A Terrible Accident Today something terrible happened........Magnum my 1lb yorkie mix (6 months old) a couple months ago he was playing on the sofa with my older yorkie mix and he fell off and hit his heas, we thought we had lost him we rushed him to the Vet on a Sunday night, with steriods and sleep he seemed to be fine..running and playing, we are still paying for that, but its okay anything to have him alive and healthy....but today...my 16 months son had 3 shots and was cranky so i was on top of a chair looking for the tylenol and when...i stepped down....i didnt know mag was waiting on me....i stepped down on his...little..head. it was awful!!!!!!!!... i went hystical, i called my husband and my parents, my husband it out of town, he told me that i had to behave like an adult and not carry on in front of the baby, .....when my parents showed up......they said how irresponsible i was, and what if that had been my son's head...all the while.....im cleaning the walls through out my house and the floors..because i had been holding magnum through out the house after...wards....my clothing was soaked...my foot feels so strange..i was made to go to my parents house, my pants still have stains on them..i want my buddy back!! right now i dont even know how to react..........i dont ever want another tinie tiny dog....i feel awful..i can still remeber what it felt like under my foot...........i..dont even know what to say..i feel sick... i hope no one thinks bad of me, i dont write a lot of post i just like to read them, i dont think i will be visting anymore, too sad... thanks |
Oh... I so wish I lived closer I'd come give you a hug right now!! How terribly awful of a thing to go through! I just have to say that it's a shame that your parents and your husband couldn't be more comforting and supportive of you when you needed them. You were already in enough pain. I wished I had the words to comfort you and to help....it was a terrible accident, sweetie. That is all. I am so terribly sorry....my thoughts and prayers are with you and if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to pm me. |
I just saw... I just saw that you are from Richmond, va. That is where I live! I guess I couldn't get much closer than that..:) If you need anything at all, I am here to help!! |
Tammy, I am so, so terribly sorry! I know you feel sick but, honey, it wasn't your fault .... it was a horrible accident. We all know you would never, ever hurt little Magnum on purpose any more than you would your human baby. I am sorry, too, that your family don't appear to be more supportive and comforting for you. I'm not trying to be critical of them, but if you were my daughter, I would certainly wait until a more opportune time for a lecture. We will keep you in our prayers and again, I am so sorry for your loss. |
That must have been so traumatic for you! I can't even imagine. I know it probably doesn't help to say "accidents happen", but it really was not your fault. Sending hugs and sympathies your way. |
Oh Sweetie that is so terrible. I don't think yiou are over reacting at all and I don't think you are a bad person. A couple of years ago my husband was moving a golf cart that we have here on the acreage. Our little yorkie loved to ride on it so she was trying to jump on, and since he was only going to move it a few feet, he didn't put her on. Well he ran over her. She was lying on her back just kicking,. I scooped her up and we rushed to the vet, all the while I am crying and crying, begging her baby please don't die, please don't die. she just rolled her head and panted. Well miracle, she was fine, never even had a broken bone. Just in shock and very badly bruised. But I was hystericfal, and she wasn't even bleeding and I was not the one that injured her. but nevertheless I was hysterical. So I can imagine how awful you feel. But that little guy touched your life in a very special a way, and for, who knows what reason, he was taken away. Savor the memories. And cry all you need to. May God comfort you and bring you peace in your heart. |
Thanks everyone, My parents appologized, and said too that accident happen, and my husband said that he just want to make me mad at him so that i changed emotions, but it didnt work..he has been very sweet, calling me.. and all.. |
You poor thing! I can't imagine how you feel. I know how hard it was to lose our Bandit but it wasn't from an accident. To have him there one minute and gone the next, I'm so sorry. Please try to forgive yourself....it was an accident. The little ones, especially, are always under foot. You are in my thoughts and my prayers that you will heal quickly. I'm so sorry you are going through this. |
Oh my gosh.. this is so tragic. I'm so sorry you have gone through this. Everyone has said very comforting things... Just know you and your family are in my prayers. May God bless you and time bring you peace. |
You are in my prayers at this tragic time. Try and remember the good times with him. |
Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry for your loss and horrible heartache, I can't even imagine,, you poor thing, Your are in my thoughts. |
that is just horrible news. I am so very sorry for you. you did not mean to do it........ thats why it is called an accident. accidents happen all the time and I know that you are aware of a lot of other accidents if you have been reading on this forum. yours is not the first and it unfortunately won't be the last. I can't count how many times I have stepped on mine. Push that guilt aside. :angelyork that little soul is looking down on you and saying " Its ok mommy, I don't hurt here". I will add you to the prayer list.:hands: |
Oh honey...I am so sorry. But please, don't beat yourself up over this. It was not your fault...you had no idea that he was there. Accidents DO happen and it was just his time. I am just so sorry you had to go thru it this way. We all do support you right now and it will get easier with time. Cry all you need to ... that helps. He is running and playing at Rainbow Bridge right now...Hugs to you and you will be in my thoughts and prayers! Oscar sends you kisses...it will be o.k. |
Sweetie I am so very sorry that this very tragic thing happened. It wasn't your fault and accidents do happen. I dropped my daughter when she was only 3 months old from chest level. It can happen to anyone, I am just so sorry that you are going through this. Hugs from me are coming your way. |
I am so sorry to hear what happened to you and your puppy. It is never easy to lose ones that we love so dearly. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. |
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