Hat disappointment Got Coco's beautiful little red hat today in the mail. It is truly beautiful and the quality of work is awesome. Buuuuut, that's where it stopped. I opened it up in the mail and was so disappointed in the size. The hat will do her no good to shield her eyes from the sun. The picture was a bit deceiving. It pulled her eyes back in a stretch. I really wanted to just cry. The hat is such a pretty hat and I couldn't hardly wait for it to come in and now this. I paid $40 plus shipping and there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I gave the woman the measurements she required and we were back and forth messaging each other so that it would be correct. Just so disappointed that it's all for nothing. :cry::cry::cry: I did send an email to the woman I bought it from (through Etsy) to let her know of my disappointment. I wasn't hateful or ugly but I needed her to know that it wasn't as I expected. I think it must be more of a showy hat. Her clothing that she makes is very expensive and classy so maybe this hat wasn't supposed to be for actual use.:idontknow I just needed to vent and I guess get some sympathy. Sorry. |
Aw man that sucks, I'm sorry~ you should take a picture of Coco in her hat, I would love to see it :D Will the lady make a new one for you? |
Well, the lady that made the hat for Coco is going to remake it for her. I couldn't believe it when I just got the email.:happyboun:happyboun She wants it to work for her for it's intended use. She told me that most people want the small brim so it was never discussed and there was no mention of the width in the description because that's how most people want it. Like I figured...it's more for show than an actual use. So, now I have tears of joy. I don't dress Coco but I have been so excited to buy proper things for her that she really needs so I just want you all to know that we're not spoiled snobs and I'm still learning this "new mommie to yorkie" thing so I guess that's why the tears. IDK, maybe I'm a bit hormonal:rolleyes: |
Ah that's great!! Glad to hear she is going to remake it for you... I have found usually people that make clothes for furrbabies are usually really kind hearted- That is awesome of her. OMG who said anything about you being a snob?? LOL Girl you are on YT! Most of us members have closets of clothes, dressers of collars, toy boxes of toys,, etc I have had Peanut for 6 years and he has a lot of items.. and Yes I will tell you like I tell my DH " He needs them"! :D |
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You are toooo funny:yelrotflm:yelrotflm No, no one said or has accused me of being a snob but I just wanted everyone to know that I'm not in the habit of spending that kind of money on a hat but this one was so pretty that I just couldn't resist it. |
Oh that hat was awesome. I am so glad that the woman is willing to remake the hat for you. She is a wonderful vendor. Great customer service |
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About the hat..... I just wonder if there is a way to keep the hat from tipping down on her face. I mean...dogs don't have a forehead like humans do so a hat like that with a brim could very well just tip down onto the nose and she wouldn't be able to see where she was going anyway. Just thought I would mention it before anymore expense went into the project. They do make some nice sunglasses for dogs if the sun is an issue for her. |
Perhaps it wasn't intentional but I found it to be very offensive. |
You can't make comments like that in public. This is a public forum & there's all kinds of people from different parts of the world. I also took offense to it. |
Reprimand Ok, just to let everyone know that has verbally bashed me for my comment, I was reprimanded by the administrator. It was not intended at all to be racial. I wasn't thinking when I said that and I meant no offense to anyone of any race. I am sorry for the offense, it wont happen again. I'm really surprised that I got pounced on that hard when I truly meant no harm. I was upset when I got the hat and was all but in tears. Again, I am sooo very sorry. |
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bashing: - definition of bashing: by the Free Online Dictionary, Thesaurus and Encyclopedia. bash•ing (ˈbæʃ ɪŋ) n. 1. the act of beating, whipping, or thrashing. 2. a decisive defeat. 3. (used in combination) a. unprovoked physical assaults against members of a specified group: gay-bashing. b. verbal abuse, as of a group or a nation: China-bashing. How ironic! |
Lets not forget, admin is also Asian. |
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I was raised that when I do something wrong their might be punishment. We learn, we move forward. But those that continue punishment are just as wrong in their lack of compassion. I learned my lesson and will never purchase any more products from a biased person or company again which is my constitutional right also. Now, you profess to know me so well, let me tell you something you don't about me. I am of a ethnic race also so why would I intentionally offend someone?? I am Native American Indian. If you want to play the race card, well then my people have been here longer than any race. Another thing, I don't believe I'm stupid an need to be reprimanded as a child using a dictionary definition. Are you trying to belittle me??? I cam on this forum to learn about yorkies since I am a new owner and I have learned a great deal, but I thought politics would not play a role here. Again, I was reprimanded by the administrator which is the ONLY one entitled to do so. Anymore reprimands from you will be considered harassment and I will report this to the administrator myself, even though this is monitored I shouldn't have to. |
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Now, I'm a nice person and I've tried to do the right thing but there is a time to let it go. |
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Jenny/ Priscilla I know you took offense to the statement she made, but it has been dealt with.. on top of that she came on an apologized for it. I’m not understand why you both keep going at her. |
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I have to say that I am very happy the etsy seller is going to fix the hat for you. That's awesome hope we can see a pic of her wearing it when it is to your liking. ;) |
@Coco no offense taken :)I read your original post and saw that you were upset about the hat not fitting correctly. I don't think you meant to offend anyone but it's nice that you apologized to those who were offended by it...btw I'm of Caribbean descent and have "slanted" eyes:hug: |
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