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What is wrong with men - I dont get it!! I sooooo do not understand guys - and I really dont want to!! I dated this one guy months ago and broke it off with him cause he seemed to be the all talk type:thumbdown :thumbdown :thumbdown then like a month later he says hes really interested in me and blah blah blah so like a fool - I started talking to him again - not dating - just talking so OFCOURSE the same BS happens again - and I ignore him again well guess what - hesssssssssssssssss backkkkk I soooooo dont get it - what is the point of that???? WHY pretend to want something you really dont and continue to over and over and over.... I just needed to vent my frustrations a little :rolleyes: |
Thats a guy, I wouldn't talk to him, IMO. |
Those are boys:rolleyes: They are all talk |
What is it with me? It's EVERYTHING, that's what :p I tell ya....:rolleyes: lol |
men are dumb. bottom line LOL they want what they can't have....and when they CAN have it, they act like they don't give a poop about it. i dated a guy off and on for a while that i really liked. but it seemed like the more i tried to get close to him, the more he pulled away. and then when i would stop talking to him and move on...he would come back and act like i was the best thing since sliced bread. and of course, i would go back. then it would start all over again. i gave up. then i met my husband :) i feel your pain sister :) i dread the days when my daughter has to go through those things. i will want to beat every man that hurts her LOL |
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omg that's so me right now. I'm trying my hardest to ignore my ex but he keeps trying to talk to me. The only way to ignore him is to put up my away message on AIM or turn it off, and ignore his text messages. i honestly don't get it. we broke up and he wanted 'see what's out there'............... BUT he still wants me as back up wtf? i don't think so. :mad: |
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I can go on about men for hours...:rolleyes: :) They're complicated..funny they think we are!! I think we [girls] can be just a bit more "emotional" and guys tend to lack that quality. You gotta play their game... ;) |
IMO, most (not all..just most) men suck. They don't want what they can have, and they don't know what they have til its gone. I dated one guy on and off for 14 months. We dated several months, but he just would never committ so I started talking to one of my University's football players. So he finds that out and sees me at the bar and decides he wants me back, so I go home with him that night and he decides all of a sudden he wants me to be his gf now. Then more stuff happens and we break up, then get together, then break. Basically it was 14 long months of on again, off again. :rolleyes: My friends used to ask and Joke "are you dating Luke THIS wk". I finally cut it off for good, he's got a new serious gf, but he still IMs me and txt me when he's drunk. :rolleyes: The last time I talked to him over yahoo, he was beggng me for new pics of myself. I don't even wanna think about what he was going to do with them! |
I had a guy like that. We're friends now.. we talk ever once in a while. But we were back and forth for like a year and a half in college... and then as soon as my current BF and I got serious, he was right back again trying to get with me. I shot him down, but he's the kind of guy that is fun to hang out with... but that you know you can't get serious with. |
In addition to them wanting what they can't have, and not wanting what they CAN have, some of them like to keep a few "just in case" girls around. There's a good guy out there for you, don't waste any more time on this jerk! |
OMG! I have a girlfriend in NY that dealt with the exact same situation! Interested but didn't want a commitment even after a year, they would seperate, he would call...you know the rest. It was so stupid! He eventually joined the military, he tried to contact her while in training she took that opportunity to just cut him out for good. |
I hear you, girl. You gotta meet (and get rid of) the jerks in order for you to recognize the "keeper" when he comes along. Think of these jerks as HELPING you clarify what it is that you DON'T want, so that you can clearly see what you DO want - when he comes into your life. It is SO worth it, my friend! Hang in there gals. |
I feel everyone's pain, I did the on off again, only want me when you cannot have me thing, for just about five years with who I thought was the love of my life...I needless to say have realized I was wrong. |
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