I'm missing my little buddy something fierce! I thought coming on YT tonight might calm me down but it just made it worse. Looking at all the darling furbabies and I'm blubbering like a baby. For some reason, I'm just missing Indy so much today. I've been near tears all day - doesn't take much and I'm grabbing the tissue box to stem the tide. I went to Animart's close-out sale right after work to see if there was anything worth getting and found myself with all kinds of things in the basket for Indy. So I had to go put them back and that started the crying all over. What in the world is wrong with me? It hasn't even been a month and I'm struggling like crazy. It doesn't help that Tink put all his toys in her house. She just lays on them, she won't play with them. If I try to get her to play with them, she just takes them and puts them back in her house. She took his blanket and put it in her crate at the back and she sucks on it. Makes me sad. I know I'll get over this, just need to get it all out of my system. My daughter is back at school and no one else really understands how much I loved him. Thanks for letting me vent. |
I was so sad reading your post on Indy (rip angel boy). Bighugs to you. |
I feel so sorry for you. :( Major *hugs* I hope you feel a little better soon. Everyone has those bad days every once in a while. |
I'm sorry:cry: I know how you feel, I still have days like that:( It's been three months today since Starr died. I can say that days like this do get further apart, tho. You are a loving Mommy who lost her child, and there's nothing to "get over". You HAVE TO greive, that's the only way to get through it. I don't know if we ever get over this pain, but it does become less sharp as time goes by. :girl_hug: |
hi i know hoe you feel too.i loss my toy poodle last year.he is only 2 years old.i miss him every day.and cry a lots at night time because he always sleep next to me.they said time will heal.but i don;t sure for me .it so hard. hugs. |
I'm sorry you are missing him so much. But you do have to grieve as you lost someone very precious to you. It sounds like Tink is missing him too and has his toys with her as a result. Only time will make you smile again. Sending you big hugs. |
I am so sorry for your loss. I went back and read your threads of Indy. I have no Idea how you must be feeling since this is the 1st time I have ever owned a pet. After reading your post I was in tears, thinking of your loss. It was the loss I felt when my mother died. I know now with my girls if anything happened, I would feel that loss all over. I never understood before now, that a pet feels like one's child. I know it is soon, but maybe a new little one could help. It would never take Indys place in your heart, but it might help your heart to heal faster. Sending prayers your way. |
I don't think you ever get over losing a little one you loved -- but we do get through it. The other day, I was looking for something and came across one of my late Maggie's bows. I welled up and had a little cry. I thought I was done with the tears because I can now remember the good things and even talk about her. But I guess every once in a while the loss is especially poignant. My Jack Russell went through a morning period afterwards too. I don't think she got past it until we got new Yorkie puppies. Now she has her paws full and is happy again. Hang in there, grieving is natural -- you loved Indy and miss her. I pray for comfort and peace for you and your little Tink. |
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Indy. |
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your baby. I know it is so hard. I still miss my babies that have passed on over the years. The other day I opened a drawer that had their collars with their tags on them. I total wave of sadness passed over me and I had to stop looking at them. I hope your friends here on YT give you some comfort in your loss. |
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand how you feel. I lost my darling Spitz a few years ago and every time I think of what he does to make me laugh, I could feel my tears welling up in my eyes and I miss him dearly. |
Not that this is the same, but I haven't been on this site for a year because I lost my dear husband to cancer. It has taken a year to feel alive. He died with Chloe and Lacey in his lap. I treasure this memory and I have found that I should not try to stop the hurt, just fill it with good memories. You don't want to forget, you want to remember the good times. I will feel the same about my two yorkies. They are precious, I don't want to forget them, remember them with love and joy. Your beloved pet is the same, remember with joy and with sadness, embrace it and it will eventually help. Good luck. |
i just went back and read the post about Indy and i started crying. I can't even imagine what your going thru because i've never had a pet as long as you did that meant the world to me. I'm so sorry you lost Indy but you did the right thing for him. Your lucky to have a vet as a good friend. And your lucky to have Tink help you thru the tough times when your missing indy. He'll always be in your heart, and you'll always have all those years of memories to look back on and enjoy. |
hang in there Quote:
but as they say, "to never feel pain, is to never have loved" (or something like that) .... so buy more tissues and hang in there .... my thoughts are with you. |
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:::Giving you a hug:::: |
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