Since it's been made public in another thread who this member is, I'll link it here to save on the pm's. http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/off...-opinions.html

Notice how that thread was closed at the OP's request. I think she should have at least explained herself before asking for it to be closed. This only makes her look more guilty. :thumbdown

Well, running away is the ultimate proof of guilt.

I'm just amazed that someone has that kind of nerve!
I hope she takes the pic down! It really would give someone who doesn't know the truth the impression that you ordered, paid for and are happy with something you purchased from her.
That takes a lot of gall!
Again, I'm sorry this happened to you, just awful!

Again proof of this person's character! I find it comical that she asked for her thread to be closed and didn't apologize or comment on what she had done! What baffles me is did she think people wouldn't find out?? Just bizarre...

i thought the same thing. she's a coward and would rather slink away in shame then try to explain or apologize.

That was my whole thing?? I mean seriously, you really think you can come to YT and no one know? AND her one friend coming to her defense & saying Connie created this thread for sales? AND then turn around and say she doesnt want to be apart of any drama. Wow. Sounds like 2 peas in a pod.

:eek:oh no, just now seen this, so very sad that, a friendship has to end this way:( I'm thorn, they both sweet and nice ladies hope they solve this the best way:animal-pa

Yes, I agree and honestly it really makes me sad how downright MEAN some of the people who have posted on this thread are. I'm so disappointed in some of you. :(

I send hugs all around I know many of these ladies personally and even if I dont know them "ALL" personally.... I sure feel like I do I am sorry. I offer prayers to all! I hope everything is resolved soon.

I haven't seen anyone be mean. Facts were told by 2 different people. :confused:

Thank you for this post.

Connie - I'm happy to help you with additional advertising via social media for your website. I'm going to PM you.

Really? Unkind? Huh...
 

So annoys me when people get disappointed in others for standing up for what is right and for defending others when they have been so obviously wronged! No one has been ugly or "mean" to anyone today but we sure as heck have called someone on the carpet for brazen dishonesty today! If you think thats mean well I guess we are a bunch of meanies. The only person I am disappointed in is the one who brazenly stole Connie's designs after Connie so kindly showed this "friend" how to make them and after she told connie they would only be used for her own personal sewing for her dog! I bet if this were you and you had worked years perfecting your designs, building your clientele, customer service and your designs were a source of income for you in an already difficult economy, only to have a "friend" not only steal your designs but come and advertise her "latest custom creations" on the very site you sold to, you wouldn't be "disappointed" in anyone who stuck up for you! With friends like that who needs enemies!! Put yourself in connie's shoes for a second and if you aren't willing to do that take a look at the amount of people who have come on to this thread and another one to defend, refer her to others, rave about her as a businesswoman, designer and friend and
encourage her should speak very highly of who has the track record of integrity and who's story doesn't hold a bit of water, who is being truthful and who is not. Connie is also so classy and kind that she did not out this person but others did it for her! If it were me it would have been all out war! Connie has earned the respect, friendship and loyalty she has been shown today...this other person has not to say the least. And no one has been unkind...just brutally honest which is a trait this other person obviously doesn't possess.

I agree with you a little on this Theresa. I don't know if I would come on to defend anything with some of the things said...well, how they're worded and name calling. If Connie has a reason to be upset, that's fine. I just don't see how everyone is saying how she won't come on this thread when after reading the way things are written, I wouldn't either.

I don't know how close Connie & the other person are/were but I hope questions can be answered and a civilized conversation or dialogue can take place.

Connie, you do do beautiful work and I'm sorry this is happening. I really do hope this can be worked out

This is not the first time or the last that something like this has happened. The fact is there is always a lot of drama that goes on when it does but in truth this is what will happen in the end.

The members that posted to both of these thread will remember but YT is such a large community that in the end the story/feud will fade away. New members will not know, older member will forget the detail and people will move on.

This type of thing happens so often and the plot and stories become blurred and confused. It has happened with vendors, breeders, owners and even rescue. I've read them all and even participated in some but to tell you the truth with time it all becomes blurred.

I recently read where someone admitted to taking apart a dress to duplicate the design to begin making and selling dresses and more recently harnesses. The comment slipped through the cracks and I was shocked to see someone admit to doing this. But it does happen all the time.

Not taking side just stating a fact. It stinks when it happens but in the end it all just fades away.

Connie Im sorry that happened again. I also think it took nerve for her to come on here and ask opinions on your designs. Im sorry Linda and Jodi were taken advantaged of also

Megansmomma - always the calm, quiet, voice of reason. I hope that everything can be worked out between the two members - if possible.

:confused:................:lol tears

(;))

In my opinion, comments like this are mean. You don't think so?

she's a coward and would rather slink away in shame

Again proof of this person's character! I find it comical that she asked for her thread to be closed and didn't apologize or comment on what she had done! What baffles me is did she think people wouldn't find out?? Just bizarre...


Mary, maybe that would be true if you were involved but you weren't. This is between Cory and Connie and I agree 100% that Connie is classy and kind but you know what, so is Cory and to make her out to be some kind of villain is just ridiculous. The fact of the matter is that I think Connie does great work and is a real sweetheart. But Cory is to. Do things always have to be black and white? Is there never any grey area. I also know that Cory has been sewing on her own for a year, posting her creations on other sites alot. I was one of the people encouraging her as I would encourage most of the people on here. Many people were saying that they'd love to buy one of them and have been asking Cory. And I also think that when you look at a picture on a website, all of those dresses look pretty much the same. Has anyone purchased one of each and actually compared? I think there is enough business to go around and I don't think Cory ever was secretive about her creations. And by the way, we rarely ever post privately so all my posts are out there for people to read either here or the other sites. And do you really know Cory? For you to say that she hasn't earned any respect friendship or loyalty is not only untrue, it's completly unfair....
I stand by my earlier comment, I expected more from, of all people, you Mary. :(

:big_hug:
Thanks ladies! That's just how I feel but you guys say it so much better! :big_hug:

Where was the name calling? I just read the thread and sure didnt see it. I did see some assumptions made about Connie and her intentions in starting this thread

Awe thanks but I am just speaking the truth. :)

So you are back :rolleyes: Did you get to see Goofy while you were gone?

What a beautiful post and so well said. I hope you continue to do well, and I love your spirit!

Awwww, Janie!! Miss you! You'll never lose my friendship! Hope you are feeling better soon! Luv ya...

Speaking of everlasting Friendships ....
... Yolanda ! :wub:

I have to say this...........
 

Honestly I think this thread started out bc Connie was truly hurt!! She was seeking comfort and If the same thing happened to me I would be hurt as well.
When a friend betrays our trust it is a painful thing and sometimes we just need a shoulder to cry on.

I think if we truly search our hearts we will find the truth and the truth will set us free!!

I have done business with Connie and she was a kind honest down to earth person and I could tell by her character that she would not set out to judge or do wrong doing to anyone.
I just think her heart was broken and for that I am so sorry bc some people seem to judge her motives for this thread. It was a thread asking for some support for her broken heart.

With that said if you are here on this thread to comfort Connie than do so, but if you are here to judge her feelings I think you should keep your comments to yourself bc it would be like rubbing salt in her wound and noone needs that when they have been hurt.

I totally agree!! It was appalling that people accused Connie of starting this thread for sales.

Cory's friends have come to her defense but only Cory and Connie know what happened. I do question Cory for not speaking out if she believes none of this is true. It is just natural to defend yourself when you have been wronged.