Should I get a second dog? Hi, I need some reassurance on this. My Yorkie has been an only dog all his life. Jake is 13 years old and in good health. Dog friends have been suggesting for at least the last few years that I should get a second dog because, among other reasons, it will be company for him (I work all day) and when something happens to Jake, it will be a little easier for me to handle my grief. Jake is ok when other dogs come over unless they try to sit in my lap, then he starts getting jealous. If he would be sitting next to me on the couch and another dog jumps up, he would either try to scare off the other dog by snapping or just getting up and going on another chair or more likely in the bedroom. I don't want to stress out Jake, but I want to do the sensible thing. I have trained dogs in obedience, including showing. I can handle a second little guy in regard to environment and costs. I am looking at rescue/shelter dogs. Thanks |
To me at age 13 it seems like it would be harder on Jake. He has all your love & attention, and by his reaction to other dogs on you shows that he doesn't care to share it. But only you could really know what would be best for Jake. Good luck in your decision! |
I have to agree with Karen's post that it may actually be harder on Jake. He's been your sole dog that you've doted on for so many years. He may take well to the newcomer or he may not. How is he with other dogs? Have you had any other dogs at your house with you? Maybe it would be worth a shot to have a friends dog come and stay with you for a couple of days so you could see how he would react to having another one there before you make any decisions. |
I agree with Karen. He is happy being an only baby, so why upset what he is used to. My Noah lived to be almost 19, so your sweet Jake may have many more years too. If you think you will adopt a rescue or puppy, don't forget that they will require time from you, that you could have spent with Jake. If YOU want a second baby go for it, but don't get one to keep Jake company. This is only my opinion, of course you should do what seems right for you and your family. Hugs |
Morgan is 11 weeks old and I have a 9 yr old papillion and they get along pretty well/ my papillion lets morgan know when it is enough and he is learning to leave her alone when she does not want to play |
No he has been the only dog long enough that he most likely not take well to a new addition. He deserves to be the pampered pet in his senior years |
I think he needs to remain the only dog at this time in his life, and it won't hurt less to lose him just because you have another dog. |
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I enjoy my guy so much and despite the fact that i always wanted the second one never had the courage to just do it. Now that my life is so busy and somethings have changed i regret it. i should have added another one when i had all the time. I am planning in the near future, hopefully next year to add a second. If things get busy again i know they have each other as company. My Maxx is very attached to me, but he is great with other dogs too. If there is any jealousy it probably will be just until he realizes i have enough love for both. That is what i am going to do. |
I am not telling you what to do, but if I were in your situation, I wouldn't get another dog. My Macy is 7 years old and she doesn't like to play dogs. Been the only dog her whole life and I don't want to ruin our relationship together. If I were to get another dog, I wouldn't get to focus on Macy 100%. Sure, it is nice being able to give a dog a new home, but your dog's feelings are important, too. I hope you do what is best for you and Jake. :) |
Growing up we had a little POm. She was at leat 8 yrs old when my parents decided to bring home a new pom puppy. Although our pom was really good with other dogs she never tolerated the new puppy 100%. I know that this was a mistake and unfair to do to the senior pom. One thing that a older dog does not need is stress. I would wait and not bring home a puppy . But if it were a dog at least 2 years old then I might consider it. I would make sure that my older dog would be very good and not stressed out though, plus I would take every percaution in the world. |
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I agree with the other posters. I wouldn't get another dog. I got Daisy when my Lhasa Muffin was about 12 yrs old. Even though she grew up with my Schnauzer, she wasn't really accepting of a puppy and she seemed depressed. Daisy was very energetic and wanted Muffin to play with her. Muffin had Cushings and just wasn't up to playing with a puppy. What ever you decide, I hope everything works out. |
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