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Yorkiekids 12-05-2007 02:44 PM
I'm hurt
 
I met a member on here that I thought was my friend. We talked on the phone a lot and pm'd each other everyday. She even offered to send me money so I could buy Christmas presents. Well she's disappered. She won't return my calls or my pm's. I understand if something came up and she can't help me with the money. We'll figure something out, but I can't understand why she dumped me. I have very few friends, and thought I found a friend in her, but I get I was wrong. I just needed to vent, because I thought I had met a really nice person. I guess I'll have to keep my distance from people in the future if I don't want to get hurt. Sorry I just needed to get this off my shoulder.

Txgurl06 12-05-2007 02:46 PM
sorry this happened!! maybe she will return and all will be well!!!! keep your chin up!

mizzwanned 12-05-2007 02:52 PM
I'm sorry:( :( Hope you feel better

MIZBROWN 12-05-2007 02:56 PM
Sorry that this happend to you... Please dont get discouraged and always have faith... I mean, heaven forbid, but how do we know something hasnt happend to this person. Just something to think about my dear... Wish you the best with your situation :)

scrappysmom 12-05-2007 02:57 PM
ohh Im so sorry,maybe shes sick or busy right now ,

BamaFan121s 12-05-2007 02:59 PM
Aww...I'm sorry. I hope your issues get worked out for you. Maybe she just got busy....:(

Monday 12-05-2007 03:03 PM
so sorry that you are sad ...
maybe she cannot get to the computer for some reason???

RandomHeart 12-05-2007 03:07 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Yorkiekids (Post 1583290)
I met a member on here that I thought was my friend. We talked on the phone a lot and pm'd each other everyday. She even offered to send me money so I could buy Christmas presents. Well she's disappered. She won't return my calls or my pm's. I understand if something came up and she can't help me with the money. We'll figure something out, but I can't understand why she dumped me. I have very few friends, and thought I found a friend in her, but I get I was wrong. I just needed to vent, because I thought I had met a really nice person. I guess I'll have to keep my distance from people in the future if I don't want to get hurt. Sorry I just needed to get this off my shoulder.

maybe she does not have the money to lend you and feels bad about it???
Or she learned a lesson when that other member, WILLOW did not pay someone back and she does not want to get involved like that?
http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=100650

HanginOut 12-05-2007 03:17 PM
Don't give up. She may just have a few issues going on right now. One thing we do as friends is forgive. On other hand, the same thing has happened to me in the past (about 6 yrs ago). To this day I don't know what I did or why she cut me off. Yes, it hurt but then I just had to think that I would never do that to someone and might be better off without her in my life. I wish I had some sort of magic words to make you feel better. Just know we are all wishing it works out and is just some sort something in her life that is keeping her busy for now.

SANDYSAND 12-05-2007 03:19 PM
Sorry that this happend to you... Just pray that she is ok, maybe she got a bit busy with the holidays & stuffs and have not had a chance to get back to you!!! I hope everything works out for the best of both!!!

sweetr72 12-05-2007 03:32 PM
I have been having some really emotional troubles at home and have been ignoring my friends...not to be mean to them but just because I dont have the energy to talk to them about it and I know thats all they will want to know about..I love my friends dearly and they know that and maybe your friend is just having some troubles too..hopefully she will be in touch with you soon.

Dawn

shelschrader 12-05-2007 03:44 PM
I'm sorry your feeling have been hurt. It really feels bad when we think that a good friend has abonaned us. I'm sure that's not the case this time. Maybe she's been really busy or under the weather. Don't give up on people or distance yourself. "No man (or woman) is an island"... You are always so sweet and kind, that I doubt anyone would ever avoid you.

erino77 12-05-2007 03:50 PM
I'm sorry. I know that we have had to turn our phone off on several occasions to get the bills to all fit/ Therefore no internet. Maybe something like that has happened.
I hope you are able to figure out what's going on soon. Maybe send her a letter or a "Miss You" or "thinking of you" card through snail mail?

Superstarkba 12-05-2007 03:52 PM
Awe, susan Im sorry:( I wonder what happened to her???

yougetthesmiles 12-05-2007 04:57 PM
awwww sorry you are feeling hurt, maybe she will come around.

txshopper73 12-05-2007 05:05 PM
Things happen. Heck, there have been MANY YT people in and out of my life...I've learned to just go with the flow. I'm sure your friend has been extremely busy and I hope that nothing bad has happened on her end. Keep your chin up.

Jenn218 12-05-2007 05:14 PM
I am sorry that you feel that you lost a friend.....times are tough for a lot of people and maybe something happened and she can't afford to send you money.....maybe if you could pm her or leave a message that the money isn't the issue (after all, that was a very kind gesture for her to make to begin with), maybe she won't feel guilty (if that is what it is) and come back around.

There has been too much "crap" going around on YT regarding money...I won't even begin.............:mad: (aurgh)

Anyway, things will brighten up........and your friend will come back around. :hug:

Yorkiekids 12-06-2007 07:06 AM
I realized it might be the money, so I pm'd her that the money wasn't an issue, and that I still wanted to be her friend. I'll pray she's ok, and hope she comes back.

ARCHIE 12-06-2007 07:15 AM
Susan, I'm sorry your feel hurt by this person not getting back to you.
Perhaps, like the other's stated, she is having problems herself.
Don't feel like you have no friends, everyone on YT is a friend.
It's the holiday season and I know that, for some, can be depressing
but it was not ment to be. Don't let it get you down. Do something
to lift your spirits. Think positive and perk yourself up in whatever
way you can. It's just no worth getting down for something you cannot
control.

stedmansmommy 12-06-2007 09:48 AM
I am so sorry that you are feeling so sad and down :( And I am sorry that this person just disappeared on ya :( I hope that everything is ok with her - but like you said, maybe she truly just doesn't have the money to help, and feels too embarrassed to come out and actually say it since she already offered it to you? :confused:

Whatever the reason is, I really am so sorry and do hope that the two of you talk again very soon :) Big hugs sweetie :hug:

saphire 12-06-2007 12:10 PM
Aw Susan, you've got lots of friends. Even way down here in South Africa.
Maybe there is a good explanation - I have no email at the moment, my son has been upgrading the computer, again! These things happen sometimes.

Hugs,

LunasMomma 12-06-2007 02:26 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by sweetr72 (Post 1583435)
I have been having some really emotional troubles at home and have been ignoring my friends...not to be mean to them but just because I dont have the energy to talk to them about it and I know thats all they will want to know about..I love my friends dearly and they know that and maybe your friend is just having some troubles too..hopefully she will be in touch with you soon.

Dawn
This sounds likely, as I go through this too:( I'm sorry that you are feeling bad:cry:

cindy0721 12-06-2007 04:56 PM
I'm sorry susan..... I hope things work out for you.. dont worry you have plenty of YT friends and those are the best i think....

MissPinkBarbie 12-06-2007 06:40 PM
Oh, I'm sorry you're feeling hurt right now.. Please don't be sad, there are gonna be so many friends in life that come and go. Everyone's got issues..sometimes we don't wanna "let" anyone in b/c of that.

Life is way too short to be upset and down. *Hugs* to you! :)


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