:( I miss Kelly! She was always so fun, and so nice to talk too. She taught me how to make little message boards! I really hope that she comes back soon, but I don't blame her for feeling the way she does.

Well I don't really know her but cannot understand why anyone would just make up lies like that. I know I don't like anyone lying to me especially for no reason.

Please do and thanks.

I agree. Especially the "no reason" part. Her stories are gone, but I'd rather miss them than waste time responding and being concerned about something that isn't true.

I totally agree with both of you!

That is exactly how I feel....really that is a waste and cannot trust someone you know lies

I know I don't like anyone lying to me especially for no reason.


I also agree with the above. In the world that I live in lying
is not an acceptable way to try and make friends. If I want
to read stories I will buy a book and personally I would find
it very hard to ever take anything she says seriously again.
I am sorry that she was humiliated in the way she was but
she does own some of this mess too.

hey everyone this thread was just asking about kelly i dont think it was meant to bbash her. Lets just let sleeping dogs lie. no lying was not cool but none the less shes not here to defend herself or explian why she did it. Lets just hope we all learned a valuable lessson.

i urge you all to take a look at at the "CSI" thread and read between the lines... the only convincing evidence that they gave us were about the tatoos and horse pic........ the "evidence" about the mill thing was only their word against kellys and hwo would they be able to get that info? i am of the assumption that customers who shop still have a certain amount of "anonymity" (is that even a word?...lol) especially if it is an online store and a customer pays by credit card, ect.... how would they get this info????? and we never actually saw any evidence leading to the beliefe that "ryan" doesnt exist, she posted a tatoo that he supposedly got, ok, but then CSI went on to hin that this person is a lie :confused: again, redirectiion....... as far as the dog bite incident with petco or petsmart or whatever it is called, did we actually see a VIDEO or voice recording where the managers state this didnt happen????? no, we didnt, again we have CSI's word agaisnt someone elses and im not going to go through them all if you want my thoughts you can pm me but a lot of these topics discussed as "evidence" and "lies" are actually one persons word against another, and we dont even know who CSI actually is..... so what makes them so credible??????

thank you, i agree.........

Exactly! We don't even know who they are but alot of people are quick to believe them anyway. Hmmm.

I agree also. Kelly is a human being and we all make mistakes. Who among us hasn't lied about something at one time or another and I for one will not condemn this poor woman because of this thread started by csi. As far as I know she hurt noone and I found her advice to always be honest and helpful. The way this woman was humiliated was just uncalled for.

i am not trying to defend kelly for what she's done i think the only person that can defend kelly is kelly. but i am also looking at it from both sides. ofcourse nobody likes being lied to(including me) but nobody knows why she lied. maybe she doesn't come from a "good" place or maybe she's struggling with something within, maybe she was one who wasn't accepted in the past, maybe she just wanted to be someone other than herself. nobody knows. i for one would never want to carry the burden of shoving ones face in the ground even more when it was already there. i feel bad for her, i just have this intuition that she just needed to be someone other than herself. and to me that's okay. as long as it didn't affect me financially or with my family.if it helped make her happy for the day when she is usually sad, then hey i'm glad i can help. i know some of you feel that she affected you and that's okay you have every right to be upset. but i too feel betrayed in a way from some people here. i feel that some of us are not appreciated, i feel that some us are not allowed to "question" if we do we get suspended, some are allowed to break rules, some are not. we ALL contribute to this site donating or not, i feel that it is because of ALL members that this site is what it is. i am glad for 1 reason only that the so called "CSI" brought this situation to light and that's because it has shown true colors. and not just kelly's but alot of others too. "i am not naming anyone". "this is not a personal attack". this is just me stating my opinion. nothing more nothing less, nowadays it seems like we can't even do that anymore. anyway, i just hope and pray that kelly is okay.

I don't know what is true and what isn't but I believe Kelly never meant to hurt anyone. That is what is important to me. I don't want to make it worse by arguing, I just want Kelly to know there are no hard feelings on my part and whether she returns or not I wish her the best.

SORRY, forgot to add that i think instead of admin constantly closing these threads with the last word, i think he or she(we don't know who this person really is, we have never seen a pic or anything, right???who knows he could be lying too right?)needs to answer our questons and let us reply too instead of just shutting us out. i think we ALL deserve it. seeing all these threads getting closed down for no reason and admin saying something then locking it , is really annoying. we should have a right to respond and interact with you too. jmho...