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How insensitive. Maybe I am hyper sensitive ... but I lost my lexi early this am you would think people could just say.. hey I am sorry, My condolences ... But no you've got to have that one jerk off that says.. "Well just get another dog":eek:. Now I am not saying I wont get another furbaby... but geez... Could they please show a little respect ... its not even 24hrs yet... Just really pissed me off ... Sorry for the rant but I had to get that off my chest.. |
Sorry to hear about your loss and about someone not understanding that loss. Obviously, they have never been loved by a pet or loved a pet. Otherwise, they would understand. |
So sorry i know you are heart broken, dogs tho dogs cannot be replaced like you do a set of tires. Some people just dont know how to consol. Or understand I greaved and wept a solid month when i lost my 17 year old doxie. I waited after the loss of my other dogs . But hurt so bad after my doxie i jumped right in one week and got my pap. But hind sight i wish i would have waited. Because for me and her it wasnt fair to her. Everyone is different. How long did you have your doll baby? Answer only if your ready to talkabout it. If not i understand. |
I am so sorry for your loss of Lexi. I am so sorry also for the insensitive people that you have encountered. |
So sorry for your loss. Some people just don't get that our dogs are part of the family and loved in that way. I hope the person who said that to you was not a YT person. Prayers and hugs for you. |
Sorry for the loss of your lil Lexi...When I lost my first yorkie I couldn't go to work for a week, I couldn't function, could not think straight, all I could do was cry. I was told "it's just a dog". People that are not dog lovers just cannot understand. Everyone in my life now, knows what my babies mean to me. Ignore the words of these ppl, they cannot understand. (((HUGS))) |
I'm sorry for your loss. Feel bad for him he obviously has not experienced the love of a dog and that's sad. |
I am so very sorry about your loss. |
So sorry for your loss. Some people are just jerks. |
You know, there's one in every crowd, its a shame you had to deal with that immediately. What an a$$. I feel for you, what a loss, so sad to hear. You take care and try to surround yourself with those who "get it". |
I am so sorry that you lost your dear little one. Some people just don't get it. I'm sorry they were so insensitive. |
I'm very sorry for your loss (((HUGS))). People like that are insensitive jerks, and it's best to ignore whatever they say. |
Thank you everyone for your kind and thoughtful words... It really helps a lot. I was so angry yesterday I thought I would burst into flames when this idiot sad that. I am in a better place today. But missing my girl. Again thanks you guys. |
May I too join in your vexation. Insensitivity is just a failing that fortunately none of us who have replied share. I can only begin to comprehend your feelings at this time and hope at 69, that I go first and my wife has Crystal. To now live in a world without her would be impossible to sustain I fear. My sincere thoughts are with you. |
I am so sorry for your loss Lexi . So many just dont "get it" when it comes to us and our furbabies. It is their loss they have never had that love we have and are experiencing with our furbabies. |
Ukeke, I wrote this after a very vivid dream one night, almost ethereal! I sat upright and the words were already there - I hope they help. 'When I look each new morning into your beautiful bright clear eyes I value with all my soul the time with you, that each dawn buys My days pass quickly now and you are just a child with youth to share and games filled with barks and growls and glee When I'm sad, you can't understand, the gathering shadows that I fear, for I am sentient, human and know one day soon, what must be Forgive me when I have to leave, but steadfast I'll await your greeting call, no longer a tired old man, but like you now - unpained and free Trust me little friend, asleep now by my side, that one day we'll run forever, denizens of a kinder land, where our love will always be'… |
I am so sorry about Lexi. It is so hard to lose them. We never have them long enough. Worse still was that you had to deal with insensitive comments immediately after a devastating loss. I hope that was an exception, and you are not faced with further insensitivities. My deepest sympathies. RIP sweet Lexi. Hugs |
I am very sorry for your loss, {{HUGS}}. |
I am so sorry for your loss Sending you prayers and a poem for comfort. Remember Our Love I was chosen today I'm learning to fly the world took me away, but please don't you cry And I chose you today to try and be strong so please don't you cry and don't say that I'm gone When you're feeling alone just remember our love, I'm up near the stars looking down from above. Remember our love In a moment you'll see that I'm still here beside you when you're thinking of me. Julie Epp |
I am so so sorry for your loss and sorry that you have to deal with insensitive people. Prayers for you and little Lexi. |
So many ways to show an insensitivity to others but being crass and thoughtless about a dear dog's death by suggesting you only have to get another dog to fix your grief and pain is right up there among the top of the list. I'm so sorry you've lost your baby and know you are hurting more than you can say or even know yet. Take your time, cry, hurt and grieve your great loss of little Lexi - it's what you need to do in order to heal one day. And as horrible as you feel now, you will slowly heal. You will always miss her, can never replace her, not ever. But, eventually, when you are ready, I do hope you can have another great love like you had for sweet Lexi romping around in your home to remind you that her loves lives on and grows through you, reaches out and finds another who needs it. There will be a little doggie out there who will need a wonderful, forever home when the time comes. Your Lexi would hate you to spend your future always lonely for more sweet doggie waggles, cuddles and kisses. |
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