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My family is jealous! My kids and my husband has all admitted that they are jealous of Lillie, they say that I spoil her way to much. My daughter says that I love her more then I love her lol I don't mean to treat Lillie with more affection and it's not true that I love Lillie more. I tell them that I love everyone equal but they don't believe me. I don't know, but ever since I lost Kloey, I'm just so overly attached to Lillie. If you have never lost anyone that close to you, you just can't understand the bond that I have with Lillie. I think Kloey brought Lillie and I together and that makes the bond so much stronger. I wish my family could understand this. Is your family or kids jealous of your baby? |
Yes, sometimes hubby and I argue over Siu Pao. He thinks I am overprotective and spoils him too much which in my opinion, he is not overspoilt. |
My kids (who are grown now) say I treat my furbabies better than I ever treated them...:eek: I tell them that my furbabies don't give me half the grief they did....LOL. But they know I'm teasing. I have great kids and great furbabies!!!!:D |
Oh, sorry for your dilema. My son was that way for a while but I just informed him that his toys were more expensive then theirs. And besides he hangs out in his room all the time with his friends and they are always with me so yes they are going to get more attention. How old is your daughter? And yes you are going to have a special bond with Lillie especially after the loss of your other little one. This is only natural. |
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my hubby has more than once commented how I have given more attention to my furbabies than him . . and he is ABSOLUTELY right :D |
She is so tiny she needs extra attention. I am lucky in that my husband and my 15y/o son love the baby girl as much as I do. We all spoil her to pieces and protect her like a winning lottery ticket. The humans will be ok |
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I am sure my husband loves me but I think Tinkerbell and Chiquito show me every moment I spend with them:p Without saying any words:rolleyes: |
Yep, my kids will tease and say I love them (dogs) more. My youngest says if he and Cooper were hanging off a cliff, that I would grab Cooper and wave to him, LOL. Of course, that isn't true, I would grab them both :D My oldest tells me that Cooper and Carley are "spoiled" and that is his jealously coming out. My sons are both off to college, though, and I think they understand my babies have helped me through this adjustment of their going off on their own. Luckily, too, my husband is just as crazy over the furbabies, so he isn't jealous. I think he is also happy they have helped us with our adjustment in our boys going off. These little guys depend on us for everything, so they are more needy than our people are of us. |
It's just me and my baby so I don't have that worry. I can tell you that I am very overprotective and paranoid about Horatio because I had lost my girl 4 months before I got him. After I lost her I was sure I could never love like that again. I'm so glad I was wrong. |
Definitely!!! My hubby gets irritated at me for yelling at our Eskimo to stop snarling and snapping at Angel. I know she is old, but she is very well aware that the puppy is going to look at her and start barking, but she'll come where she is anyway and then start this behavior. Hubby says the pecking order is Sissy and Angel first, he and the kids a distant second (He is not correct). My kids don't give me crap cause my daughter has her cats and my son misses Sheena so much he printed photos of her and she sits on his desk at work in SC!! And, I believe my aunt sent Angel to me. Sometimes it is scary just how much these pups mean to me. But I can't imagine my life without them and for however long they are with me, I have gotten so much happiness and love from them, every carpet stain and tooth marked piece of furniture has been worth it!! |
yougetthesmiles - You have an expensive age group of kids too. I just wish that when I was younger that I had all of the things that our skin kids get these days. Hubby doesn't feel too left out cause he is smitten with the pups too. But he is a bigger push over then I am. |
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They do all roll their eyes at the things I buy the dogs. They think I am being cruel with the clothes, think one carrier was enough instead of 3 and don't comprehend the real need for 832 toys. But they let me indulge myself once in a while without too much teasing. Our 4 dogs are a part of the family -- never before or even equal to our human members but they are still an important part of what makes us whole and happy. |
My son is super jealous of the dogs. My daughter loves spoiling and loving on them as much as I do:D |
my boyfriend is sometimes jealous of lexi, he also says i love her more, and he's right!!!:eyetearss :eyetearss im cracking my self up right now |
Yes, my children stand their with their Gene Juarez haircuts, their coaches purses, wearing their Hollister/American Eagle clothes and like to tell me I buy everything for the dogs. Everything in the house is for the dogs!!! :eek: good grief, like I do nooothing for them. pleaaaseee |
hmmmm.... Well Missy, what do you think my family thinks with all my poopers? hahaha!!! I have 3 boys and a husband and they all think that I love my dogs more than them. They are teasing....I think. But like someone else said the doggies dont back talk or give you any grief. Unconditional love all the time. All they ask for is to be loved. I can not believe how much Lillie looks like her mama! She is the spitting image of Daisy Duke---beautiful!!! |
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I think when husbands loves and spoils the babies as much as we do, there will be no problem. There will be problem when there is gap. Although my husband has learn to love our Siu Pao, he will never reach the level of me loving Siu Pao. When Siu Pao pee and misses the box a little, I'll just go "Oh, not again Siu Pao" and that is it...my husband think that I should give him a tap on his butt which I simply don't find the need to at this point. Its not like he is biting me or something worse than that. Then hubby starts to force his point of view on me and I start to feel protective and the argument starts. Sounds silly but it happens. :rolleyes: |
I love my husband and three skinkids but I always tell Finnigen I love him best. He loves me unconditionally, always eats his supper, never asks to have friends over or to be driven anywhere, and most of all, never asks me for money!!!! Shar-Lee & Finnigen |
My 17 year old macho boy is extremely jealous of my pups. He says I love them more and treat them better. Well, why wouldn't I treat them better - they don't sass back and call me names and put down, do they? :D They don't leave their clothes lying around and they love ME unconditionally! Some kids.... :rolleyes: |
I have converted my hubby into a dog lover..........he is a cat lover but had never owned a dog until now...........at first, he was jealous because he didn't understand.........now he is equally as loving ;) |
No kids for me except 3 teen nieces. The 13yr is so jealous and I havent picked Sam up yet!!! She told me thats all you ever talk about now and you just buy him stuff, you love him more!!!! I think its funny. |
I do not have any kids but my BF often says that I do more for Zoe than I do for him (totally true). Zoe's my little baby!!! He needs the extra love. Who else do they have but us? |
well I'm glad I'm not the only one lol we went to the mall last night and I took Lillie with us and she was in her carrier, it was so funny cause you could see her little nose sticking out of the holes lol we got stopped about 4 times and they asked, "is there a dog in there? I said yes, and of course I had to show her off! My hubby and kids would just stand there and roll there eyes lol Everyone just loves her though, she gets so much attention. There all so smitten by how small she is, and most everyone says " is she full grown? How old is she? Will she get any bigger? But we had fun and Lillie loves going bye bye! Jill, I cant wait to see Daisy again in March, I hope you can make the B_day party!!!!! |
I didn't get my girls until after all the kids were gone. My 3 children live on their own, the last one (still in college) just realizing how spoiled she was. She often makes statements now remarking about how she didn't realize how spoiled she was, until now and if I ever feel a need I can treat her to things TOO! I know she is jelaous and she doesn't see half of what I go for the girls! :p She doesn't want to understand when I spend $$ on the girls, because she does want me to spend it on her. I tell her she had her chance, now it's "mine" I choose to buy what "I" want for the girls. My older daughter says nothing, My son (middle child) rolls his eyes, smirks and says "Mom I don't think you flipped to much, as long as it makes you happy, it does & it shows" he smirks again. I know he is surprised (all 3 are I guess) but he is the most supportive, altho I would love to know what he is really thinking:D |
I am the one thats jealous here. My husband gives them both more attention than me. :rolleyes: My daughter makes jokes about them being my favorite children ,I tell her hell yea!:p |
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