I dont know what to do....
 

I am Soooo torn!!!

Ok... Many of you know that we are considering adopting another baby...

We have zoomed in one baby in particular....

But then... There's this thread on this blue born... By mollymccagain.... And she can't decide what she's going to do with him...

I would take this baby in a heartbeat... But she isn't sure what she's going
To do.... But I have to tell the other breeder something before
Long...

And it kills me to know she may place him where he won't get the proper vet care... And I've pmed her to no end... I don't know If she knows how to ck
Pms.... I have googled and can't find her...

WHAT DO I DO???

I went to her page thinking she may have posted another way to contact her but I don't see one. Gosh Kendra, I don't know what you should do. Maybe just post it on the thread that you would love to have him if that is what they decide to do. As far as taking the other baby or waiting for this one (if it works out), you have to follow your heart. Let it guide you on what to do. In the mean time, we will pray for the right decision. You would be an awesome momma to the pup. Praying it works out for you.

Thx.... My heart is bleeding for this blue baby... And why?? I know what heartache may come with him...I just can't stand the thought that they don't know what they are getting into.... I am fully aware of the obstacles we may run into with Mack... Luckily for me, his finances aren't an issue and we will do (and spend) no matter what it takes for him to live as happy and healthy life as he should....

And then there's another thread on some "chocolate" pups... Which are most likely not even pure yorkies... Why do people do this!!! Argggggg!!! I am beating myself up!!

I think you just answered your own question. :) You need to let her know that you really want him if she decides she don't want to keep him. You know what to do and how to take care of him. And not having finances as an issue is a huge relief. Follow your heart Kendra.

I agree with starting a new thread. With everyones help we can keep bumping it til she gets it. Also on topic I would put her name that way she would be sure to check.

We do it because we care. I too worry about babies I will never see or know. I don't know what to advise you my friend. I too have asked for updates about the blue baby.
We can pray about it and see what happens. Hugs

She says she may give him to her 70 plus old neighbor just to keep him close... Cam this neighbor rush him to the vet if need be?? Heck!! Look at Mack!! Use him as an example!! We have protected him beyond measure!! We love him to NO end... But we take our FULLY immunized baby to get a routine neuter and microchip and he comes out with PARVO!!! These babies are different... They don't have the same immunities.... They are special... Omg!!! I hate the way I feel!!!

Have you tried to explain this to her?

I want to.... Jut haven't had the opportunity to do so..

Well, you need to find that opportunity. They may have no clue about all of the expense. Hmmmmm, wish I knew how you could.

Me too!! I have put the "thought" out there... I've pmed her several times... I googles her zip code with what I think is her last name... I don't know what else to do...

I didn't read the whole post. When you put it out there was there a response?

Kendra, I know you want to help this little guy but please don't go in to this without thinking it completely through. Can you afford the time and expense of taking on another blue baby? I know your heart is in the right place, but I don't want to see you getting your heart broken or Max getting short shrifted.

Just a thought and not a criticism.

And a very good point.

Now guys, I say this with love...this may be getting a little out of hand. She came to weigh her options and seek advice. She is getting attached to her baby as we all do. She's keeping the thread updated (as late as today). If she isn't responding to a PARTICULAR inquiry, she may be feeling a somewhat "pressured". I get a little bit of, "You don't know what you're doing with that dog and I could be so much more of a better mama than you, your neighbor, and anyone else in the world you can think of." I'm sure you don't really mean that and you seem like the sweetest person but it does come across that way somewhat in the postings. If she gave the pup to her neighbor, who is only in her 60's btw and could easily outlive me, you, AND a pup, she could still see him and I'm sure that is a plus! PM's aren't too confusing. Anyone who can navigate here and set up an account can most likely get to those easily. I wouldn't take kindly to being chased down on Google. I'm just saying...I know it's all about love but I think you might scare the lady. No criticism, it's all for the furballs. Just giving you another perspective. Wishing the best for both of you and all your babies!

I get that. and no disrespect intended... I guess it's just best I put this pup out of my mind....which I will now do.... Thx for putting it into
Prospective....

So what happens now?? Are you going to go with Jackson?

I didnt get from your posts that you were pressuring her into giving you the pup. I just saw where you said you had experience with blue borns and would be willing to take the pup. The truth is it is the best scenerio that these type of pups that have an uncertain type of future go to someone or a rescue with experience dealing with a dog with disabilities.

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:thumbup: I know your offers weren't meant to be pressuring but I also think that maybe she isn't responding to you because she indeed is feeling pressured/bullied. All we can do is educate and we all did that by responding to her original thread about what a blue born is and what types of health problems it MAY have. You made a gracious offer to take the pup if need be and if she doesn't respond so be it. Mollymccagain has options but ultimately it's up to her to decide. No offense but personally, I'd be very freaked out if someone Google'd me and on top of that started a thread about possibly "adopting" my dog. We only know small bits and details about this woman's situation and her neighbor's too. I'm sure what's meant to be will happen and you'll find a pup for you :)

Pressured but then feels the right idea would be to rehome a special needs puppy with a 70 year old looking for a mellow companion? I hope the neighbor has experience with special needs dogs and has the resources to accommodate otherwise that could be a difficult situation...I think the OP is unsure.

Kendra did no pressuring at all she offered. Getting too excitable for sure.

I actually did more pressuring than anyone else with my single comment.

I fully agree with Chachi's comments 100%

However I also see how maybe the OP may be feeling pressured, weirded out a bit for sure too, especially if they read this thread.

It was never intended that way the OP was originally stating they did not know what to do with the pup...hence the situation.

Kendra imagine yourself in the OP's shoes when you started posting about Mack...now rest at ease whatever happens will happen.

I feel you should pass on the pup from your original breeder for all the reasons listed on that thread-it's my opinion you will make your own decision.

Either or I hope it all works out for everyone, mostly the blue borns.

Yeah..And I agree maybe I did come across as pressuring, although that was not my intent at all!! She states that she is falling in love with him...and I hope she does and can keep him and love him dearly. I would still love to visit with her about him...just to pass along information I have learned in the past 9 months with Mack.

Its not that I feel I am the only person alive who can care for him....I just don't want him sold or given to someone who doesn't understand his potential problems, but it sounds like the OP isn't going to do that, which is a great relief!

I sure hope I haven't scared her away, (and by her last post in her thread, I don't think I have) but, I would like to have a long term friendship with her no matter who has the pup...(assuming she keeps him) just to compare notes on the two boys.

My biggest concern is the pup...like I've said before, they didn't ask to be born, much less be born "extra special"!!

I have faith that what will be, shall be....and I am ok with that!