It's a bird...It's a plane... Nooooo! It's supermom. Ugh! That's obviously what my husband thinks I am now. He expects me to do everything around here without his help. He usually takes the trash out of an evening and I've had to do that. Yesterday he expected me to pack for our vacation, clean, cook, and watch our son. I was suppose to run around here like crazy I guess. It's also not so much me being upset with him for this, it's that he blames me for every bit of homework he has. I guess he thinks I assigned him all that homework or something. I hear it nightly and have been for about two weeks now. I know exactly what he will say this evening. He is going to stay late at school, and ask me if I've packed & cleaned yet. Our place isn't dirty by no means. It's usually me that groans about the place being not up to standards. I'm just really picky. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I'm sick of being the blame to all his troubles. It's bothering me mentally and It's straining me physically. This morning my pulse was as high as it's ever been. I can usually tell when it's high so I checked it with my home monitor. Sure enough...I was suppose to groom a dog today and had to reschedule because it was draining me dry. I'm going to be a walking zombie at Disney World. :( I wish he was more understanding. What else can I do? I've called him, he didn't return my call, I've e-mailed him, he didn't reply. Ugh! Men! |
Ugh ... you poor thing I have a blamer too he also doesnt fo a thing around the house and when i say thing i mean he will not even take his own plate into the kitchen and he works alot to suport us and im fine with taking care of him but !&^% would it kill them for everyonce in awhile even thou there tired even thou there busy to help out !!! SO girl im righ there with you we are moving next month and I fear that ill be the one pacing the whole house SO CHEERS to Saying MEN CAN BE POOPEY !!! |
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LOL yes mine thinks my world revoles around his too We both are moving at the end of May so much to do and so lil time dont you think !! |
Hey hun! I go through the same thing and I'm not even married! :rolleyes: We just live together and I totally know what you are talking about. I cook, clean, do laundry and never really ask for his help but when I do it's like asking him to find a cure for cancer or something. I'll ask him to take out the garbage and he'll throw a fit and we'll have a big fight and then he'll take the garbage out and promise never to act that way again. But guess what...it happens again the next week. :mad: Don't really have any advice...just wanted to offer you some moral support. :hug: |
It is a male thing I swear......even my sons do this.... DRIVES ME NUTS!!!! |
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