| lovespandp | 04-06-2012 07:32 AM | Wow thank you guys so much for the thoughts, prayers and strong words of wisdom! I am so thankful I can vent on YT. DH has way to much stress on him to talk to him about the things that I am dealing with- I don't want to put more pressure on him.. So it is nice to be able to come on here for advise and support!
Lately it just seems when things are good and we are ahead, something comes up and we go back down. I don't understand it. I guess it is hard right now because we have A LOT going on this year, Dh's brother is getting married in Sep he is the best man so he needs to plan the Bachelor party and the girls are going on a cruise for the bachelorette party. So that is like 600$ for me and he needs to spend like 1200$ money we don't have, plus my niece's 2nd B day party is in July, I helped my brother with the spending on the first one bc they are tight with money so I know I will and want to help them with this one, I think they are going to have it at my house too so that will be fun, also we are going to the river in June, and that is a lot of money...
Basically we are stressed about money LOL, We have A LOT of things going on this year and we don't really have the money, plus you throw our bills in there and it starts to get stressful!!
DH tells me not to worry he will handle it, he is able to have all the OT he wants at his work so he has been working like 14 hour days-
I am also a nervous wreck to go on this cruise!! I have never been on one and I never go places like that without DH so I am nervous!! Plus she said it docks in Ensanada Mexico! Uhh I am pretty sure I dont want to get off the ship and go on Mexico land!! That scares me, plus you always see people go missing on cruises!! LOL I think I watch too much TV!!
Also my Dad's 10th Year anniversary is coming up July so that always throws me off! It is so crazy it has been 10 years! Man the time gets past you so fast!! I miss him so much! I am still so hurt he is not around!
Anyways- thanks for being there for me guys!! I know things will get better, I do have a lot of things to be thankful for- I have a wonderful DH that always makes sure myself and Pnut are taking care of, we have a great house, great family, we have jobs! So I am thankful just stressed!! |