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Originally Posted by celstu1
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Wow! Welcome back! I hope all is well with you and things all work out, I don't want to get too personal but if you feel comfortable answering... why were you in the hospital? Are you ok? Also what happened with that guy from the last time you posted? I hope things are well there also? I'm glad you came back to say hi though, really glad to hear you are well. I am thinking about moving to Houston someday actually! I keep trying to convince BF it's the way to go! Maybe he'll agree, we have to visit though! :) |
Thanks for all the warm Welcome backs. The hospital issue is sort of personal, but I'm ok now as long as I continue to take care of myself.
I had completely forgot about posting about Chad. I just reread that post and realized it was my last post on here.. sorry for worrying everyone! That ended up being a DISASTER! After spending a couple weekends together I just got the feeling something was off. He started saying we didn't make enough money to get married and all kinds of other excuses. I don't even remember how things finally ended, but they did.
Long story short, he contacts me about 2 months ago. I had posted another ad on Craiglist and he saw it. He started txting me sayin how he wanted to pick up where we left off. He still love me, didn't I still love him.. blah, blah, blah... He would txt/call me at 6am in the morning. I told him How could I still love him, it had been 9 months I didn't even know who he was anymore.
Anyway, one afternoon I was looking on his myspace to see if I could find a video he had posted. Well under his video section there was a subscriber and her picture was a picture of the two of them together and her name was "Kourtney F (his last name). I thought it might be his sister, but her name was Kourtney and I didn't think that was his sis's name. So I look at the girls profile and she is married to him! After messaging her I find out that they had been together since August '08 (we met in November), had gotten married in January, and were about to have a baby (meaning she got preggo mid-december). I couldn't believe itand was very upset at first. I was the other woman!!! :eek: HOw stupid could I have been, but in my defense he played a good game..almost too good. He had looked up apts for us to move into, my pictures were on his phone and his computer background, etc. She was living in Oklahoma at the time and we were in GA, so it was easy to hide.
I apologized to his wife and wished them well, and she was very nice about it. I spent the afternoon, thanking god for unanswered prayers. At the time we were together we did try to get pregnant. What a disaster that would have been!
Not too long after that I met a wonderful guy, Ryan. He lives on Saint Simons Island and is just a really nice guy. We dated until a couple weeks before I went into the hospital. For New Years he took me to Sea Island to the Cloister beach club (his parents are members). For anyone unfamiliar w/ Sea Island
Georgia Resorts and Spas - Sea Island - Coastal Georgia Luxury Resort Vacations , it is a very exclusive little island also Known as "the millionaires club" off of St. Simons. I felt like a princess. It was like being in a fairytale. Ryan and I are still friends and he is planning on visiting me sometime in the next month or two... he's in the process of opening up a BBQ restaurant. I don't see us getting back together as a couple though, b/c he likes to indulge in activities which I cannot partake in.