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RandomHeart 12-01-2007 04:41 PM
wow, so sorry to hear that you are having problems ...
I bet your mom just wants to spend more time with you. I am not much older than you are and my mom lives quite a distance from me.
I wish I could be with her more, especially since she made such an effort to be with me after the tragedy that took my husband and child from me recently ...
I am only 22 and I have lost my family ... my parents are all I have now. Be glad you have your mom ... I miss my husband and daughter every day.

Sit down and spend some quality time with your mom. She probably needs you more than you know.

kalina82 12-01-2007 05:00 PM
girl tell me about it.... now my mother doesn't have the same relationship issues as your mother but the sleeping issue gets yelled about in my house all the time as well.

i'm looking to move out asap because its the only thing that will help. unfortunately i'm going to be living in a box when i do find a place because i'm poor as dirt.

sabsab00 12-01-2007 08:50 PM
I know EXACTLY how you feel :( Its like some type of switch flips and they are different people - I dont get it - and really dont want to understand anymore. The best thing I can tell you is to just concentrate on your life and what you want and try not to let her mood get to you. I know its hard....if you ever want to rant, complain or just talk...im here and I know how you feel :)

mizzwanned 12-02-2007 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted by peanut (Post 1542764)
Sometimes parents are weird and have alot of pressure on them, maybe your mom is upset with something going on in her life, who knows and taking it out on you, or maybe she is really worried about you. You always want better for your kids than you did or do in life, but no one knows why or whats going on but your mom, I just said those things so you will see maybe its not you at all. May you could sit down with her later and just talk to her to see whats going on and be honest with her tell her what you are thinking. I will pray for you both, and try to have a great Thanksgiving don't let this ruin it for you..Sometimes holidays are hard on people and maybe thats what is going on with your mom.:)

A lot of good points, thank you:)

mizzwanned 12-02-2007 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by GinosMommy (Post 1542768)
sometimes parents are like that.

My Mom will treat me awesome, then one day freak out on me for nothing, and I am 33! I think its just stress.

I know you are stressed out. I would be too. Just do what you have to do. Finish school, then you can move out and go from there. Its hard to live in a situation where you feel unwanted there or you feel uncomfortable being there. I have been there before.

Hang in there, it WILL get better. Trust me.

BIG HUGS!
Stacy

Thanks. Yes it makes me very stressed, on top of school i come home and she yells at me, argues, etc. It's making me break out like crazy. When i get stressed i get bad acne and i hate it, i even hate going out in public w/o make up.

mizzwanned 12-02-2007 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Gizmo's Mom (Post 1542811)
I AM one of those moms and I call it menopause, not handling very well. Thank you for letting me see myself thru you. I do hope evrything gets better for you. I agree, sit your mom down and have a heart to to when things are good. If this is part of her problem it's no more fun for her than it is you. Best of luck sweetie..now go make them pies. Happy Thanksgiving. ;)
Thanks:) I made good pies!:D

mizzwanned 12-02-2007 08:52 AM
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Sorry she is driving you crazy but I guess I would just say that I wish my mom was here to drive me crazy. I'm sure it's out of love and concern for you and I wish I had my mom here with me today to do that. I guess though, she is always in my heart and I do take comfort in that. :( Appreciate what you have even if it sometimes drives you crazy because before you know it, it will be gone and after all, Thankgiving is about appreciating those things we are thankful for.
Yes I agree, thanks. I'm sorry about your mom:( Its true what you said, i would rather have her here it's just w/o the arguments lol

mizzwanned 12-02-2007 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Yorkieluv (Post 1542816)
Gosh, I'm so sorry that your Thanksgiving morning started out like that. I'm glad you let it all out though...Sometimes it's good not to keep it all bottled up inside. I know how frustrating it may seem now, but it will get better. Try to enjoy your day, and don't let anything ruin that!! Try to just smile all day long, and you will feel better. I tried that apple pie, and it turned out great!!! Good luck with it. It was pretty easy ;)
aww thanks! It did make me feel better to let it out and post here, i guess thats why i post so much!:rolleyes:

mizzwanned 12-02-2007 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted by CocosMom (Post 1542836)
I'm sorry she ruined your day already!! I hope it gets better.

I am 39 and my mom has been that way my whole life. She is in a mood now and mad at me and my sister. We are grown adults with children, but she has never treated us that way.

If she is miserable, everyone must be.

I am dreading today, also. If she starts to ruin day, I'm gonna pack my family up and leave. I can't take the stress of it anymore!!!

I feel for you sweetie. Just know that it is not you and she is responsible for her actions!!!

I hope you have a good day!!

Post later and let us know.

Happy Thanksgiving...especially to those who don't have crazy mothers!!!


Lori

It's pretty much the same here as you said, if she is miserable mad, she will let everyone else know and make it like that for them too. When she is mad and she is cleaning she slams things, makes so much noise, omg i hate that! I don't like loud noise like that and it frustrates me so much! I hope you had a happy thanksgiving:)

mizzwanned 12-02-2007 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Yorkiekids (Post 1571050)
Sounds like your mom is unhappy in her relationship, and feels torn between you and the bf. Maybe you want to sit down with her when he's not around, and have a heart to heart with her about what's she's feeling, and how it's affecting you.
You mean with her bf? Well he is mean to me, or just rude w/e it's called i dont like it but with her i guess he's nice for the most part. He helps her with rent, etc. but to me he's a deadbeat. He drinks all the time with his friends and doesn't spend enough time with her, all he does is come home and sleep. He doesn't take her out and stuff and i think a bf should do that. But he is retiring soon and moving to PR so he is going to be gone soon. I feel bad 'cause i dont want her to be left alone and im leaving soon anyway, so she will be alone anyhow but it's his choice to leave, and that's messed up on his part. Anyway since she knows he's leaving anyway she just doesn't care i guess and just deals, ignores the fighting.

CocosMom 12-07-2007 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by mizzwanned (Post 1573229)
It's pretty much the same here as you said, if she is miserable mad, she will let everyone else know and make it like that for them too. When she is mad and she is cleaning she slams things, makes so much noise, omg i hate that! I don't like loud noise like that and it frustrates me so much! I hope you had a happy thanksgiving:)
HEY!!!

Well, I had a terrible Thanksgiving...she did ruin it. But at least it's over. YOU are on my list for a XMAS card!!! Be looking for one from Pennsylvania!!!

Hope you are doing better and Christmas is better for you!!:D ;)

mizzwanned 12-07-2007 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by CocosMom (Post 1589221)
HEY!!!

Well, I had a terrible Thanksgiving...she did ruin it. But at least it's over. YOU are on my list for a XMAS card!!! Be looking for one from Pennsylvania!!!

Hope you are doing better and Christmas is better for you!!:D ;)
Aww im sorry she ruined it!:( But yes it's over:) Mine turned out okay, the fact that ppl were here made it fun. Everything's okay now, but it will prob. not be in a few days, it's like a rollercoaster. lol You are on my list too:D I am just waiting for my cards to come in!


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