| matese | 12-27-2014 05:38 AM | Sorry, after I shot off the reply I read your post again and saw there was a time issue as well. Yes 14 hours is a long time, been there but had no choice. I lived in NY, and was down to 2 pups 10 y/o and 5 y/o,They were completely house broken. I was forced to move from where I had been renting for 22 years. The landlord told neighbors I better be careful walking the dogs, there was rat poison laid down, No one would rent to me because of the 2 dogs, I was not going to put my dogs down or try to re-home them,they were my babies. I had a summer home here in The Pocono's. My friends were trying to convince me to move to Pa. to my summer home but the thought of commuting 1 1/2 hours on a bus to my NY job was a bit over whelming as I am subjected to motion sickness, didn't know if I could handle the rocking and rolling of a huge commuter bus , but giving up my dogs was out of the question, so off to Pa. I came to be able to keep my babies. I had to re-train them to pee & poo on paper again, I was gone 15 hours a day. I had only 4 hours when I came home to devote to me, the house and the babies, I went to bed at 11PM got up at 2AM, left the house at 4AM and returned home at 7PM. Had only 4 hours to devote to me, the house and the babies. I felt very guilty about them having to be alone so many hours even tho they had each other. I tried to console myself with it's better they are alone then to have been put down, or separated, to re-home no one would have taken both of them, one being old at 10 y/o, they would have died from broken hearts if they were separated, and I just could not part with them. My week ends were devoted to my pups. But they were already in my life and I was not giving them up. They adapted to their new life. But I would not advise anyone that does not have a dog to get one if they will be alone for more then 10 hours. I did it because I had no choice. You are wise to wait until you have the time to spend with one. I now have a little adopted 3 y/o boy as my 2 little girls are now past, I am retired now and devoted to this new guy, I give to him all that my girls missed in the 10 years I commuted to work, kinda trying to make up to them the time they lost being with me. When the time is right for you, you will be devoted to that new baby for denying yourself the love, joy and companionship only a yorkie can bring. Good luck |