| BobbiB | 08-26-2014 05:39 PM |
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Originally Posted by chachi
(Post 4481294)
I know you did say that you hoped anything was taken wrong but it was a little too late. I just didnt understand why you were taking this position with this person. I just ask everyone who is excusing the way this thread went and how the OP had to just give up how you would feel if you were new and it seemed everyone on the forum were coming after you over things that when it really comes down to it are unimportant and really this persons busiiness. Bobbi when yoou were new I reamed you and I regret it and Im sorry. I could have driven you to the point of not returning to the forum and would that be fair or right. I learned from that thread though and what I learned was I may believe that what I have to say is very important and needs to be said but there is a way of saying it that the other person will accept it and not resent or argue with you when yooou say it. All of this could have been handled differently to get this person to an understanding not making them feel ganged u[ on, badgered or feel they have to give up
| Honestly, my original distaste on this post came from the blatant disregard of the pros of spaying. The second was the cavalier attitude about it. The third was then being regarded as rude, which I never was.
If I'm being honest, and this is not meant in a mean way,
YT is the kiddie pool of message boards to me. I've been on much, much more raw, honest forums. I would have never just left because a few people have strong opinions because, frankly, I have strong opinions too. But I do make extra sure that while I am being honest, and I may not coddle, I do not set out to be rude or break terms. I still stand by my opinion that I've done neither. I do apologize if I've offended, again, but I did not do so intentionally, nor did I break YT terms. | 