he should get them anyday... last nite i had nightmares and could not sleep for crap. i spoke to him this morning and told him i was really upset. he said, NO NO NO NO gina, im not lieing to you i swear to you i would not do that to you. i told him i want to see papers. he just called again and said it takes 2 to 3 months for them to process them.. since oct... so it should be in the mail... what do i do? do i believe him? he does sound sincere... ive been burned before from the same situation and he knows it... he is trying his best to keep me..i feel so sad now...is it too go to be true? |
I know here in our area, it takes awhile, sometimes even a year, cause it is all the legal paperwork stuff through the courts. Here you can be divorced and a year later they print it in the paper.. under divorces granted..then people think ya got another divorce. |
Maybe he is telling the truth Gina. Just follow your heart. I hope this works out for you sweetie. |
thanks jen, he probably is, im just dieing inside..i feel so lost right now.im gonna see him tonight and tomorrow nite too. i hope i can trust him.. |
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Fool me once, shame on you Fool me twice, shame on ME! I'm not saying he will do anything wrong but I'd be angry at him if he hurts you in anyway. But the fact that he's so upset over the thought of losing you really does imply (at least to me) that he is sincere and cares for you. So have fun tonight and tomorrow and then take it from there. Let me know how it goes. I'll have my fingers and toes crossed! :p |
thanks again jen , your a real sweetheart...you made me feel good. |
it does take a while...i say for now...just trust him but when that time goes by and still nothing then get out!!!!! |
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