hey... I was just emailing someone about a pup I had when I was a teen. And I realized I let a stranger put my beloved pup to sleep. I wasn't there for her when she left this world, how do I say I'm sorry? |
Oh, do not be too hard on yourself. Maybe you could write her a poem or say a prayer for her. When you meet at rainbow bridge she will never even remember that you weren't there. She will just remember the good times. |
I believe your baby already knows you are sorry and is still loving you from the other side. I also believe that when we leave this existence we will join ALL our loved ones who have gone on before us, including our furry :littleangs. |
I let my mother trick me into letting this lady take her. My brother dropped her and she was brain damaged. She shook almost all the time, her head shook, not her body. She walked by leaning against the furniture. She wasn't hurting, in my opinion, even now she wasn't suffering. I knew what they were doing. I knew |
Oh dear, I'm so sorry you are hurting over those memories. I'm sure your mother did what she thought was best. And I truly believe that God gives us such a capacity to love these little ones and for them to love us back. And because we love them so, we will see them again in heaven. Don't let this continue to break your heart. Let it go and look forward to seeing her again. God Bless! |
I think my hormones must be in flux again. Cause I keep crying over this. Yes, my mother did what was best but right now, if I had her right now, I still wouldn't put her down. She pooped and peed all over herself all the time and I think I got tired of cleaning her up and let her go. I never thot about how she would feel being ripped away from me, the only mother she knew. I have thot of her recently and posted about her but it didn't hit me until tonight how she must have felt, alone and so scared and wondering where her mommy was. OK, I have to quit thinking about this. If I go to bed crying my husband wouldn't understand, must be the hormones. |
This might sound really crazy, but I have a house plant for every baby I have lost, which is only 2. The plants are named after my babies, Sophie and Sissy. I take such great care of those plants! In fact, they are the only plants that I have been able to keep alive! I don't have a green thumb. I kind of think of the plants as a living memorial. Maybe you could plant a flower or a tree and dedicate it to your lost puppy. I always smile when I water my plants and think of the happy memories that I had because I was so blessed to have Sophie and Sissy. |
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