I just wanted to say that I'm sorry you're not getting Lexie, Willow. I know how excited you were to be getting her. :(

willow i pm'd you

Me too! I'm sorry you are so disappointed about not getting Lexie. I know you put a lot of time and effort into bringing her home.

It's a shame it didn't work out.

I think all parties have been through quite the emotional trauma.

First, Lexie going through what she did with that buyer,

then Andrea going the extra mile to save her...

Willow wanting to be her new mom and visualizing this in her mind,

but it is not to be and that is a heartbreak for Willow.

We all want what is best for Lexie.

It is sad to me that a dog has to go through so much in such a short time.

I lost my Molly Muffins one month ago and I cannot imagine her going through any of this.

The question I wonder is why Lexie did not see her regular vet for the new issue?

I always thought it important for the vet to have a familiar relationship with my girl.

That way when something out of the ordinary occurred, they would better be able to make a judgement, because he really knew my girl.

Molly saw the same wonderful vet her entire life. When she was diagnosed with liver cancer, we took her for a second opinion at the Michigan State University Oncology clinic. They reiterated what our regular vet, and another associate vet in the same office had alreay concluded. In all, 3 vets gave us the same opinion.

I don't understand taking a dog with a health issue to a new vet who has not seen the dog before. Especially if the regular vet is available. But I am sure she had her reasons.

Let's have some faith in Andrea. She has gone through the fire for Lexie.

I do not breed at this time because my doggies are babies. I would ONLY ever consider breeding if I had a local confirmed buyer and my standard girl was big enough but I really don't want to breed at this time. I am not a breeder. I had a plan to raise studs one day. Not breed females.

I am learning as I go and I might not ever breed I have never actually had a litter. Lexie was almost bred by Romeo by accident which was a scare but lucky me it didn't happen...and was a false pregnancy and I was educated about the standard after this. I now know more about what I want to do.
It was my understanding that Alycia had also planned to breed Lexie and I want to say that at this point I do not think that Lexie should be bred. The vet is going to have lexie spayed.

I truly don't understand why all of you feel the need to be upset with me for I have never lied to anyone but I cannot change the way that you feel. I like all of you and I am sorry if you chose to think badly of me!

As the actual owner of the dog I should not have to explain myself in such a way but here I am again because my friends who have been so nice to me before are thinking I am so mean now. Why do you all just assume I am not now? You never give me a chance. You all just assume I am bad?!? I want Lexie better. How do any of you know what is actually wrong here? You read things and say I am mean or cruel or and now. Why? You were all very nice before. What is going on? You know everyone needs to take a serious look at this forum! I cannot believe this! I never get on here and judge people! I never do this to any of you guys!


I get on here and always post nice things to all of you! I get on here for help! I am always honest with you and now without a chance to find out the truth you immediately jump on me! You quickly do this too! I just don't get it! What did I do to any of you? I have done nothing! I have cared about this yorkie! I cannot send her away sick! That does not make me a bad person! So what??? I didn't get in touch with anyone with in a few hours to update a vet status and now I am a horrible person. Geez...I have been treating a sick yorkie who is suffering from stress! Did anyone perhaps think I didn't get in touch with anyone because I was treating the dog? She was more important to me??? Did that perhaps cross your mind? (And I mean that nice too!!!) I am just saying here I have been doing a lot. I cannot do much more. I don't know what anyone expects from me. I cannot get online and call people. I told Alycia to not call my vets! I said it bothers them. I made the choice after missing the appointment the appointment to find an alternate solution for Lexie and guess what it appears to be working.

I am treating her. She is my top priority. But the decent thing would have been to call me if she had been worried onstead of bringing this here.

Now I am asking that all of you please stop all of this. As my friends please stop because the thing you are not considering is that you are really hurting me here! All of you are hurting me! Do you realize this! I am crying! Serious tears! I am a human being! With real feelings and these feelings are being hurt! I wanted Lexie safe! I wanted things to work out! I really did!!! But this is not right! This is not fair! What you are doing is not right! Please stop it! I was ready to let anyone know anything but this is getting out of hand! You don't let me say anything before you attack me!

You Alycia should have called me! And the rest of you...Please stop this! You know me from before...or at least I thought you did! You were my friends...I didn't do anything to hurt you!
~Andrea

oh my! I can't believe I am just reading this! how sad:( what happened?! am I going to have to go kick some butt???

I'm sorry for all parties involved. I'm sorry for Willow that she won't be getting Lexie.. who she clearly cares a lot for.. and I'm also sorry that True Reviews feels attacked and is upset.

Andrea I am sorry there have been some things said that hurt you. I think people just knew Willow was hurting and they were comiing to her defense. I think this is just a big misunderstanding. But i wish you and Willow could work this out for Lexies sake

I think all of this could and should have been handled before bringing it to the boards. Maybe it's about time we close this thread?

I am not biased as I dont know either of you. I feel bad for both parties involved...and I think there was BIG misunderstanding and sometimes we jump the gun without thinking before we post. I hope you two will work things out...life is too short girls...try to get over the hurt and talk to each other..you both want a loving home for Lexie and maybe this can work after all...Im sure you two got along up until this point and Im sure you can again. I really want to see this work...come on girls lets forgive and forget pleeeease.

Dawn

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Actually, when I talked to them they said I wasn't being a bother at all and I feel I had every right to talk to them since in our agreement I would have been giving you an AKC male puppy from my Maddie as you had expressed that you really wanted to get into the AKC's. As a breeder, I would not let a puppy go to a home who's vet I had NOT talked to.

I think it's always important to get two sides to the story before jumping the gun and passing judgement. I don't know the parties involved (though, I did read the original post about poor Lexie's ordeal), and looking at this thread objectively, it does seem like people were making assumptions. Seems like things didn't work out due to a miscommunication - only the two parties involved know all the details.

Sorry to hear that Lexie is under so much stress. I hope she recovers quickly.