Frustrated Ann, thanks for closing a previous thread..... But, I have to say I have been away for awhile because I have been so very busy.... I was asked to give some insight to a situation, so I happily did and it became out of control. I'm just frustrated.... Sad, and frustrated. That's all I can say..... 😢 |
sorry to hear you're upset! Life is like that sometimes. I know if you are like me your first instinct is shake the person till their teeth rattle, but after deep breaths you realize that is not going to help. So say a prayer for them and dump it off your shoulders. Tomorrow is a new day.....Hopefully yours will be better. |
I completely hear you, my friend. I know how frustrating people can be sometimes, I'm right there with you on that one :eek:! Try not to let it get under your skin too much, though, bc no one deserves to have that kind of power over your emotions or state of being/mind. Sending you a big hug :)! |
I'm sorry Kendra, it frustrated me too and I feel bad asking you to give some info when it turned out like that. |
Kendra, you offered your expertise to someone who unfortunately has a problem with being educated on a subject. You are the one I would direct anyone who needs info as you have Baby Mack and have done wonders with him. You imparted your knowledge and are always there for people who are in need of it. |
I haven't posted on here but felt the need to right now. This forum is super helpful to me. Before I got my Yorkie I came on here and read a ton of threads. While I am no expert on Yorkies, the knowledge I gained was immense and invaluable. Many of you who were being helpful in a recent thread were many of the members who shared advice and opinions that I found (and continue to find) helpful. Please continue to be awesome and supportive. I am sure that even if your knowledge and advice does not get through to OPs, there are lurkers and future members you greatly benefit. (Btw, my Yorkie boy is turning 2 next month and the reason you may not recognize my name is bc all the advice I've read has kept me from needing future help. And even though I come here every now and then to see if there's a question I can answer, you amazing members are always already on it!) |
Kendra, I totally understand your frustration. You were so kind to offer to help someone in a situation where it seemed like he would greatly benefit from the knowledge that you had to offer. Not many have the experience that you do. But he already knew everything there was to know. So sad. I'm glad that thread was closed too. Bless your heart. I guess we can only pray for that baby. |
Thanks to you all (& especially foster2owner)..... I have to remind myself that this is what this forum is all about.... People learning and growing. But, sometimes when it comes to certain topics, they hit a soft spot. I'm usually a very open minded and open opinuated person.... But, sometimes, in certain situations, I just can't be. This topic has haunted me for the past few days.... I hate that I can't seem to shake it. There is a few things in ones life that becomes very personal.... And Blues have for obvious reason become one of mine. So I know I should "shake it off", but I just can't. So please just say a prayer.... Not for me, or my precious Mack, but for that sweet little girl. I just hope and pray she's ok. |
And double ugh!!!! Tried to send a pm to see if she's ok and I guess she's been banned or something!!!! What the heck is that going to help???? I'm going to go away again. Can't handle this stuff... Wish you all the best and know I love you and your babies very much. |
Sorry you feel frustrated, I thought your replies were wonderful, you do give hope, but you don't rose-color the situation. By the way, before you click on a thread, it will tell you how many replies it has and also it will tell you how many people who have viewed the thread. On average, 10 times more people have viewed a thread than have replied to it, so don't worry, your words will make a lot more impact on most who aren't feeling so defensive. Maybe when the original poster of the questions can get over himself, he will be able to understand where you were coming from, but I guarantee you, you are helping others. |
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Don't go away. It's people like yourself that make this board the most helpful site I have ever seen. There will always be disagreements. But walking away would be a loss for everyone else. Please reconsider. :ghug: |
I guess I missed what happened. I haven't been on as much either. Good ole life likes to throw curve balls you know. Sorry to here about the frustrations Kendra. Keep your chin up and sending you yorkie kisses from Rosie, Mikki, and Lily! |
KendraE please know that you did what you could. I'm sure that one day somebody sincere and open-minded will have a blue born and they will find that discussion and it will help them, and maybe they will contact you and be grateful for your advice. BTW, the OP isn't banned, they were suspended. I think suspensions are a temporary thing (MOD, is that true?), so perhaps you can check back in on the thread at a later date and you will be able once again to send them a private PM. |
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dog There are lots of heartbreaking situations we deal with. People say things they are sorry for later. I always start each day on a clean slate. Let go of all that negative stuff from yesterday. Forgive the hurt and start new. I taught children and they knew the trouble they were in the day before was never carried over. Forgiveness is a great lesson Jesus taught us. We have peace when we forgive and start brand new each day. |
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