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concretegurl 10-04-2011 11:55 AM
Yes as many others have noted: better to know sooner than later.

I don't care of my dog's have a soul or not, they do however love unconditionally.

Now that you met an honest jerko, beware of the fakers who are so nice and smiley and then the true colors bleed through...

So awesome to see all the Yorkie and Dad pic...someone should start a thread of Yorkie and their Dad's on Yorkie talk! I unfortunately have to admit my Yorkies barely tolerate Dad here because he's all about the lil big meanie mini schnauzer...she's such a lil bully to my Yorkie boys.

Lil Sis 10-04-2011 11:55 AM
wow--- jerk is too mild a word!!!

I am sorry for your loss, and I am glad you are starting to get back on your feet!!! AND I think you were LUCKY to find out this guy is such a low life NOW

capt_noonie 10-04-2011 12:17 PM
Post his full name and picture! LOL

People who say dogs don't have souls don't have souls themselves.

hnybun128 10-04-2011 12:37 PM
I'm really glad you found out who this guy is up front. There are plenty of animal lovers out there who will appreciate someone like you!

BellarousasMom 10-04-2011 12:42 PM
"he told me they have no soul and can't love, I was shocked and then I told him my little guy aways sleep in bed and always would be."

And God has breathed life into every living being, whether it is a human or animal.

And the more we all get to know people the more we LOVE our furkids.:)

hnybun128 10-04-2011 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by BellarousasMom (Post 3683637)
And the more we all get to know people the more we LOVE our furkids.:)
Amen!

Jennxling 10-04-2011 12:49 PM
With that attitude, good luck to HIM finding someone!!! Peanut's got more soul than he will ever have!! Don't feel discouraged, there are guys that will love Peanut. I have met MANY that loves dogs! You know...they say you can attract girls by getting dogs...but I think it can also work in reverse! :p

My lil friend 10-04-2011 12:56 PM
No need to ask him WHY he is alone,pretty obvious.
Glad that was over with quickly.
The right person is out there,dont hurry,just remember to have fun and LIVE.

margaritaville 10-04-2011 01:13 PM
Sorry for the loss of your husband.
That guy is a jerk. Good thing he showed him self and you didn't waste any more time on him (he has no soul).

Teresa Ford 10-04-2011 01:43 PM
Been there . When my husband died, my little Noah was the only thing that kept me getting up, day after day. My beliefs would not allow me to take my own life with a gun or pills, so I prayed to die. But, when I woke up I had to take care of my Yorkie. Walk him, feed him, bathe him. Thank God for him !
The guy was a jerk. He tried to make you feel bad about yourself. I am pretty sure our dogs will get to heaven easier, than he will !

Roxiesmama 10-04-2011 02:36 PM
What a jerk...you don't need him for sure!

I just finished reading Heaven is for Real - an amazing story of a little boy who "went to heaven" while he was very sick and undergoing surgery.
According to this little boy, there are dogs, and other animals, aplenty in heaven and I believe it.

MikaTallulah 10-04-2011 03:01 PM
He is the one with no soul. He won't find love.

Paisley-n-Me 10-04-2011 03:07 PM
I agree, he was a jerk. I also agree that it's good you found out now and didn't waste your time on him! :)

chestermama 10-04-2011 05:13 PM
what a turd, you deserve better than him

Ahis_Mama 10-04-2011 05:41 PM
Definitely a JERK! I think that when you go on other dates they will need to pass your Yorkie test. If your babies don't like him...then that's the sign that says "gots to go" ;)

yorkiemini 10-04-2011 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted by addevo (Post 3683431)
That guy is definitely a jerk. To him I say "good luck finding someone to deal with your selfish and uninformed attitude about animals." Good riddance to him, he didn't deserve you.

I also have a husband who is crazy about his little yorkies. We were at the beach one day in early Spring a few years ago, and he was worried that little Tina was getting too cold, so he put her inside his sweatshirt. See below. Tina passed away last winter, and this is still my favorite picture of her. She looks so content.
Outstanding picture!!!!!

silverjoy 10-04-2011 05:57 PM
JERK!!!! for sure!:thumbdown

Jacksmom052709 10-04-2011 05:58 PM
Jerk is being nice!!! Like many others have said, he doesn't deserve you!

My husband did not want me to get a dog when I brought Jack home. It was hard to say no to the little stinker (he only weighed 1.25 lbs when I brought him home and now only weighs 4.5 lbs.) I think my husband spoils him more than I do... My point is, men do love dogs just as much as we ladies do and if that guy doesn't understand how an animal can return love and be the perfect companion, then he truly does not deserve you!

You need to move right along - next!

Yorkiesatwork 10-04-2011 06:03 PM
I love the "Move right along -- NEXT!" comment. Many times in our relationships it's as much about saying 'no' to the wrong relationship as it is about saying 'yes' to the right one. If you are mired in a bad relationship, you will not be able to see the right one come along. Pet hater? Good BYE! Cold hearted?! Go AWAY! Leave the path free and clear so you may recognize the right relationship when it comes along. Chances are that person will come with a pet that he/she is worried about being accepted. if someone has a pet in tow, they have a kind heart.

Kate 10-04-2011 06:06 PM
Well, one thing you found out sooner than later is that he is not the man for you. I truly think that people who dislike animals don't have a heart.

Anyone who dates me has to put up with getting me home in time to let her go potty. Even though my back yard is fenced in, I don't have a doggie door as I worry hawks, etc., may fetch her. The good news is that my parents live across the street so she is never alone for long.

We are a team, and it will always be that way. Love me, love my dog.
I have yet to date a man that I look forward to seeing more than my Yorkie.
LOL Some act like they are crazy about her, but I know better.

I am truly sorry for your loss.

Be careful, and be safe.

AprilLove 10-04-2011 06:26 PM
Most defenitely a Jerk! You deserve better than this person, and the blessing here is that you found out his true colors before you were invested in a relationship with Mr. Jerky jerk.

Sandysbabies 10-04-2011 06:41 PM
Dogs are such good judges of character. Glad this ones come out before you got too involved. He did you a very big favor when he showed his true self. It would have been terrible to have found out later.

yorkiemini 10-04-2011 06:45 PM
Interesting that today, October 4th, is the traditional day for the Blessing of the Animals at many churches based on St. Francis' caring of the animals.

If that "jerk" cares nothing about animals chances are he has trouble caring about people -- good riddance you don't want him in your life :aimeeyork

renee6645 10-04-2011 08:56 PM
I always tell my children this and I firmly believe it. When our time comes, we'll be judged by how we've taken care of those who depended on us (babies, pets, the sick, and the elderly). Don't worry about that dude. You dodged a bullet with that one.

concretegurl 10-05-2011 12:35 AM
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Originally Posted by renee6645 (Post 3684150)
I always tell my children this and I firmly believe it. When our time comes, we'll be judged by how we've taken care of those who depended on us (babies, pets, the sick, and the elderly). Don't worry about that dude. You dodged a bullet with that one.
:goodpost:

Lisa and Pic 10-05-2011 01:13 AM
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Originally Posted by katy-yorkie (Post 3683428)
Think I'd call him more than a jerk. You don't like my dogs, you don't like me.
100% agree

gemy 10-05-2011 02:46 AM
I have to say I agree with everyone else. Jerk is too kind a word, for that kind of treatment!.
At least his mean spiritedness, showed early on.

LBelle 10-05-2011 04:29 AM
I think your former beau is the one who "has no soul," certainly not these precious little dogs.

Some men totally love dogs - my husband is crazy about ours! He actually gets up @ 4 a.m. to give them a TREAT! They have got him SO TRAINED, LOL!!!!! They bark @ him until he gets up and gives them a treat --- they don't do it to me, because they know I won't get up @ 4 a.m.!!! LOL

This guy is a empty shell who cannot love. You don't need this in your life. You need a partner who feels the way YOU do!

Hang in there! :aimeeyork

gracielove 10-05-2011 04:50 AM
All I have to say is BE VERY CAREFUL dating. At least this guy was honest. I married a guy who pretended to love, not just like, my beloved Maltese. It did not take too long after we were married to find that he was just pretending to care for the dog. I had been very honest about the fact that I loved animals and wanted more when I was able to have my own place. We got our own home and he did nothing but complain about my dog and everything else for that matter. It turned out he was a totally dishonest person who could pretend to be whatever people wanted him to be. It took several years to find out what I was dealing with. I'm divorced now and much happier but the trauma of those years is still with me. There are all kinds out there so be very sure of who you are dealing with.

VickiG 10-05-2011 05:34 AM
When I got home yesterday from work Peanut was so excited to see his Mommy, all I can say is his loss and my gain. Yes I am glad I found out before I invested any time into this guy. Thank you everyone.


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