mixed feelings What do you do when you love someone but you think that time apart is good? Im so confused! help! |
I know what you are talking about! I've been marreid for 13 years and have 3 kids and I sometimes go out of my mind! I love my husband and family to death. But wives and mothers need time for thierselves sometimes too! I think a time out from eachother can be a very good thing. I go away at least 2 times a year. No more then a few days. And when I do go I miss my family 2 days in. So when I do come home,,,,, I will just say things are just grate with the husband! And the kids are so happy that mom is home that I know this is the life for me and I wouldn't have it anyother way! Time out is a good thing! |
I know how you feel, but I can't seem to ever get away from everyone. (not even 30 minutes.) I guess the time I'm at work is my time away from the family and that is all I need. If I don't stop now, I'll just "vent" all day long. I'm having a rough weekend. Sorry. If you have the opportunity to get away for a little bit and the sig. other doesn't mind...GO...things will be great when you get home!! |
Go with your heart. Express your feelings to your significant other. See what their opinion is. But remember, time apart can be good OR bad for a relationship. Perhaps ask yourself why you think time apart would be good. Do you feel smothered? Do you feel like you are losing your own identity? Do you feel like you are not able to do the things that YOU want to do? Good luck in whatever you choose, you will do the right thing, just make sure you know what you want. :) |
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coming out and telling youre significant other "i need a little space" is honest yes, but you need to throw in a little "security".... the problem with this statement is that it is one of the ones that many of us use to slowly break up with someone, and if that is not youre intention DO NOT USE THIS EXACT PHRASE. (my fiance used that phrase on me when we were still bf and gf, well i thought it was OVER) so...... speaking from the OPPOSIT side, you need to throw in a little reasurance likke "i think everything is going so great with us....." "I know we have a realy strong relationship...." You know what i mean? |
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