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Kerri, Sending you lots of hugs. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. You had such a difficult decision to make but know that you made the right one for Flossie. I'm so glad to read that you got to spend some final moments with her making even more memories to cherish and help you get through the coming days and weeks. Rest in peace Flossie! Suzi |
loving isnt for whimps Peace to you my friend .... |
I am so sorry. :( I am sending you a big hug. . |
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I know you're in pain,m but I hope that by sharing this with your YT family, it has lessend your suffering a little. |
My heart was breaking as I read this.. My prayers are with you and your family Kerri. Just remember Flossie will always be in your heart. When I was pregnant with Megan I spent 5 weeks in the hospital with complications. While I was there my sister had to take my dog, Holly, and put her to sleep. She was only 9 but had diabetes and was very sick. I remember being in the hospital and being so upset that I couldn't see her just one more time. I just cried and cried. But you always have the memories and once you start to heal you will look back and smile at the memories. Best of luck! |
my heart is breaking for you, must be soo hard, but just think she will be with your Mom ! |
I'm so Sorry! I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. I hope you will find strength to get through this. Try to remember all the good times you had. :cry: |
I'm so sorry for your loss. You did the right thing although I certainly know it's the hardest thing. Flossie is thanking you for letting her go and remember she's with you in spirit. Take care. :crying: :tinyheart |
Hello I know you are feeling guilty. I did too. I had to put my Nikita down because she had cancer and was suffering. I can honestly tell you that you won't feel guilty after you do it instead you will have peace knowing that you didn't let her suffer. I am so glad that I let her go in peace instead of torment. You are doing what is best for her and I commend you for it. I am sorry for you and your loved ones..god bless.. |
I just talked to my sister for the first time since this morning. She had to hang up on me. It was very hard for her as well. With Flossie being 18, many people at the vet. knew her well. Three ladies were crying too. My sister doesn't think she can even make it to work this afternoon. It is going to be really tough going home this afternoon. |
I'm soo sorry. It will be extra hard for the next couple of weeks. It's okay to cry. Flossie, is out of her pain now, you did what was right! |
So, I have cried constantly on my way home from work...a 45 minute drive. I tried to let it out so i could be strong for my son. My 7 year old yorkie is looking for Flossie. This is so heart-breaking. |
im soooo sorry. cry all you want. its not good to keep it all in. im crying right now but just think shes with your mom now. hugs!!! :hug: |
I have cried so much that my contacts are a complete fog. I looked out my kitchen window and seen my husband with the drill...meaning that he was securing the lid on the box. That was something I did not need to see. I have so many mixed emotions. I miss her so much already but on the other hand I feel bad for making her suffer as long as she did. I see my two yorkies (Jake and Jasmine) playing spastically and I'm reminded that Flossie hasn't been like that in a long, long time. I have a tough road ahead of me, that is for sure but I know my Mom is smiling down on me with tears of joy! |
Reading this post i feel it was me writing it,i went through the exact same thing with Lucky my 'Cocker Spaniel' I didnt want to let her go over the bridge,i wanted her to stay with.... In the end i had to do it for her.....she was asking me to please let her go & i couldnt let her go on for me...but to let her go for her.... I love her so much & think of her every day.....she was so special,like all our pets are,more so she saved my 3 yr old daughters life... She was my life & she still is... i hope it all works out for you... |
Flossie was a pure ANGEL in my eyes. Having her made me feel like a part of my Mother was still here. Letting go makes that much worse for me. My other two yorkies, Jasmine and Jake, are very special to me but Flossie had a special place in my heart. My son just asked my husband earlier... "Daddy, do you know where Flossie is?...She is in Doggie Heaven where she will feel much better now". That stopped my tears for some reason...at least temporarily. He is exactly right and that is the story I told him this morning when I thought I was going to be strong when we both had tears streaming down our faces. I keep checking to see who has posted back. I am better at typing my feelings rather than saying them in person. |
You know we have lost 3 of our furbabies since September and when ever we go out to eat and the kids get Balloons when we get home we always look up to the sky and say here you go Buddy,Bear and Shadow we love you. And that makes it easier for me to deal with it and when it rains I tell the girls that it our pups thinking of us. So sorry for your loss hope that helps.... |
{{{{{{{Keri}}}}}}}, Yes, it is so hard, especially since Flossie also kept memories of your mom close by. It might help just a little to know how happy your mom would be for your love and care of Flossie and she would not want her precious dog to suffer. Now they're both happy and together again. Have you buried her yet? Maybe having a little graveside "service" with your family would help some? Julie |
My husband buried her this afternoon but I wasn't there. He is planning on making her a headstone by this weekend. I need some closure but not this soon. I disposed of the pillows and towel that she has slept on the past week. They were in rough shape from the smell. Everytime I go in my laundry room, I still look for her and make sure I don't step on her because she couldn't hear or see. I'm sure she is giving me a big thank you right now but I have to get through these next hard few days. She cried all morning and kept trying to poop. That is the last I remember of her. When I petted her and loved on her this morning, she was terrified and did not want me touching her. I should feel relieved to know she is much better off and I do to some extent. I just MISS HER!!! |
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Today was a better day for me. I only slept about three hours last night off on and on but I woke up with a different attitude. The guilt had finally left me. I realized that Flossie was no longer suffering. I prayed last night that I would finally see the reality in the whole decision and I think I finally have. Of course I still miss her but what pets do you actually get to spend 18 years with? I was totally blessed with her presence so long. I still tend to look around for her just out of habit I guess. She will forever be in my heart. I remember the suffering times but I'm trying to just remember her in her good times. |
God bless you miss Flossie! May you rest in peace sweet Angel! |
My heart goes out to you, I know what it's like to lose a pet. I know that there is nothing I can say to ease your pain but i just wanted you to know that if you need to talk i'm here.. |
I end up in tears whenever I read this thread about Flossie. You are right...she's no longer suffering, but it is so hard to get through the grief. I have been through this before and my heart goes out to you because it just hurts so bad. Best wishes to you and yours and Flossie shall remain forever in your heart! *HUGGGGGGGGS* |
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