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Well as they say marriage is hard enough just with the simple every day things life brings you...Financial issues being one of them...If he's in debt up to his eyeballs I wouldn't be with him...You're so young and you deserve the best and someone that trusts you enough not to make comments like that either!! I would move on, he's not boyfriend material much less marriage material...how is he going to support you in the future or will you work your but off so that he can stay at home and work a part-time job?? Hope everything works out for you darlin'... |
I sounds to me like you've already made up your mind. Yeah, you may be just 19....but if you don't see a future with your current boyfriend, why stay with him? You'll only end up hurting him and yourself in the long run. The longer you stay in the relationship, the harder it is to leave. It's like my mom always told me: "Don't ever settle for less than you're worth" Good Luck! |
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That special someone in your life should be making you smile and feel good about life, if this guy can't do this for you now... it certainly will not happen when you are married. Just keep reminding yourself... I should be really happy right now, not filled with doubts and worry. |
Never hope someone changes... this has nothing to do with HIM it has all to do with YOU... what YOU want, what you put up with ... My best friend once told me this and it was on the spot advice that stuck with me cuz its soooo true "ALL people have their own 'issues', but there is one guy out there whos issues will be tolerable or ok to you" :) and yours to him! Move on girl... this BOY has sooooo much growing up to do. You sound mature .. he sounds like a child.. and by the sounds of it... wait til he hits 21 and is able to get into the bars and clubs... I dont think thats going to be a pretty stage for you to go through! |
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hi relationships are hard and changing rarely happens..you are waiting for him to do the same thing that he wants you to do. change.. he wants more time, more lovey dovey, more attention and cares little that you have more than enough going on and you want him to change, to grow up, have goals and become independent and responsible.. at 19 and only 6 months into it, have fun dont stress over him..as you grow and mature and further yourself he will probably do the same but at a slower rate :) tell him to slow down and that he needs to respect your time and space and that you have goals that you will make in life and that he has to respect that and encourage him to do the same. sometimes its meant to be and sometimes its not and sometimes you both have to grow before its meant to be... chin up! |
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