Thanksgiving I am in a quasi dilemma. I am going to my sister's home for Thanksgiving and originally was going to leave Boomer and Thumper at home because she is having a lot of people and it would be chaotic at her place. Also, I didn't feel right imposing on her. Well with Boomer's recent diagnosis emotionally I do not want to leave him home all day. She said it is fine if I bring them but I am nervous as there will be small children running around and many people. At home they will be in their routine and sleep most of the day. Originally, I was only going for dinner (she live 1.5 hours away by train) however, now she would like me to come out earlier to help entertain the kids while she is cooking. Also, I haven't seen my niece or nephew in a while so it will give me extra time with them. If I leave the boys home I will probably be gone at least 12 hours. They will be fine as they have the entire kitchen to roam, food, water, and pee pads for their comfort. I don't know what the right decision is. I don't want to base if off my emotions because than they will come with me but what is right for Boomer and Thumper. |
I missed the thread with the diagnosis (sorry, I have barely been able to sneak on here compared to last year!) so finding the specifics of that might change my opinion but my inclinination is to leave them at home, I feel like they will be more relaxed and happy together at home with all of their needs met in their normal safe space than in a crazy rowdy house with wild children (I have several, that isn't a knock to mamas but coordinating the care of small animals and children is a huge job for everyone's safety and emotional well being). They will be excited and wondering why you weren't home when you get back but I feel like that would be the best and safest choice for them. |
I agree with Lilah Charm. Leave the babes at home where they'll be safe and comfortable and oh-so-happy when you come home. That way while at your sister's you won't be distracted and nervous and always checking on your little ones. You'll be able to concentrate on you family, the festivities and simply enjoy and relax for this one lovely day. I think going alone to your sister's is thee best decision for all concerned--and everyone will be the better for it! Happy Thanksgiving! |
You are both right. I think it is just an emotional feeling that I always want them with me but they will be much happier at home. Boomer was just diagnosed with early stage kidney disease so I have been giving him extra hugs and kisses this entire week. |
I'm very sorry to hear about Boomer, but all the more reason to leave your little ones in their own comfy home; I mean, I'm thinking that little B certainly does not need any unnecessary upheaval or stress right now...He just needs (with your love and care) to concentrate on getting well! |
I definitely agree to leaving them home away from the hustle and bustle of lots of ppl and kids. When I had my 3 pack they came everywhere with me, holidays with my family was spent constantly watching where my girls were, making sure they didn't run out of the door when someone came in or out. But they were my kids lol and like toddlers, they HAD to be watched. Leave the babies home, you'll be able to enjoy the time with your niece and nephew and not worry where your boys are. Have a fantastic, enjoyable holiday. |
Is there a quite room he could stay in? You could check on him. If not I agree to let him stay at home, if you had a neighbor that could check on him once or twice while you are gone maybe? I know with my pups I am always torn between having them with me and the anxiety they have in new places. |
Update I ended up leaving the boys at home and it was a good thing I did. The kids were running everywhere in the house playing. It looked like a tornado hit when we left in the evening. The dogs would have been in the way and I would have worried too much about their safety. I think I am going to do the same for Christmas as it will be the same situation. |
When I have to go out of town for holidays and such I take Cali's stroller and she stays in that. I usually park it near me, and out of the way. The kids know it is out of bounds, and we usually do well. Of course, it has to be said she is very used to and comfortable in her stroller:D It does create a nice barrier however and the top closes to discourage too much handling by others if that is a problem. |
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