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please forgive me my son x

me and you have been soul mates for nearly 15 years, you were there for me through all the good time and bad times, we had a great life together and i thank you so much for all that, i hope you are looking down at me and can forgive me for ending your precious wee life, it was the hardest thing ive ever had to do, i could not see you suffer another day watching you waste away, i hope you are at rest now i love you so much and will see you one day xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

r.i.p my beautiful son bailie
o1/11/97- 13/2/2012

:( I'm so sorry for your loss. Of course your boy forgives you - you did what was best for him and ended his suffering. He'll be waiting for you at rainbow bridge with kisses and nothing but love.

so sorry for your loss and the pain of having to make that decision but you did what was best for your baby not yourself and that is the best way to decide. hugs to you

OMG....i can't imagine my life going on without my lil Hobo!!!! i will die with him i am sure.....

So sorry. It is the hardest thing to do. Sending hugs

I am so sorry for the pain that you are going through. I had to do the same thing last Tuesday with our 15 1/2 yr old shepard mix. He was the center of our family. As someone said to me on the thread that I started about 2bits. It is a final act of love that we give to our furfriends,to ease their pain. Your baby isnt being old anymore,no more suffering with a body that hurts all of the time.
I pray that time will heal the hole left in your heart. Try to focus on the wonderful memories that you have.

Sorry for your loss praying for you. Rest in Peace little Bailie

My thoughts and prayers are with you. When we are forced to make that painful decision we do it because our angels are suffering and we are trying to do what is in their best interest even though that decision rips a part of our heart out. Just remembers that your baby is not suffering anymore and will be waiting for you at the bridge when the time comes and he loves you.

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much it hurts your heart to be without him. Bailie isn't suffering anymore and I'm sure he knew you let him go out of love. Rest in peace, Bailie. :rbyorkie:

I am so sorry for your loss... It sounds like you made the right decision on ending Bailie's suffering.

RIP Sweet Bailie boy

thank you all for the caring words, ive lost my soul mate and in this very dark space at the moment , not coping to well x

So sorry for your loss. I know when Bailie went to the Rainbow bridge he took a piece of your heart with him. RIP Bailie.

So sorry for the loss of your baby boy. RIP little one.

Paris has been gone only a month so I know how you are feeling, try to focus on the good things you shared.It is getting better for me so I know it will get better for you, too.

I am so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace little one.

I'm so very sorry for your loss, but I truly think he's Thanking You for helping him on his Journey to the Bridge, no forgiveness needed. That decision is the one last, true, final act of Love we can show our wee ones in their last time of need. RIP Bailie, Rest in calm, painless, peaceful bliss, knowing your Mommie loves you forever.

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much you are hurting, and I wish I could ease your pain. I found this beautiful passage, and I hope it comforts you. The love and bond that you and Bailie shared will last forever and so will your memories. I hope that in time your memories bring you joy instead of pain.

Living Love

If you ever love an animal, there are three days in your life you will always remember...

The first is a day, blessed with happiness, when you bring home your young new friend. You may have spent weeks deciding on a breed. You may have asked numerous opinions of many vets, or done long research in finding a breeder. Or, perhaps in a fleeting moment, you may have just chosen that silly looking mutt in a shelter--simple because something in its eyes reached your heart. But when you bring that chosen pet home, and watch it explore, and claim its special place in your hall or front room--and when you feel it brush against you for the first time--it instills a feeling of pure love you will carry with you through the many years to come.

The second day will occur eight or nine or ten years later. It will be a day like any other. Routine and unexceptional. But, for a surprising instant, you will look at your longtime friend and see age where you once saw youth. You will see slow deliberate steps where you once saw energy. And you will see sleep where you once saw activity. So you will begin to adjust your friend's diet--and you may add a pill or two to her food. And you may feel a growing fear deep within yourself, which bodes of a coming emptiness. And you will feel this uneasy feeling, on and off, until the third day finally arrives.

And on this day--if your friend and God have not decided for you, then you will be faced with making a decision of your own--on behalf of your lifelong friend, and with the guidance of your own deepest Spirit. But whichever way your friend eventually leaves you---you will feel as alone as a single star in the dark night.

If you are wise, you will let the tears flow as freely and as often as they must. And if you are typical, you will find that not many in your circle of family or friends will be able to understand your grief, or comfort you.

But if you are true to the love of the pet you cherished through the many joy-filled years, you may find that a soul--a bit smaller in size than your own---seems to walk with you, at times, during the lonely days to come. And at moments when you least expect anything out of the ordinary to happen, you may feel something brush against your leg--very very lightly.

And looking down at the place where your dear, perhaps dearest, friend used to lay---you will remember those three significant days. The memory will most likely be painful, and leave an ache in your heart---As time passes the ache will come and go as it has a life of its own. You will both reject it and embrace it, and it may confuse you. If you reject it, it will depress you. If you embrace it, it will deepen you. Either way, it will still be an ache.

But there will be, I assure you, a fourth day when---along with the memory of your pet---and piercing through the heaviness in your heart---there will come a realization that belongs only to you. It will be as unique and strong as our relationship with each animal we have loved, and lost. This realization takes the form of a Living Love---like the heavenly scent of a rose that remains after the petals have wilted, this Love will remain and grow--and be there for us to remember. It is a love we have earned. It is the legacy our pets leave us when they go. And it is a gift we may keep with us as long as we live. It is a Love which is ours alone. And until we ourselves leave, perhaps to join our Beloved Pets--it is a Love that we will always possess.

-Written by Martin Scot Kosins

Sorry you had to make this decision, I had to do it twice with my Cairn Terriers 5 years ago. I still love and miss them. Praying that God will comfort you and you have wonderful loving memories of your baby and he isn't suffering any longer.

I am so very sorry for your loss. I know how much your heart is hurting right now. I have been through this many times and it's never easy.
RIP Sweet Bailie.

I am very sorry for your loss. You gave Bailie a long, wonderful life, and in the end, you gave him the most difficult gift to give: peace. You helped him and allowed him to go.

I pray you will be comforted in time knowing he is at rest.

Bailie is at peace now. Of course, you are grieving and hurting. No one can ever take the love away that you had for each other. That will live forever in your heart. RIP Bailie.

I am so sorry for your loss. I can feel your pain in your words, and reminds me so much of how I felt when my first boy went home in 2009, then my little girl in 2010. He does not need to forgive you, as you have done the most loving and difficult thing we can do for our companions, and free them from pain and let them run free at the rainbow bridge. Please know that as time passes, your heart that is full with happy memories will be a wonderful reminder of the life you shared together. Hugs Rest in peace Bailie.