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crying my eyes out im sitting at my desk reading in the (in memory r i p) section bawling my eyes out... i feel so emotional today for no reason.. my heart is just breaking for all those of who had lost a loved one... i really cant imagine the pain they are going through, but i know i would just be devastated just like them....worse.... i make myself crazy just thinking about anything happening to lexi.... this little girl is my life.. im crying as i type this.. for no reason sometimes i wish i never got lexi just so i wouldnt get hurt in the end.. silly i know, but my mind is playing tricks with me right now.. i better just snap out of it... i dont know why i read those threads cause i know what it does to me, but i do it for respect for other yorkietalk friends... i do it for the support and it just kills me... im ok now.. |
Been there. I'm glad you were able to vent. It's tough to read those threads, but I feel the same way you do. Go hug your baby! Gizzy sends little puppy kisses. |
I have yet to visit that part of YT. I can only imagine how sad and painful it will make me so I have avoided that. I don;t even like reading the ''news'' part..everyday, an innocent one is hurt or dead. :( |
I know what your talking about it is SO sad... Now why are you so emotional? Are you sure your not pregnant :eek: |
I know exactly what you mean. I cried off and on for days and was very traumatized over a certain post. My stomach still gets in a knot when I start thinking about it. Maybe we need a crying room section. :cry: |
I know the post your talking about and It made me cry at my desk too :( I just can't imagine. I feel so bad for her and everyonewho loses. its so hard and sad...:( Quote:
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I think we've all been there. It's hard to read the In Memory Of Section. There's times I've cried as well, from either reading about someone elses loss, remembering my own losses, or imagining if I was in that position right now. Don't cry, it'll be o.k |
lydia, im not pregnant, i guess i wish i was... oh well.. i have lexi, shes my baby |
I know how you feel. There are many posts on here that put me to tears |
I have a very hard time in that section as well. I picture the poor babies and then their owners. I can't read in that area too often. And, I don't read the 'news' post either (like the current one about the cat). |
Your right Gina, it's just heartbreaking. The good thing is these YT'ers can get the strength and support from all of us to go forward. Look at it that way and know your making them feel conforted. Take a deep breath and have a glass of wine to relax. |
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Awww Gina, I know how you feel girly. I'm feeling that way right now with Cali feeling good one minute and then the next minute weak and drained from being so sick. Tt's furstrating and just the mere thought of losing her (or Codie and Tia) reduces me to tears. It's just something that we have to live with. It's the price we pay for having these precious babies but they are so worth it. Give Lexi a big kiss from her auntie!! At least you have off from work next week. You definitely need a little R&R. Have a great time and call me when you get back!! I'm going to miss you ... who will I talk to all day? lol :D |
That's a section I don't visit often because it's so heartbreaking to read, and it's so hard to find the right words to comfort people who have lost their babies. I thought I would never have to post there, but I did. I hope my post did not upset you. I hope you feel better soon. Give little Lexi Rae a big snuggle for me. |
I have felt EXACTLY the same way as you before!! A lot of those posts have really put tears in my eyes and it makes me think about life without princess.. which I CANT... I think I would seriously die...! I feel so sorry for all the people that have lost their pets... it makes you really realize to enjoy life to the fullest with all your loved ones though! |
Oh Gina, it's okay to feel like you do. I can't go to that section most of the time. I can't imagine if anything happens to Winston or Maggie. They are my babies, my world evolves around them. :hug: :hug: :hug: |
I also have cried while visiting that section ... I know it can be hormonal but I definitely know it is emotional and compassionate .... ...I know which thread you are referring to (at least I think I do) **sniffle** :cry: someone once told me that if you never want to feel loss, you should never love ... but what would life be like then? Then someone else told me, don't cry b/c it is over, be happy it happened ... I have had to call on that many times (at the loss of loved ones) .... My heart hurts for all those who have lost babies ... and loved ones. :unlove::cry: |
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As hard as it is to read those thread the support helps soo much. I am so thankful for people like you. I am getting upset right now too. My little Summer died in March, and I never went to that thread because it is just soo sad. Since Summer has died though I go there sometimes. It is still so hard it brings back the hurt soo much. Not that I don't have the hurt everyday...I can't type anymore it is making too upset. I just wanted to say thank you. It really does mean soo much to have such wonderful people to support you when you have a loss like that. *hugs* *hugs* |
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I guess I will start going there because that is when YTers need support most. We've had quite a few sick dogs, lost dogs, sick babies, parents, and other family here and YT prayers go a long way. Judy |
I have read those posts too and just sat here at the computer and cried. I probalby should not read them, bu then it makes me more aware of what could possibly happen to my babies and to keep a more watchful eye out on them. We are already so over protected that Gracie and Hallee hardly leave the house. |
I just lost my little Heidi on may 16th, she was with me for 14 years. I know what you mean when you look at your little one and can't bear the thought of losing her...i used to do that all the time. I'm just thankful i got 14 years with her and i'm thankful for all my new YT friends.:) |
I cry at every single post on that thread. But, then, some days, I cry at the pics of the new babies, or just some really cute pic or story. Hormones, maybe. Or, maybe I am just a big ole sap. But, I think people have bonded so much with others on here, that we all feel the pain when a little furbaby is taken away. Most of us have been thru it and know the heartache and emptiness it leaves behind. That's what the YT family is all about. |
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Hello there! And thank you so much for thinking of all of us who have lost a lil one. Your heart is def in the right place. But don't cry sweetie! We all have to go thru tough times and although it is not easy, (I've been there too many times!), it too shall pass. I know I speak for most when I say we appreciate your thoughts and prayers but would never want you to be sad over it!! Thank you again for your support and caring. We all need it sometimes! Destiny sends some big yorkie hugs & kisses to make you smile!! Take care! |
I have felt the pain of losing a beloved pet, I do know how it feels...so I try to give those that are going through it now, the support they so desperately need. Sometimes all I can say is "I'm sorry", but often times I feel I am able to help them cope with their loss...and keep on living. Sometimes I think to myself...why am I shedding tears over the loss of a dog I don't even know...but then I remember Spencer...and it makes me smile again, oh the sweet memories. I think that is what makes us human, we have feelings, we sincerely care about those that have lost their constant companions...I have been through a lot in my life, and I can honestly say the hardest thing I have ever done, was to have to say goodbye to my baby, Spencer. So I'll keep reading these post, keep crying these tears and hopefully help some one else go through the hardest time in their lives. |
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