Pray for my brother and his little family Hi members I have been up all night crying......at 11pm I got a phone call from my mother telling me my nephew that was turning 17 on Dec.10 was in a car wreck. The young BF to Matthew was driving and flipped into the River in Lumberton NC Matthew and the other kid in the back seat died before they could bring them up. My brother needs are the help he can get, so please pray. Also as I sit here and type this I feel such hatred toward the driver, and Matthew's grandma since she failed to set rules in her house and allowed him to hang out and all times of night and now this. When just last week I told my Mom if something happened to Matthew she (his other grandma) would be at fault. Not even two weeks later this. matthew moved out of his father's house when he became 16 because he didn't like the house rules nor his stepmother...she didn't beat on him or anything she was just NOSEY and told everything. Now I am traveling down to NC and I wonder how I can possibly look these people in the eyes when I hate them, including his crack addict mother who ran out on him when he was 3 and his sister 2. Please send some words on how I can remain calm at this time, knowing that my Mom had to be sadated so I know she does not need the stress. But...... |
I am so very sorry I could not sleep this morning...so decided to see what is going on.... I am soooooooooo sorry to hear about Matthew. This is awful, and I know that you and you Mother will need to help each other thru this. I have already stated at my house, of 3 boys, that they would not be driving at 16. I really dont care what anyone says, with 5 brothers, and 3 boys, I see the immaturity in boys all the time. Its not till they get over 20 that they begin to have some "damn common sense". It sounds that these young boys were the same way.... I just really hate it for poor Matthew....he did not even have a chance to live....with such adversity that he has faced. Please be careful on your trip, and let us know if you need anything.! Shirley |
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God bless you. I am so sorry for your loss. |
That is so sad. I'm soooo sorry for your loss. We're here for you if you need to talk or vent or anything... we'll be a virtual shoulder to cry on! |
Sorry to hear about your nephew. I will be thinking of your family. |
OH NO! I am so sorry! I always hate to hear stories like this! It's just so sad! I wish I could give you a big hug right now:ghug: It just doesn't seem fair somehow! I understand totally your anger towards all those who have failed your nephew in someway and your anger is totally normal. But I'm sure that those people are all grieving too in their own way and maybe they are being harder on themselves than you could ever be. It's just so very sad when someone who has so much to live for goes out and makes a mistake that ends their life.:( I'm so very sorry! I will say prayers for your entire family! :hands: |
((((HUGS))))) and thoughts and prayers for the family. |
I am soooooo sorry for your loss and a tragic loss at that. If you have to travel down and meet up with the people who did not give him direction, stay calm and be civil for your mom's sake and as a remembrance to Matthew. |
You poor thing. God bless you and your family. I know you are grieving right now, but please remember, so is everyone who cared about poor Matthew. Honestly, my heart breaks for the driver. His actions weren't malicious, and he now jhas to bear this burdon for the rest of his like. Boys are so dumb at that age, and think they are invincable. I will pray for you and you're family and to keep you calm and respectful throughout the services. |
Oh my gosh. I am so so sorry to hear about this horrendous tragedy. I understand your anger right now, and you have a right to feel it, but try to remain civil for your mother's sake. I'm sure that the driver was not intending to hurt anyone...he was just being so stupid. I'm so sorry and I will have you all in my thoughts and prayers. :love: God Bless. |
I"m so sorry for your loss ,sending prayers for your family. |
I'm so sorry for your family going through this. Your family sounds like my brother and my nieces were given to my mom to raise them since they were very little and it's been crazy. they are 17 and 15 now......I will remember you in my prayers at this time:( |
Saying lots of prayers for you and your family. I hope everyone can calmly get through this rough time. I am so sorry! |
I am so sorry for your loss. :( |
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