| Britster | 07-09-2014 06:09 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by Batgirl38
(Post 4462293)
I agree. Keeping a pup and you're almost never home is not good for them. The puppy needs love & attention....I think rehoming is a good decision so the puppy can get the attention he needs. Do what's best for the puppy by all means. | This isn't a puppy though. I could understand if you had, say, an 8 month old dog and you realized it just wasn't fair for it, I would honestly feel a little different. Not that a dog is not bonded to you at 8 months, I know Jackson was, But after a dog has been with you for 7yrs? It just... rubs me the wrong way. Obviously the dog has been okay for the past 7yrs living this lifestyle. I don't understand what's so dire about this situation for the need to rehome. The dog isn't in danger or having health problems not taken care of. I guarantee you 90% of dogs in this country are at home for 8-10 hrs a day by themselves but as long as they getting the proper exercise/attention when you ARE there, I don't see the problem. And obviously the dog is used to being left while the owner goes on trips/etc now. And I am sure the dog is super excited when you get back.
I guess I would just ask the OP to imagine going away and then the dog that has shared her life with her for 7yrs NEVER seeing you again. Will the dog eventually get over it? Likely. But then you hear stories of dogs who have been missing for YEARS or someone found a lost dog and took it as their own and then they come back home and immediately remember who you are, too. And dogs who keep running away trying to find their deceased owners, etc.
I'm not saying that all people who own rehomes have dogs that don't love them or miss their previous owners. I know plenty of dogs that would perfectly content going home with anyone. My grandmas Goldendoodle would probably happily go into anyone's car or home and be happy for the rest of his life because that's his personality. And dogs are wonderful, resilient, forgiving little creatures.
But in this case, I just wonder why. I don't feel the reasons are good enough and choices will be regretted years from now. But maybe I'm wrong. |