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3 weeks god nervous breaksown Bennie and Tes gone! AS many of you know my babies were takin in 5 min, believed to be a coyote. My husband let them out the front door, Saw rabbits and gone, 3 weeks now, I have MS. I feel so sick. The stress is more than I can cope with. I feel so lonely without my Bennie. 10 yrs. devotion. Married to pilot Never home. Just long enough t0 jepardize my babies. It cost them thier lives.I feel alone without my devoted Bennie. I cannnot seem to function. P S I'm really really off today. The Vet sent me Happy Birthday cards, OM JUst to much. HELP I NEVER DID RECOVER MY BENNIE! |
I am so sorry for your loss. That has to be one of the most difficult things any of us can go through. I will be thinking of you during this difficult time. |
I am so sorry for your loss. My first one passed at 13 months. I was devastated and missed him so much. While some may think it was too soon...within a month I got another. Not a replacement...but one to take my mind off missing Trace and make me smile again. Perhaps it would help you if you got another. Take care ~ |
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I'm just so sorry for your loss,, God Love Ya! |
Ah, I know you must be so sad! I am sorry about theis terrible accident. Do you think you are ready for a new pet?? It might help take away some of the time you have thinking of your loss. And provide you with some company! You know what is best for you! You are grieving a LOSS IN YOUR FAMILY! hugs to you! |
I can feel what you are going through but you can't change it. Your husband, I'm sure, thought he was doing the right thing. Horrible accidents happen unfortunately. I am so sorry for your loss. It will take time for your heart to heal. It's important to somehow get you mind off of this tragedy. Only time will make it better. Please try hard to keep busy. |
My heart goes out to you, it must be so difficult to bear this on top of your health problem and feeling so isolated. Your husband must feel just horrible but God had plans for your babies that we cannot understand. I wish there was something I could do to help you thriugh this. When you are ready to open your heart for another baby or 2 it will help ease the pain and fill your days with some moments of happiness. Hugs to you. |
Your pain comes through in your words...I am sure your husband is ridden with guilt himself....perhaps some grief counselling....talk with a priest / minister... Sending you many hugs and prayers.... |
I've been wondering about you. Do you have a difficult time getting out since you have MS? Please, by the desperation in your word you really need to speak to a counselor, IMO. Is it possible that you might get yourself another baby? Just think that you would have an soft warm little wiggly body to hold and help you think about something else. IMO you soooooo need a distraction. I will be thinking about you and praying for you today. Wish I was closer and could stop in and see you. Love and hugs. |
god bless you sweetie.. please take care of yourself.. hugs to you, im so sorry |
It has got to be so lonely for you. Please take care of yourself though. I know your heart has a big hole in it, but I would seriously think about getting another in a few weeks, month or so...when you feel you might be able to handle it with your grief. I had Muffin for 14 yrs and she was loved more than anything. Before a month was past, I had to have another yorkie to love. I think you have the love to give another yorkie, too. |
oh you poor thing! i am sooo very sorry for your loss! perhaps a new dog would be good for you, obviously not to replace your loved ones but to give you a companion and something to love. i know you are prob not ready...but it is an idea! im sooo sorry again!!!! god bless!! |
I wish I could help you somehow. I have been wondering how you are. My heart aches for you. I think everyone is right in saying, maybe you should get another yorkie. I know it could never replace the babies you lost, but it could heal your heart, and you have so much love to give another baby. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sheilagh |
My thoughts and prayers are going out to you. I've often thought of you since you first posted. I am so sorry you are going thru this. I know it makes it worse if you are alone all the time. It gets to me too. If you need to talk just PM me. Getting a new baby will fill your hours with so much. It might be just the thing for you.;) |
I agree with everyone, i know your heart is broken, but please consider getting a new baby, i think that will help you alot. Not to replace what you lost, but just think, someone new to love. If i can in any way help, i have several resourses of puppies and could check it out for you, depending in how much you could aford. Or maybe the possibility of a retired female ? Sending you heartfelt hugs ! |
ohhh sweetie, my heart is just breaking for you and I wish I could reach through this screen and give you a hug. I hope you find some comfort in all the wonderful memories that Bennie gave you. I know how hard this is cause I have been right there with you. I will tell you that it does get better, you just have to take it day by day. If you need someone to talk to, PM me and I will give you my phone #. HUGS! Missy |
I have been thinking about you and how hard this must be. You need to try to go on, I think the best thing you could do now is get another Yorkie but get a teapot of 15 lbs or more so it has a better chance if it gets outside if you are in a rural area. Teapots are awesome and can take better care of themselves. I have two. |
Keep writing to release your feelings. Most of us who have lost our beloved pups know the ache in your heart. Yours is different than mine, but the loss is the same. Sophie was with me for 13 years through major illness and life changes. Please find a resource to sit with you, talk with you and help release the grief and anger. Sending you warm thoughts and so sorry for such a tragic loss. Deborah |
just wanted to check in on you and see how you are today???? im soo sorry again for your loss!!!! |
Continued prayers for you. Hugs. Joanne |
I am so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts. |
Keep Strong and have faith Hi, Its been almost 6 weeks for me and I know how you feel to the bone. These kind of tragedy that hits without any warning is the hardest to bear! I am a few weeks ahead of you and I tell you... the intense pain do subside but the sadness still lingers on. But I find it very helpful to pray and read the Bible. I would like to think and I fully believe that God has his plan. While we don't know why but we must give our trust in Him. I pray He will comfort you and wipe your tears. I know its hard but we all support you here and will carry you thru! I pray that God provides you the strength you need each and everyday and tell Him your sorrow and He will comfort! Pray to Him about your new wish.... God response to Faith and He will provide you strength in whatever decision you make ( maybe a new Yorkie). I also find it very helpful to talk to someone ( professional.. you can do over the phone). It will help to sort through the trauma and pain. Lastly wanted to share this verse with you: "My grace us sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness" 2Cor 12:9 You are in my prayers and thoughts! Love, Sandy |
My heart aches for you. :( I wish I could take away some of your pain. I don't know what to say, I read these posts and want to reach through the computer and dole out lots of hugs to everyone who lost a furbutt. I know the pain. I have a tragic story of my own. In time the pain will ease, but you'll always have a vision of their beautiful faces and you'll always remember the love you had for them, and they for you. (((HUGS))) |
I am so sorry, prayers are coming for you and your two little angels. |
A Dog's Purpose I wish that your sadness turns to beloved memories soon and hope this story helps to lighten your burden. The last paragraph says it all. Take extra care with your MS and the effects of the stress of your loss. A Dog's Purpose Being a [COLOR=green! important][COLOR=green! important]veterinarian[/COLOR][/COLOR], I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little boy, Shane, were all very attached to Belker. I examined Belker and found he was dying of [COLOR=green! important][COLOR=green! important]cancer[/COLOR]. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the [COLOR=green! important][COLOR=green! important]old [COLOR=green! important]dog[/COLOR][/COLOR][/COLOR] in their home. [/COLOR] As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience. The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away. The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, 'I know why.' Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. He said, 'People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life-- like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?' The six-year-old continued, 'Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long.' |
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